How to give a good blowjob: technique and opinion of men

There is no ideal technique - let's start with this. Love experiments, approach studying your partner’s body with all your heart and he will be delighted.

Here are the top best techniques, tricks and secrets that will make oral sex unforgettable. And for dessert, guys’ revelations about what they like most about oral sex.

Everything related to language

Tongue caresses are a kind of foreplay before oral sex. This is where beginners should start. Holding the penis in your hands, lick it from base to tip. And then move on to more complex techniques:

• Focus on what matters

Research claims that the head of the penis is the most sensitive part of the penis. If a man is circumcised, this area may be less sensitive, but you should still not deprive it of attention. Also, do not forget about the frenulum - it is literally stuffed with nerve endings

• Maximum stimulation

The top of the tongue provides slightly more stimulation than the bottom due to the rough surface that the taste buds create.

• Testicles

Be sure to pay attention to the testicles during a blowjob, as this area is very sensitive.

• Anilingus

It is not part of the “classic” blowjob, but skillful stimulation of the anal area can greatly increase a man’s pleasure. Not all men like the caresses of this zone and not everyone is ready for it, so you need to discuss this issue personally with your partner.

• Sensitive area

The area between the scrotum and anus also needs stimulation. This is best done with one slow movement of the tongue to the tip of the penis. To make it easier for yourself, press the man's penis against his stomach with your hand.

How to want to give a blowjob?

Many women wonder how to want to have oral sex. However, it is difficult to answer this question unambiguously.

To begin with, you should ask about your partner’s attitude towards this type of sex, then it would be a good idea to study all the information about blowjobs and only then decide whether you want to do it.

IMPORTANT: To get started, you can watch several video tutorials. Chances are that watching these videos will give you confidence.

It is possible that your partner generally has a negative attitude towards oral sex, this type of sex is unacceptable for him, then you should not bother your head with unnecessary questions.

However, if your partner answers your question approvingly enough, then perhaps you will immediately want to please him in bed, diversifying your intimate life.

IMPORTANT: Kissing, caressing the male genital organs with the lips and mouth is the limit of sexual relations for many men. Much of the pleasure in oral sex comes from the fact that it retains an aura of taboo, despite the fact that it is widely talked about and practiced.

High humidity2

Any guy will tell you that a good blowjob should be “wet.” But the problem is that sometimes there is not enough saliva. What to do?

To increase salivation, chew gum before a blowjob or eat a juicy fruit - strawberries, pineapple, peach.

And the easiest option is to stock up on edible lubricant. Choose a product that suits your taste (literally) and keep it always at hand, for example, in your bedside cabinet.

PS The “deep throat” technique also promotes abundant saliva production. When the tip of the penis touches the throat, the gag reflex is activated. As a result, active salivation begins. Thus, deep blowjob is not only spectacular and pornographic, but also practical from the point of view of that very coveted moisture.

How to give blowjob for beginners?

Blowjob for beginners is sometimes also called the classic technique. It is as follows:

• Cover your teeth with your lips
• Shape your mouth into an "o" shape
• You shouldn't strain your lips. To please your man, your lips must be soft and moist.
• With one hand, grab the man's penis at the base
• Start slowly sliding your lips down until you feel comfortable doing this
• At the bottom you should pause for one or two seconds, and then continue slow movements in the opposite direction
• The above method should be repeated
• Once this technique has been mastered, you can try sliding along the shaft of your man's penis with your wet tongue sticking out

IMPORTANT: There is an opinion that after a great blowjob, a man is ready to do everything a woman might want. Thus, we can conclude that by learning to give a blowjob, you can learn to control your man and satisfy your desires.

In addition to the classical technique, other techniques can be distinguished:

• Eskimo. This technique requires your nimble tongue and your man's penis. By pulling the skin on a man’s penis down with your hand, you should imagine that his dignity is a popsicle, and your tongue licks his head and shaft with special pleasure
• Passionate. This technique means that after tightly wrapping your wet lips around your man’s penis, you should create a vacuum in your mouth. And thus, without letting air in, drawing in the penis, move down to the middle of the trunk and back
• Deep Throat. This technique will be discussed in more detail in the sections below.
• Crazy orgasm. Using this technique, you can enhance your orgasm. To do this, you should block the channel through which the sperm passes with your fingers at the base of the penis, and after using your other hand and mouth, try to bring the man to orgasm. Only after the channel is unblocked does a crazy orgasm occur
• Kitty. With this technique, the tongue moves with caressing movements from the anus to the head of the penis, without missing a single centimeter and back
• Butterfly wings. The most sensitive area on a man’s body is the fold of skin under the so-called crown, two to four centimeters below the head. Any stimulation of this area can bring a man to orgasm
• Tea bag. With this technique, the man takes an active part and lowers his testicles into the woman's mouth, imitating the movements of dipping a tea bag into a cup of water.

