What does every woman want? Firstly, personal happiness, and secondly, the ideal man nearby. At the same time, each lady has her own concept of ideal. Is it possible to identify common points? Undoubtedly. And perhaps you will be interested in reading them.
The ideal man - what should he be like? Let's try to find out the answer to this question.
Potency does not guarantee satisfaction in bed
After the first night with her future husband, Oksana was delighted.
Close your eyes to what you can live with
My friend approached her search for a husband practically: she made a list of all her requirements and preferences and checked the points each time. One day the groom's characteristics matched perfectly. A whirlwind romance began. It soon became clear that the chosen one was suffering from a serious illness. Those around were shocked: not only that, the disease could be passed on to children. So, is this an evil fate? I think this is the action of the well-known law of conservation and transformation of energy. Thus, a handsome man often turns out to be stupid, a smart man turns out to be poor, and a rich man turns out to be ugly.
What conclusions should be drawn from all of the above?
- A. The ideal is sought by its habitat.
- B. The ideal is “driven” primarily by strong individuality and common interests.
- B. The search for the ideal does not end with anything ideal. With rare exceptions.
- G. Life improves significantly from the search for the ideal! Namely: new friends and new knowledge appear, and the field for choosing an ideal becomes much wider. Maybe new opportunities are better than a boring prince on a white horse?
Ekaterina VERBITSKAYA
On this topic:
10 signs of an ideal man:
- He loves you the way you are
- He motivates you to self-improvement and development
- He does not criticize or pester you with questions.
- He is always aware of your affairs and gives practical advice.
- He is not jealous and does not give reasons for jealousy.
- He values you and your relationship very much, he will do everything not to lose you
In addition to these contradictory qualities, the ideal man should:
- Have clear goals in life
- Get along with your family
- Introduce you to all my friends
- Making your dreams come true with you
The calculation is based on the volume of the man’s chest, the preferred size of which is equal to the circumference of the wrist * 6.5.
Indicators of correspondence of male figure parameters according to D. McCallum
| Part of the body | Measurement based on chest circumference |
| Pelvis | 85% |
| Waist | 70% |
| Hips | 53% |
| Neck | 37% |
| Biceps | 36% |
| Shin | 34% |
| Forearm | 29% |
Typical ratio of male figure parameters
| Height | Bust | Neck | Waist | Thigh volume | Shin size |
| 170 | 105 | 38 | 78 | 57 | 38 |
| 180 | 112 | 41 | 81 | 61 | 41 |
| 190 | 120 | 43 | 86 | 64 | 43 |
| 200 | 127 | 46 | 91 | 67 | 46 |
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How to find a worthy man?
Life experience suggests: absolute ideals do not exist, there are people who come close to them, it is worth identifying the most important, fundamental qualities in finding a life partner.
The best or ideal man is different for every woman. One girl may need an intellectual with excellent manners, attentive and caring. The other is looking for a physically and spiritually strong, attractive male who can stand up for his lady and family. Some people focus on security and success. How to find the ideal? How to find and attract a worthy man?
The answers can be found in the book “How to Find a Worthy Man” by Lev Vozhevatov. What does the author advise?
- To become an ideal girl is to be well-groomed, cheerful, purposeful, active, passionate about interests, life, energetic.
- Actively search for your dream - the author advises not to wait for the prince, but to engage in active searches - go to clubs, parties, exhibitions, places where potential suitors are. The main thing is to understand what type of men are attracted to and the requirements of a future lover.
- To be able to support and praise your loved one - any man is pleased to hear kind words, support, approval, especially gratitude for gifts or pleasant time spent together.
- Don’t be afraid to ask for advice, ask for help - men are happy to help a girl at any time. They enjoy participating in the life of another person; it increases their status and self-confidence.
- To be proud of your loved one - young people and mature men like to hear words of praise from girls in the presence of friends and relatives. Such behavior emphasizes that the man is loved and appreciated.
- Be proactive - in long-term relationships, girls are advised to be more active in their personal lives, emphasizing the desirability of their loved one. This always flatters a young man, he feels confident in himself, and strives to be worthy.
The book “How to Find a Decent Man” by Vozhevatov is written for girls, it reveals the secrets of building relationships with a man, how to find and maintain happiness and love in life. How to find a good man? Be worthy, actively seek. It all depends on the girl, her desire to find love, work on her personal qualities. Everything in the world is interconnected: whoever seeks will find! Similar people with common interests and aspirations will definitely meet!
