Why do you need male attention?
Almost every woman dresses, puts on makeup, and does her hair for a reason, but for someone. After all, you want someone to like you, to be loved and desired. There is an opinion that the male gaze is necessary as a breath of fresh air. This is why women always want to keep themselves in shape.
A man's gaze gives energy to the weaker sex. Scientists have proven that when a man shows signs of attention towards a girl, endorphin appears in her body, which is regarded as a hormone of happiness. This gives the weaker sex a lot of strength, vitality and good mood.
How to accept a man's care
First of all, a man wants to see that his care is pleasant and necessary for you, that it makes you happier, reveals your femininity, and arouses admiration for your loved one. Therefore, never reject the care of your man.
For example, if your chosen one decided to surprise you, but you didn’t like the gift, it’s best not to focus on it. Think about the fact that a man spent effort, energy and money to please you, and he did it voluntarily! It is best to express gratitude, and only then, after a while, delicately hint to your chosen one about what exactly you did not like about his sign of attention. Next time the man will definitely take your wishes into account. If you frown or are offended, then the man will probably want to surprise you again.
Standard signs of attention from a man to a girl
Each person, be it a man or a woman, has his own individual character. One can show attention actively, speak everything directly and frankly. The other behaves more passively, fearing for the words spoken. However, all men are capable of giving compliments. Women love with their ears, and most representatives of the stronger sex know this.
Men give flowers. This is standard courtship that will not leave any woman indifferent. However, before you give a bouquet, find out what flowers the girl likes.
Many men give gifts, because it’s no secret that girls love surprises. This could be jewelry, soft toys, candy.
Many men give perfumes or cosmetics. However, do not forget that it is better for a girl to choose these things herself. Before you give them, you must be sure that they are suitable for the lady.
If you want a girl to remember you from time to time, give her an indoor flower. This is a great gift. When she waters it and takes care of it, she will always remember you. Beautiful paintings or figurines will regularly remind the girl of your relationship.
It is not necessary to show your attention with expensive gifts, an invitation to a movie or a restaurant. Many women don't need this. Respect her and she will give you the same respect.
Nonverbal communication as a method to decipher feelings4
Body language, gestures, facial expressions will tell about a man’s true feelings just as well as gifts and compliments. It's no secret that lovers' eyes give them away. A man’s energy changes and one feels an inner glow and warmth, peace of mind, and a light half-smile hints to others that he is far in the clouds and is not worried about pressing problems.
When communicating with a man, the first thing you need to pay attention to is posture and body language. When the object of sympathy appears on the horizon, vanity and slight excitement begin, hands do not find a place and often, in order to hide this, a man hides them in his pockets, touches his belt or puts his hands on his waist in order to unconsciously look more confident. Then the man will definitely become dignified, turn his chest and shoulders towards the object of his love.
The body demonstrates confidence and the desire to show itself as an advantageous partner compared to other men. This is not consciously controlled, behavior changes automatically, nature has provided men with mechanisms of unconscious behavior to attract a partner.
Psychologists say that a person transmits about 50% of information using non-verbal signals. And the face reflects all the emotions that the man carefully tries to hide. The eyes always glide over the woman's body, without focusing on the chest. The gaze of a man in love wanders during her conversation with someone, appraising. When a conversation is being conducted with him, the pupils are dilated, and he practically does not take his eyes off his face, looking at his interlocutor for a long time and warmly. The eyebrows rise slightly, the nostrils flare, the breathing becomes deeper.
A gentle smile constantly wanders on his face; the most stern and reserved man smiles with his eyes. The emotions when communicating with the person you are in love with are genuine. A gaze is replaced by constant visual control of the object of love, the desire to be close and to prevent rivals from approaching always takes over.
In addition to facial expressions and body language, you need to pay attention to speech. All signs of a man in love, one way or another, with good self-control can be hidden or disguised. It will take years of practice to mask your speech and completely control your trembling voice. During a conversation, a man tries to make his potential partner laugh; at the first words, his voice trembles treacherously and he wants to clear his throat and slightly lower the timbre of his voice. Smooth and beautiful speech becomes confused, more emotional coloring, details, jokes, and metaphors appear.
At the same time, there is active gesticulation and slight swaying of the body. It is very important that when telling jokes and stories, a man looks at the object of his love and tries to capture her emotions and mood. Nonverbal communication gives strength and desire to behave more relaxed, to take risks and return again to the time when he was a boy and his voice trembled from his first confessions, his palms sweated, and his face constantly changed all shades from snow-white to crimson.