Eskimo technique

Everything about the head3

As mentioned above, the tip of the penis (especially its lower part - the frenulum) is its most sensitive part. How will we use this information?

In the following way:

• Kisses

Cover his penis with light kisses from the head to the base and testicles. Do this with pursed lips, then slightly parted and moistened with saliva. And then move on to more active actions.

• Simple and effective

Holding the penis with one or two hands, begin to make slow circular movements with your tongue around the head of the penis. Alternate direction and speed. This simple technique alone can bring a man to a thunderous orgasm.

• Deep blowjob

Deep throat is a higher level technique. But if you do everything right, the man will not forget it.

• Urethra

Some men like caresses in this area, others do not. Try to caress the opening of the urethra with your tongue during a blowjob and watch the man’s reaction. If he doesn't like it, just move on to other techniques.

• Almost deep throat

Take the penis with your hand and press its tip against the inside of your cheek and tongue. The technique is much simpler to perform than deep throat tricks, but it will also bring a lot of pleasant sensations.

• Sky

Continuation of the technique above. The surface of your palate will give a man new sensations. The main thing is to do everything carefully and not scratch the man’s penis with your teeth.

• Hands and fingers

Nobody forbids you to take a break from time to time and stimulate your penis with your hands. Use more saliva or lube.

How to start giving blowjob?

How you start having oral sex depends directly on the time, the place, and the desires of both partners.

Men love it when a woman takes the initiative and puts her tender fingers right into his pants, and, having groped the jade rod there and pulled down the man’s pants, begins oral sex.

IMPORTANT: Very often both partners are turned on by the spontaneous start of a blowjob, so if you decide to surprise your man and give him extraordinary pleasure, you can use this technique.

The girl took the initiative into her own hands

Up and down4

Most men dream of giving a blowjob (statistics show a record 87.6%), but if you are not confident in your skills, it is better to start with simple movements of the tongue up and down. Once you have mastered the basics, you can move on to more advanced techniques.

All you have to do is form your lips in the shape of an “O” - this way, during a blowjob, pressure will be applied to the penis from all sides. Then, shaking your head slightly up and down, move lower along the shaft of the penis. Practice on the head and the first few centimeters, gradually taking the penis deeper.

How to cum while giving a blowjob?

Sometimes women themselves wonder whether it is possible to get an orgasm while giving a man a blowjob. Yes, it is possible, but there are few such women.

In order for a woman to reach the climax of love, first of all, she herself must tremble with excitement during a blowjob. This process should bring her pleasure, she should enjoy what brings pleasure to others.

You can also try to caress yourself with at least one hand during oral sex, or ask your partner to do this. There is a chance that he will also really like this process.

And, of course, it’s worth trying the 69 position. This position is the most famous position for oral sex. From mutual oral stimulation, both partners can reach orgasm, sometimes even at the same time.

Two tongue tricks5

Before you are two techniques that differ in difficulty level. Choose any one and practice.

• Soft sandpaper

There is no need to be scared by the name - instead of sandpaper, you will use the side of the tongue on which the taste buds are located. Take your penis in your hand and stick your tongue out. While holding the head and tongue in place, use your hand to move the head of his penis over your tongue. So the only movement should be from your hand moving his penis over your tongue. The head of his penis will slide against your tongue.

You can move it in a circular motion, up and down, forward and back, or any other motion you like.

This is the essence of the technique - your tongue “polishes” the head of his penis.

• Sliding along the trunk

Take the penis into your mouth as deep as you can. By running your tongue along the underside of his penis, you should slide it forward along his shaft as far as is comfortable for you, and then slide it back. Continue moving him back and forth, massaging the same part of his shaft. While you do this, keep his penis in place. Don't take it deeper.

This is not a breakthrough blowjob technique that will make your man explode immediately, but it is a great little trick to use if you want to change up your sex routine and give your man a new experience.

How to give a blowjob to your husband?

In this case, the husband is no different from the guy. Having learned to give a blowjob once, a woman will be able to bring pleasure to her boyfriend, and then to her husband many, many times.

If you decide to have a blowjob only after the wedding, then for proper oral sex you only need to study the information presented in this article.

Nude couple

Foreskin6

There is no need to retract the foreskin too much. It is enough to pull it enough to open the head of the penis. Also, according to research, uncircumcised guys are less likely to ask their partners to be “more gentle” during blowjobs. On the contrary, they want stronger stimulation. But women themselves are unlikely to be able to notice the difference in sensitivity between circumcised and uncircumcised men.

One technique is to insert your tongue between the head of the penis and the foreskin and stimulate this area in a circular motion. And then squeeze your lips around the head and foreskin and begin to slowly go down, increasing the intensity.