We wish everyone to find their own ideal and be happy in love!
The ideal man, how to find him?
The principle is simple: in order to get something, in this case your ideal man, you must know what exactly you want
Most of us think we know what we are looking for. However, few have put any real effort into transforming vague ideas about their ideal man into specific needs and desires.
The fact is that you will have a much better chance of finding someone who can make you happy if you are absolutely clear about who you want.
In other words, you need:
- Separate the really important aspects from the unimportant ones. In other words, understand what you really need to be happy. And what do you think is necessary?
- Determine exactly what you would like and what you cannot do without. You need to know in what issues compromises are possible (something unimportant, for example, appearance. And what requirements cannot be deviated one iota (values such as trust, honesty).
- Evaluate whether your wish list is realistic. Or you will be stuck with him for the rest of your life. And put it into action - you can only benefit from it.
Relationship wish list
It goes without saying that you should know what you want from the relationship.
And then you will be able to decide what your ideal man should be like, with whom you will connect your destiny. Some factors are quite universal: love, companionship, care and support in difficult times.
But in other areas there is wide variation. For some, for example, a relationship with a man is very important, but a career is even more important, otherwise she will not be happy.
But someone wants something different: complete and absolute devotion - a classic version of these “Siamese twins”. The question is what exactly do you want from a partner in a long-term relationship.
How to make a list
Divide the page into two parts; write “desirable” in one, “necessary” in the other. Now you will write the corresponding columns in these columns.
Questions
- How long will a relationship with a man last? Tell me honestly, do you believe that you can meet a person at twenty years old and sit side by side with him in a rocking chair at ninety? Or do you think that ten years is a completely good period? Or maybe you would like to have 2-3 semi-serious relationships before settling down for life?
- What is your idea of commitment, the extent of your responsibility and involvement in the relationship? Do you want to get married, or is it enough for you to just live together? If you have children, will your approach change? Does it matter to you if your partner has been married before?
- Do you want to have children? To be a completely happy person, do you need to have children or do you have conflicting feelings in this regard? What if the partner already has children from a previous marriage?
- Do you want to have a close connection with a man or enjoy independence? Do you want to have a relationship where partners do everything together, or are you a “free-flying person”? And do you need to spend holidays without your other half from time to time and often be alone?
- Do you want to be in a monogamous relationship? 90% of people automatically answer “yes,” but some of us choose the following position: “What (or who) I don’t know doesn’t exist for me until it appears before my eyes.”
- What level of intimacy would you like? Do you like absolutely open relationships where you share everything with each other? Or when frankness does not touch the deeper sides of your nature?
- How important is sex to you? For you, is this the most important component in a good relationship? Or an additional reward if the relationship goes well?
- How much do you need a sense of security? Is the ability to trust a person important to you? If not, then this view needs to be changed! What about honesty? Do you adhere to the principle: all cards are on the table, or are there things about which you prefer not to talk too much?
- What level of support do you want from your man? Do you need to be sure that he is completely, one hundred percent on your side?
- Do you want to find your best friend in your partner? Most of us will answer yes, but some of us don't mind if our partner doesn't share their hobbies. In this sense, they are quite satisfied with their friends.
List of desirable qualities of your ideal man
Do you have a favorite type?
Already describing it, you feel your legs giving way in anticipation of bliss. He is tall and amazingly muscular. He has olive skin and permanent three-day stubble. Chiseled cheekbones. Long, slender legs. Dark, short-cropped hair. He is a successful man, but without all-consuming ambition. Generous and not clingy. Sensitive and courageous.
It does not exist in nature.
Perhaps you once met your ideal, or rather “fragmentarily” your ideal. He had muscles, height, olive skin and chiseled cheekbones all rolled into one. However, he was not distinguished by intelligence and sensitivity (in other words, he was dumb as a tree, a smug jock).
Perhaps you have met both courageous (implying “he has strength, no need for intelligence”), and generous (more in relation to money than his tender feelings).
This is why, apparently, in real life you are attracted to men who have absolutely nothing in common with the image of your dreams.
What is the first step in finding your ideal partner? - Admit that it doesn't exist
Choosing a partner dispassionately is a much more delicate job than choosing friends in the same manner.
For example, even if he is so magnificent that you are ready to give up watching your favorite TV series for his sake and admire him exclusively, but in life sometimes you also have to talk...