Does a woman always need compliments?
Girls like beautiful words. However, do not forget that they must be from the heart. A woman feels flattery immediately.
For a girl, a person’s attitude towards her is very important. A woman loves compliments, but she must see sincerity in your eyes. Even in intonation, a lady is able to sense falsehood.
Creativity in compliments is very important for a girl. Tell her about her hairstyle or dress. A girl will be pleased with such a compliment, because she tried to create her image for your sake.
Original signs of attention
If you want to give a gift to a girl, then make it unusual. Originality is the first thing you can do to surprise your loved one.
Give her a surprise. If a girl likes practical gifts, then the present can be related to household appliances. Of course, first it is advisable to find out what exactly your beloved wants. Her friends will be happy to tell you.
As a rule, many men invite the girl they like on a date to a cafe or restaurant. You can make the date unusual. For example, invite her to the theater or the circus. Perhaps your loved one will like an amusement park. Even adults love to have fun like children.
Almost every person will enjoy boating or motorboating. Invite the girl to spend her leisure time on the water. Take provisions with you and set sail. After such a walk you feel tired, but it is very pleasant. Such entertainment will raise you in the eyes of your beloved.
Serenades under the window used to be in fashion. Why not take advantage of the hint from the past? After all, at that time men knew how to surprise and conquer women! Come with a guitar and sing a heart-warming song under the window. Few will remain indifferent after the serenade.
Write a poem for your beloved. Girls like such original signs of attention. After all, it’s not every day that poems are written in her honor.
Remain attentive to your chosen one at any time. Try not to push her away, help her in everything, support her. Make your chosen one's life varied. A man who shows original signs of attention has a better chance of winning a lady.
Signs of falling in love depending on a man’s age2
It is very naive to hope that an adult and accomplished man will behave like a boy and blush at every glance of his passion. It all depends on the man’s temperament and the characteristics of his behavior, but common signs in the main age groups can be identified.
- Youth. At this time, boys pay more attention to the fullness of feelings, emotions and platonic love for the object. The desire to see a girl and be in her company constantly prevails. Feelings of sympathy, delight, passion mixed with jealousy, if someone approaches the adored girl, are overwhelming. Pure delight and a kaleidoscope of emotions!
- A guy from 20 to 30 years old is still a boy at heart in the body of a young man. The desire to surprise and amaze, to show that he is a prince on a white horse, to shower him with gifts and to pull a star from the sky prevails. A big boy can behave both inappropriately and constrained, hiding everything inside.
- From 30 to 40 years old, feelings shift more towards physical interest and the desire to be intimate in bed. A man’s actions can also be reckless, bold, with a desire to amaze in scale, attract a partner and have sex with her as quickly as possible.
- From 35-40 to 45-50 years old, the actions of a man in love are dominated by reason, thoughtfulness, and interest in a woman as an individual. The desire to surprise and interest still does not disappear, but it becomes more meaningful. Falling in love no longer carries the desire to get you into bed; walks and long conversations are unlikely to interest a mature man. Every expression of love is now done with the expectation of a long-term relationship.
- After 45-50 years, a man focuses on starting a family, behaves with restraint, may not open up for a long time and from the outside appears closed and withdrawn. Everything is connected with accumulated experience, partly negative.
Everything you need to know about why a guy behaves like a girl is already in our article at the link.
A little about obsession
Very often, signs of attention from a man are too intrusive. This can irritate a girl.
This manifests itself when a man can call many times a day or write letters on social networks. Many ladies don't like this behavior. Therefore, the relationship that the young man dreams of does not work out.
When a date doesn’t work out, try not to write or call that day, but give your loved one time. She must miss you. Only then will the lady understand how much she misses your attention and courtship.
Obsession will not lead to good things. After all, every person should have his own personal life. Your chosen one also wants to have personal space.
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[The purpose of this article: to teach you to understand what impression you make at the moment... Often, when meeting a person, a person’s facial expressions change, this is very important to keep track of.. Keep a person in constant interest, catch his interest in you - this is the key success]
As you know, men and women use a whole range of gestures in the courtship process. Most gestures are made unconsciously, purely reflexively. The success of romantic relationships with members of the opposite sex depends on your ability to sensitively send courtship signals and correctly recognize those sent to you.