Remember that the same technique can delight one man and absolutely displease another. Don't forget to watch your partner's reaction.

How to give a royal blowjob?

Royal blowjob is another name for deep throat blowjob, the technique of which is described in the section above. However, royal blowjob has one peculiarity.

After the penis has completely entered the woman’s throat, you should stick out your tongue and lick the testicles. During this action, the throat compresses the genital organ even more, and the tongue gives even greater pleasure.

After the penis is removed, you can gently kiss the head - the queen has completed the blowjob to the king.

Hot stuff

Anal stimulation7

Anal caresses can literally triple the pleasure of a blowjob. Pay attention to the following techniques:

• Toys

Modern sex shops offer you a huge selection of toys for anal stimulation. If your partner is not yet ready for this, you can use simple vibrators - apply the toy to the area between the anus and scrotum.

• Light caresses

Gently caress your partner's anus in a circular motion during a blowjob. Don't forget about saliva or lubricant. If a man likes this stimulation, he can go further.

• Level up

Get your fingers involved in the game. Insert your finger into your partner's anus, again using lubricant. Discuss this point with your partner in advance - not everyone will like such “surprises”.

• Prostate

Another extremely sensitive area. It is also called the male G-spot. Place your palm and fingertips on the area between the anus and scrotum and insert one finger into the anus to a depth of about 5 cm. Then bend it slightly.

You should feel the soft lump. Stimulate it in the same way as the G-spot - using gentle pressure and rubbing.

Another, easier option is to focus on the penis and use a toy to stimulate the prostate.

• Everything is individual

When a guy cums, you observe the pulsation and rhythmic contraction of the muscles. If your finger is still in his anus at this point, this “squeezing sensation” can increase his pleasure.

But other men like a different trick - when you slowly pull out your finger during orgasm.

What exactly does your partner like? Find out experimentally.

• Safety precautions

Lubricant during anal sex - yes! No to sharp nails.

How to give a gentle blowjob?

Considering that the penis is a very sensitive organ, then all your manipulations with it should initially be the most gentle. Rudeness and harsh treatment of a penis are only possible if your man asks you about it.

During a blowjob, you should not be nervous or fuss, even if you are new to this matter. It is better to calmly and measuredly, with light and gentle movements, give a man unearthly pleasure.

How to give a deep blowjob?

The deep throat technique has the most features:

• The position during a deep blowjob should be such that the woman can freely move her head, and the man, in turn, can help her by moving his pelvis. The most common position is where the woman sits between her partner’s legs and has good access to his penis
• Deep swallowing of a penis is possible only after a long period of time. Training may require up to eight weeks of regular training
• Before a blowjob, you can allow yourself to drink a glass of wine to relax. You shouldn’t overeat; it’s already difficult for beginners to cope with the gag reflex
• You should take this position, you may have to tilt your head back slightly so that your mouth and throat are in line, thus creating a tunnel for the penis
• Then you need to moisten the penis very well with saliva
• You should insert the penis until you feel a lump in your throat, then you can stop, take a break and then continue insertion again. If it doesn’t work out right away, then it makes sense to leave the idea, and after some time start back to its implementation.
• An important point may be the fight against the gag reflex. This reflex can also be trained
• It is better if you press your tongue against the front teeth and lower palate
• After you have mastered the simplest technique of deep blowjob, you can try giving a blowjob with your head turned at the base. This is when a man’s penis completely enters the mouth, and then the woman begins to turn her head in different directions, which creates additional sensations

The girl is cunning

Triple trick8

The trick is not particularly difficult to perform. Do it like this:

• Take the head of the penis into your mouth and stimulate it with circular movements of your tongue.
• Then grab the shaft of the penis with your hand and begin to make rhythmic movements up and down.
• Insert a lubricated finger into his anus and begin stimulating the prostate.

Triple trick, triple fun. Practice and give your man unearthly pleasure.

Classic blowjob technique in tips and pictures

1. Excite. Try to excite your partner. At this stage, do everything gently and affectionately. Include slow stroking and sliding your tongue over the genitals at this stage. Don't make sudden movements. Consider this as foreplay and play with your dick.

2. Bring to orgasm. This is where you need to step up. Use your hands, try different techniques. Be active.

3. Wait for ejaculation. Reduce your speed, but don't stop until you ejaculate. Further, you should not touch the man’s genital organ, since touching can be painful.

Diversify your routine10

The same techniques can get boring. Why not spice up your sex routine? To do this, it is not at all necessary to learn complex techniques.

Use these tricks:

• Add sweets

Chocolate syrup and whipped cream are perfect not only for culinary, but also for sexual experiments. If using chocolate syrup, make sure it is at a comfortable temperature.

• Ice and fire

Ice cream and ice cubes will not cool the fire of your passion, but they will give you new unusual sensations.