Although, there are exceptions. Common interests, similar educational and intellectual levels, age - everything that your mother endlessly tells you about - all this is important.
But in love, unlike friendship, you need something else, namely hormones. Your partner must be sexually attractive to you. But, stop talking about what is important “in general and as a whole.” Our goal is to articulate your specific needs and desires.
And for this it is necessary that you combine all the qualities of your ideal man into two columns: “Desirable qualities” and “Necessary qualities.”
In other words, which qualities of a partner are simply desirable, and regarding which no compromises are possible. At the same time, be extremely precise and do not do this work in one sitting, but spend several days on it.
Questions
Physical data
Stop!
Forget about blond hair and steely abs. Think about your daily habits and lifestyle. For example, if you are a fan of gymnastics and exercise is a pleasure for you, then you may not have much fun with a couch potato. Therefore, you should write: “Partner must exercise regularly and love sports.”
Are you an uncompromising anti-smoking advocate? It is absolutely clear that your list should include a “no smoking” item.
How do you feel about alcohol? Maybe you are a person who likes to sit with friends, chat and drink more than one drink? Then a devout teetotaler as a partner will simply drive you crazy.
If your favorite thing to do is to dine out, then a foodie would be a great partner for you. It might make you fat, but so what?
Example: Doesn't smoke. Loves physical education. Likes to have a glass of wine sometimes. Vegetarian.
Sex appeal
Automatically write in the column: “Qualities required”: “must be liked and desired.” There can be only one condition here: you need to decide on the waiting time.
If the hormones do not respond to your partner immediately, how long are you willing to watch and wait? Two dates? Three weeks? Six months?
Example: “I’m willing to wait two months for the attraction to appear” or “the reaction must be immediate, otherwise this is not suitable for me.”
Attitude to communication and skills to maintain it
If you're a sentimental, tearful lady who cries at TV commercials and thinks puppy scent should be preserved in bottles.
Because nothing compares to this scent. Then, in principle, the ideal couple for you cannot be a person who did not even think about going to his mother’s funeral. And he thinks that drowning kittens in the toilet is a mere trifle.
So think about how you approach relationships: romantic, realistic, pragmatic, cynical? Ideally, your partner should share your views. For you, is a prenuptial agreement a logical (and highly desirable) culmination of a long-term relationship—or is it a useless piece of paper?
Think about what communication and relationship skills are important to you in a partner? Do you want him to melt and melt from how much he loves you? Did you share your feelings openly and in a friendly manner? How personally experienced should he be?
For example, you would like the person you are dating to have already had three or four serious romances. This means that he already has a good idea of how to develop relationships so that something comes out of them.
Example: romantic, places a high priority on love relationships, wants to eventually get married.
Position in society
What kind of person should he be in order for him to fit into your life? If you are a socialite and constantly party, it will be good if your man also enjoys this and knows how to behave in society.
Is it important for you that your partner is able to present himself in the best light and communicate with the “greats of this world?” So that you can take it with you to work when you have a banquet there for some reason?
Example: sociable, has experience of making friendly contacts, can find a common language with any person.
Intellectual level
What education do you have? Are you a university graduate or did you come up with everything on your own? What other achievements do you have? For a pair of brains to coexist harmoniously, it helps that they are on the same level. How important is it for you to have conversations in one language?
Example : higher education, creativity, ability to think outside the box.
Sexuality
Do yourself a huge favor: evaluate where your sex drive stands.
And please, at least try to find the same partner for yourself.
If one lover has a strong libido and the other a weak one, this is a recipe for disaster.
One will constantly feel dissatisfied, the other will experience tension. Of course, there are ways to even the score, but if it is possible to prevent such a imbalance, it is better not to allow it.
The same attitude towards sex also works as a plus. Adventure seekers who want to try everything at least once should be together. The same is true for people who have certain preferences. Similar experience and skill also provides an additional advantage.
Example: strong sexual attraction, risk taking, relaxedness, experience.
Communication skills
Are you more of a talker or a listener? Would you like your ideal man to talk as much as you do, or would you be more suited to a quiet man who knows how to listen? A person who is easy to talk to and, accordingly, who is easy to talk to you, is the owner of a quality that is crucial for many.
But keep in mind: communication skills can be learned. If your partner is shy, you can greatly help him loosen up.
Example: able to communicate, loves to talk, good listener.
Financial opportunities
What matters is not how much a person earns, but his attitude towards money.
Do you like to spend or save? What meaning do material values have for you?