Raised eyebrows. When we see a human object that we find attractive, our eyebrows begin to rise and fall reflexively. If this object experiences reciprocal sympathy, his eyebrows also begin to twitch up and down. This movement takes about a fifth of a second, but occurs always and everywhere, at any age, in a representative of any gender.
The fact is that a raised eyebrow makes the view of the eye larger, and the eye itself is brighter, more attractive and open. This “shooting” of the eyes easily escapes the eye, but if you catch it, there is a 100% guarantee of sympathy for you. And if you deliberately lengthen the period of the “shot” even to one second, then the object you like is more likely to receive your “message”. Parted lips. If the person you are talking to likes you, his/her lips will automatically open slightly the moment your eyes meet.
Slightly widened nostrils. Raised eyebrows, parted lips and flared nostrils - within reasonable limits - give the face an open, friendly expression. The appearance of a blush on the cheeks also indicates an excited state.
It is clear that if you encounter a subject with bulging eyes, a slack jaw and flared nostrils, this is not good. But if a man listens to a woman with even eyebrows and calm, slightly closed eyes, this is also a bad sign: most likely, he is bored.
Stand at attention. This means that a man stands straight, shoulders straight, stomach drawn in, then he tries to show himself in all his glory. If he leans forward to listen to a woman, that's doubly good.
Feet shoulder width apart. This is not bad upbringing, it is a sign of sexual affection. Moreover, this does not depend on whether the person is sitting or standing. Men often strive to sit with their legs spread wide: often in this way they show the lady what he has, to offer her. It’s good if he’s still wearing trousers or jeans at this moment! Conversely, a woman who is defensive from a sexually motivated man will clench or cross her legs.
Playing with clothes. For a man, this means straightening his tie with a secret prayer that you will notice this movement. He can also smooth his hair, straighten his jacket, check the location of the lapels. But when a man plays with the buttons on his jacket, most likely he is nervous and at the same time demonstrating a subconscious desire to undress for you. The next stage is taking off your jacket and placing your hands on your hips. If a man has done all this, it means he already sees your shoes under his bed.
Playing with hair. To show her affection, a woman moves her head to brush her hair away from her face, especially if it is long. Also, to attract, she can simply brush back her hair with her hand. Licking your lips also sends the same signal. By the way, men also love to preen themselves: a woman never bothers to count how many times a man smoothes or, conversely, puffs up his hair in a conversation with her.
Voyeurism. The man openly makes it clear that he is examining the woman’s figure, focusing his gaze on the most attractive parts. Ladies, don't flatter yourself: he already automatically scanned your figure the first second he saw you. Now it is important for him to let you know that he considers you as a sexual partner.
Crossing your legs. If the toes of your interlocutor's shoes point in your direction, he/she is definitely interested in you. By pointing your bent knee towards the person in whom you show increased interest, you thereby demonstrate freedom of communication. A particularly seductive position is when a woman sits with both legs tucked under her and her knees exposed: this is strong evidence that she is inviting the man to take more decisive action.
Playing with cylindrical objects. Both a man and a woman in an excited state will definitely find a glass or glass, or even a fork, to stroke and rub with their fingers. For men, cylindrical objects resemble a woman's breasts; for women, they are a source of special male pride. A woman's wrist area has always been considered one of the erogenous zones. When a woman is interested in a man, she will try to keep her palms and wrists in his line of sight.
Touching the face. If the other person is interested, he will often touch his chin, ears or cheeks. This does not mean, as many believe, that a person subconsciously records a lie. This is a combination of nervous and autoerotic actions. When we like someone, our skin on our lips and lower face becomes very sensitive to stimulation.
If you smoke, you will puff a little more often. If you drink, you will take more sips. You touch your lips, you like it, and it also hints to the other person that a kiss is just around the corner.
Guiding hand. If a man supports you by the elbow or shoulder, this is a good sign.
- First, it is a polite way to guide you through the crowd.
- Secondly, this way he makes sure that you don’t get lost.
- Thirdly, this will scare away other attackers on you, because you already have a man nearby. Plus a lot of random touches: In short, it's a positive gesture.
[Few men will be happy if a girl comes back from a date wearing someone else's jacket. Even if without him she would have died from hypothermia. Men give their jacket or sweater because it is a protective, sexy and possessive gesture. He says “What’s mine is yours” (and vice versa). At first this thing smells like him, then it will smell like you. And, finally, he has a reason to appear on your horizon again - if only to take back his property. Have you thought about it?]
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