• Champagne everyone

Take a small sip of champagne and start the blowjob. The bubbles of the drink will make the sensation even sharper. If you don't like champagne or don't drink alcoholic beverages, take a sip of sparkling water.

• Mint candies

Another trick for those who love the chill.

The above-mentioned tricks are also great if you don’t like the taste of a man’s sperm.

Poses for the best blowjob

• Kneeling in front of a man. Plus - you will be able to control the depth of penetration of the male genital organ, your hands will be free and ready for additional stimulation. The downside is that your knees will hurt, so put a pillow under them. Or sit on a bed or chair.
• On the bed, leaning between the legs of a man lying on his back. Your neck and back will tire too quickly in this position. But thanks to this position, moving your chest to the beat will help a man get aroused faster.
• You should lie on your back, and the man will “hang” over you. In this position, you will not get particularly tired, since the man will be actively moving. But the activity of penetration cannot be controlled, so too deep and active movements can cause a gag reflex.
• Pose 69. In this position, both partners can enjoy.

Male opinion11

Ten guys talk about their idea of ​​the perfect blow job.

• “When she presses her tongue to the base of the head and slowly licks it, my toes cramp. Automatic reaction. Madness” – Igor, 26.
• “I like it when a girl licks her balls. This alone is not enough for orgasm, but what a turn-on! If she sucks them or puts them in her mouth, that’s great too,” Vlad, 27.
• “When she uses her hands and sucks the head of the penis at the same time. It's like oral sex and manual stimulation at once. Overload of feelings. If you want to quickly bring a guy to orgasm, use it,” Eric, 29.

• “Cold blowjobs drive me crazy. When she has an ice cube in her mouth... Although, of course, this is impractical, but as an experiment from time to time it’s great,” Mikhail, 28.
• “I love it when she licks the dick long and slow. When it is clear that she is completely absorbed in this activity,” David, 26.
• “When there is a lot of saliva and it moves its hands only upward, without going down to the base, constantly alternating hands,” - Evgeniy, 24.
• “I find eye contact during a blow job very arousing. When she looks into my eyes... so intimate. She just takes everything into her own hands and it’s very sexy,” Daniil, 27.
• “A little testicular tickling is great. Well, it's not tickling in the literal sense, but just a game. A great addition to a blow job,” Mark, 29.
• “Deep throat. When she gives a blowjob quickly and aggressively... I can’t hold out for long. I’ve definitely never been able to hold out for more than five minutes in this situation, but I’m not ashamed,” Kirill, 28.
• “My ex gently took me by the hips and guided me into her mouth. It was as if we were moving in the same rhythm,” Andrey, 27.

Victoria Fomina

Expert

Doctor sexologist of the highest category, psychiatrist, psychotherapist. I have been working as a sexologist for more than 10 years. I help couples resolve problems in their sex life.

I recommend that girls learn how to give a good blowjob. After all, this not only brings partners closer together, but is also very good for health. Sperm contains components that help fight depression. In addition, male semen contains a lot of vitamins and minerals that strengthen gums and restore tooth enamel. Semen also contains the hormone prostaglandin, which improves the condition of the skin and hair. Another point is calorie burning. Half an hour of quality blowjob burns over 600 calories! Therefore, it is important to know how to give a good blowjob and try to please your man as often as possible.

Message from the Editor

We tried to make this article really interesting for the reader. And in the end, we recommend that you read one more fact that few people know about. Experts in the field of relationship psychology have proven that tactile and emotional contact with a loved one can have a pain-relieving effect comparable to the effect of strong painkillers. This is due to the formation of a unique hormone that soothes inflammation and reduces pain. Thus, a headache is not a reason to refuse intimacy with your loved one. On the contrary, this is a reason to really enjoy each other!

How to give a beautiful blowjob?

The question of how to give a beautiful blowjob is very difficult to answer, since everyone has their own idea of ​​what is beautiful.

Just listen to some advice:

• A woman should always look good. However, it is worth noting that when giving a high-quality blowjob, a man absolutely doesn’t care what you’re wearing
• Men are simply driven crazy by the sight of a woman giving him a blowjob, so always position yourself close to the man so that when he opens his eyes during pleasure, he can easily see the process itself
• Many men love to see bright and eye-catching lipstick on the lips that lick his penis. The main thing is that the lipstick does not smear on your face during oral sex

Red lipstick attracts men

• Lick your lips passionately with your tongue during a blowjob. Not only is this a huge turn-on for men, but it also gives you a break.
• You can alternate kissing your man's penis with kissing his lips. You will notice how passionately he kisses you - you can consider this as gratitude for the pleasure given
• Many men are turned on by loose hair. If you have long hair, then you should sometimes let your hair down so that your man can touch it during a blowjob, and sometimes even take you by the hair, in order to direct you in the right direction