Every person at one time or another in their life has encountered loneliness.
Unfortunately, most people do not know how to be alone with themselves; they try to find happiness in others. Although sometimes it is useful to be in free swimming: you can understand yourself, solve some problems and prepare for new love.
But if this period drags on, there is nothing to be happy about. Women are especially worried about this. Everyone wants to start a family, have children, build a family nest, and welcome their beloved husband with a delicious dinner.
Lonely women can be seen from afar. Maybe that's why they don't succeed with men. Of course, they are all different, they just behave the same.
Below are 10 signs of loneliness that are not obvious to a woman herself, which give her away. If you also suffer from loneliness, try changing your behavior a little. So, let's begin.
Talk about love
Single women love to talk about love. They are happy to give advice, sit on various women's forums, read a lot of books about psychology and relationships between men and women. It seems to them that they know something about love that others don’t even suspect.
If a woman has a man, she will have no time to deal with such nonsense. She will not look for any deep meaning in the relationship. She will enjoy the company of her loved one and give him all her free time.
If your new friend likes to talk about love, then she definitely doesn’t have anyone.
Independent and beautiful
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Very many, even perhaps the overwhelming majority, are exactly like that. Beautiful, brave, always young and charming, self-confident. And this makes me very happy! Today's single woman is not the same as she was ten years ago.
The majority of modern free women are independent ladies who enjoy life, work, do what they love, know how to have fun and relax, and are actively involved in their own development.
This is exactly the kind of woman – not lonely, but free. She is well-groomed, dressed neatly and tastefully, loves and knows how to do appropriate makeup, and knows that she is attractive. Even if this woman has a modest income, she is still always neatly, stylishly and tastefully dressed and looks dignified. And in the life of such a woman, regardless of her age, incredible miracles are sure to happen sooner or later!
Excessive friendliness
An unfree woman often does not pay attention to men. She will not offer help to a nice colleague, nor will she answer stupid questions from strangers.
A lonely girl, on the contrary, is overly friendly. She wants to please men. She hopes that one of them will definitely appreciate her kindness (or maybe her slender legs and beautiful eyes) and offer to date her.
A single girl desperately looking for a relationship can be very clingy. She will offer help even if no one asks for it.
Making fun of married friends
A free woman will never understand the problems of a married friend. She will joke, tease, and may be indifferent or demonstratively dismissive.
This is how life works, and often the marriage of one of your friends destroys even the strongest friendship.
Most single girls will not support their married friends, they will not offer help, but will pretend that all these problems are not interesting to them. It simply doesn't matter to her.
In a circle of married friends, she will be happy to let you know how wonderful a free life is. But all this is nothing more than tinsel, she plays the role of a happy free woman, and she secretly dreams of a family.
She's a shopaholic
For most single women, shopping, trying on outfits and fashionable shoes, and buying all sorts of trinkets for the home is their hobby. If you want to meet such a lovely lonely girl, go to the store, and definitely on weekends. Such trips for them are a kind of ritual to which they can devote the entire weekend, since they have nothing to do: there is no family yet, no children either. So they pass the time by shopping.
Fight for attention
A woman actively searching is easy to recognize in a public place. She laughs loudly, jokes, tells stories, flirts, and always tries to be in the center of events.
She can irritate others with her feigned cheerfulness, especially if there is no reason for joy.
Active behavior is what makes a lonely girl stand out from the crowd. She wants to arouse interest among people of the opposite sex, strives to please them by any means.
Love for TV shows
If the life of a lonely girl is calm and measured, she does not have a large number of fans, she is not invited on dates, and her only entertainment is television.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that other women don’t watch TV shows and series, they just don’t have as much free time.
Another thing is single girls. For many of them, a TV show replaces their own life. Single girls are always up to date with all the news, they know everything about the latest programs and films and are happy to share their impressions.
She is too picky about her appearance and devotes a lot of time to it
At a young age girls,
consciously or subconsciously, they begin to look for a mate. Such a lonely girl can be easily identified by her appearance. She spends a lot of time on her appearance, and her only desire is to be attractive enough to look like a cover model.
If you notice a girl who seems to have just left a beauty salon, she is definitely lonely and is actively looking for a worthy mate.
Shopaholism
All women love shopping, but those who don't have a man shop more often. Shopping is a great way to kill time.
Walking around shopping centers is pleasant, useful and fun. There are a lot of nice men there. To attract their attention, you must always look good, and for this you need beautiful fashionable clothes.
Still, the most important factor that makes a woman visit shopping centers again and again is emotions.
Most often, the visitors to the stores are single women who go there “for happiness.” They want to experience the joy of their next purchase and, at least for a while, forget about loneliness.
She gives the man a test
For a woman who has been alone for a long time, it is important to understand what kind of man is in front of her, how much he earns and whether he is burdened with a family. Therefore, such seemingly unobtrusive questions follow each other. His answer immediately dots all the i's.
The man understands that he is being “tested” and that the woman is completely free from new relationships. If the desires of both coincide, this is a good sign. If not, realizing that the “sweet candy” is lonely and the man is not in the mood for a relationship, he quickly disappears.
Online behavior
Of course, single women are very active on social networks. They often post about love and willingly enter into polemics with people of the opposite sex. They spend a lot of time on the Internet, especially at night.
Such women will never refuse to communicate on forums, again, exclusively with men. On the forum, a lonely woman can be identified by her nickname. Either he is very loud - Cleopatra, Queen, Lady Bitch; or soft and gentle - Assol, Angel.
Causes
Printing occurs for the following reasons:
- Mistakes in this or past life. The seal appears because of crimes committed against love. You can incur a curse, for example, by cheating on a loved one or destroying someone else's relationship. Murder in a fit of jealousy, marriage for profit, cruelty towards loved ones can ruin karma.
- The highest stage of development in past lives. The seal is found in people who took a monastic vow in a previous incarnation. Such oaths continue to operate not during one life, but throughout the entire existence of the soul. They are eternal and it is almost impossible to destroy them without consequences. Another reason for the appearance of the seal is the achievement of the highest level of spiritual development. In this case, the person has already worked out family karma, so he does not need to enter into personal relationships. He faces another task - he must fall in love with the whole world.
- Ancestral curses. It can be imposed by a person from whom your ancestor stole his beloved or lover. Less commonly, the curse comes from a jilted ex-partner of someone in your family. Such influence is carried out in a fit of anger, for the sake of revenge. The rarest case is a seal imposed by the ancestor himself. The most powerful is the maternal curse.
- A curse from another person. It is imposed through gifts. Most often they do this to get rid of their own seal. In this case, a person is forced to live someone else’s fate and work off someone else’s karma. Such a curse can be received not only through a gift, but also through an inheritance. For example, in the apartment of a deceased grandmother, who lived alone all her life, a cursed thing remained. If you accept the property along with this item, the seal will be transferred to you.
- Self-installation of printing. Sometimes a person accidentally places a curse on himself. This can occur as a result of severe trauma. For example, with a strong shock after an unsuccessful relationship or as a result of improper upbringing in the family.
- Reverse energy strike. A curse occurs if a person himself turns to dark magic and tries to change someone’s fate. Often, a seal appears due to errors in the ritual, but if the impact was powerful, even correctly carried out manipulations can cause such a rollback.
Love for parties
What else can single girls do, other than sit at home? They regularly attend parties, nightclubs, and various social events.
Married friends are jealous; they also dream of such a pastime.
But there's nothing good here. Single girls go to clubs as if they were going to work; they have long been remembered by security guards and some visitors to the establishment. They come there not to relax, but to hunt.
This is hard work, first you need to find a victim, then attract attention, seduce, get acquainted. The older a woman is, the less chance she has. If the party was unsuccessful and she was unable to meet anyone, the girl becomes disappointed. She goes to her empty apartment or sits at the bar until the morning.
Causes of the “at least someone” syndrome
The “at least someone” syndrome appears for several reasons:
- A woman is alone for a long time. Because of this, her family, friends and relatives begin to rebel, and possibly even humiliate her. This is why a woman decides to have a relationship with a man who does not evoke any emotions in her. The main thing for her is to stop the ridicule.
- Fear that neither a good, nor smart, nor handsome man will pay attention to a woman . It arises when all her friends get married, and she can only play the role of the eternal bridesmaid.
Because of loneliness
- Emotional exhaustion that occurs due to worries about relationships. Then the woman decides to find at least someone, just to cope with the emotional load. This is how she protects herself from ridicule and reproaches from family and friends.
- Fear that a woman will spend her entire life alone. Despite the development of the modern world, some people adhere to established standards. They believe that a woman who does not get married before the age of 30 will remain alone forever. In order not to fall into this category of women, and not to spend her whole life with cats, a woman decides to have a relationship with any man.
- Complexity . The woman is convinced that she cannot be loved. Therefore, she decides to have any relationship with a man, just to feel needed.
Look and facial expression
A lonely girl is easy to find in a crowd: she looks at men appraisingly. When she sees happy couples, she may make a grimace or become sad.
However, single men also look at women appraisingly. True, only those who walk next to men. It’s as if they compare themselves with every unfree girl, trying to understand why she is better.
If an attractive man appears on the horizon, the one she has been waiting for all her life, her look changes, it is filled with hope.
Girls who are in relationships will never look like that, they have nothing to hope for.
Symptoms and signs
Common printing symptoms are as follows:
- Inability to enter into a relationship. In a severe form of the curse, a person cannot find a partner. He is not interested in people paying attention to him. As potential partners, the victim chooses those with whom he cannot be together. For example, married men. With a mild form of the curse, it is not possible to build long-term relationships. Their average duration is a couple of weeks, with a maximum of six months or a year.
- Unreasonable termination of a relationship. A partner may disappear without explaining anything. High probability of betrayal. Often, your partner simply says that he is not worthy of you. At best, it explains that you are different, although you do not see this as a big obstacle.
- Frequent conflicts. They arise for any reason, including due to trifles. A word spoken at the wrong time is enough for a quarrel to break out. Often such conflicts lead to a breakdown in relationships.
- Lack of interest in other people. Because of the curse, a person does not experience attraction to the opposite sex. He prefers other activities, most often useless ones. While his peers are entering into relationships, the victim spends time on TV shows, games, etc.
- Fear of others. A person may suffer from exaggerated shyness, bordering on phobias. He is afraid to even be the first to start a conversation. The victim experiences fear of rejection, drowns in his own complexes, and does not understand how he can be loved.
- Love of loneliness. Sometimes a person is burdened by the lack of social connections, but most often he prefers homework to communication. From talking with other people, the victim gets tired, begins to withdraw into himself, and experiences severe discomfort. It doesn't depend on the interlocutor.
In men
In men, a common symptom is sexual dysfunction. They are not attracted to women. Even if interest arises, it is not possible to have sexual intercourse for physiological reasons.
Among women
Women with a seal often treat men with great negativity.
The opposite situation also occurs - a girl really wants to get married, but she fails to do so.
Relationships fall apart as soon as it comes to planning for the future. Often women with the seal suffer from infertility. They fail to conceive a child, although all tests show that they are completely healthy.