Do you count paying for a daily massage as an everyday expense, and he counts the simplest tea bags and milk?
In this case, the process of saving a certain amount for an expensive purchase will inevitably turn into a series of endless disputes.
The same thing will happen if there is some capital left in your bank account, and his is zero without a stick, since he squandered the money on trifles.
In short, serious grievances arise when partners are in unequal financial categories.
Example: knows how to save money, appreciates luxury, but does not throw money away.
Attitude to career
And again, what is important is the work itself, but your attitude towards it. If you work only to earn a living, then a person who is obsessed with his work will annoy you. If your career is most important to you, then it will be easier for you to get along with a person of the same preferences.
Example: makes a career, is ambitious, supports my career growth.
Aspirations
Make sure you and your partner are walking on the same road at similar speeds. If you prefer to walk at a leisurely pace rather than lead, then a person who has energy and acts on the principle of “go ahead!” will not suit you.
If you constantly strive to work on yourself, then the ideal man for you would be someone who is equally motivated.
Example: “he’s in a hurry to live and in a hurry to feel,” sets high goals for himself.
Interests and hobbies
You're not going to turn into Siamese twins, so if your partner plays football and you prefer tennis, it's not that big of a deal. But what if you collect stamps and he is a climber? Your interests and hobbies tend to characterize your personality. And it would be nice to do something together that you both enjoy, right?
Example: loves to read, loves outdoor activities, loves sports.
Attitude to religion
If you are absolutely not religious, then it most likely does not matter to you what religion your partner professes.
Of course, if he is not too focused on religion and his faith concerns only him.
And if you are a devout Christian, it is wise to look for a partner who shares your ideals.
But I want to warn you!
Before you write down this point, make sure that it is important to you and not to your parents. It is you, not anyone else, who decides who you want to be with.
Let's get rid of the nonsense. Is the list of desired qualities correct?
Moment of truth! It's time to analyze your list of requirements for a relationship and for a man and understand how realistic and feasible it is.
If in the “required qualities” column there is an item: money, fashionable cars, willing to take you to the “right restaurants,” move this item to the “desirable qualities” column. Or better yet, cross it all out altogether.
An ideal list should not contain items related to values or behavior. External qualities, such as physical characteristics and money, are not the most important. Such qualities as honesty, loyalty, kindness are essential. So review your list again.
Question: What item do most people put first on the list of requirements for a potential partner?
Answer: The ability to make each other laugh.
If you mark a certain quality on the list, then at least you yourself should have it.
Do you want your partner to be witty, creative, intelligent, fabulously hospitable? May you be lucky to find just such a one. Despite the fact that you yourself do not possess such qualities. You have no right to demand anything if you yourself cannot respond in kind.
Ideally, your wish list should closely resemble your own list of virtues. We are more likely to be liked by the person with whom we are somewhat similar.
How willing are you to make concessions?
If in the “necessary qualities” column you list a bunch of different ones, but the “desirable qualities” column is almost empty, then analyze the list again and, if possible, align it. “Almost enough” can be as close to ideal as you want it to be.
Check the physical data section
Cross out everything related to appearance. It makes no sense to write something like “must have long legs.” Because most of the time, the people we might actually like don't look like what we expect.
My friend snorted at the redheads. If she had to make a similar list, the first item on it would be “not a redhead.” A year ago, she introduced me to a man in whom she “found everything I was looking for,” and he had bright red hair. “But he’s red! You can’t stand redheads,” I told her in the toilet. “Does he have red hair? “I didn’t even notice,” she replied.
True love, mother nature. X-factor, hormones, charisma - whatever you call it, this quality gives a person the amazing ability to completely ignore the most eccentric items on your list. Try at your own risk to fight such primitive instincts.
How long is your list?
Now cut it down to ten points in each column. Yes! You must do this.
Can't decide if it's right for you or not? Trust your feminine intuition. Scientists say that women who “feel in their gut” and rely on that feeling make better decisions than those who rely on reason, logic and “objective facts.”
How credible is your list?
After carefully reviewing the list of all desirable and necessary qualities, figure out what type of person you are describing. Make sure that you do not get into the trap of wanting to find all the listed properties, sometimes incompatible in one person. In other words, “macho,” but loves to cook,” or “nice young man, likes to indulge in alcohol.”
Use your list when it's appropriate
We're talking about a list of qualities that are essential to a long-term relationship, not when you're going on a date just to have fun.
How to use these lists
Don't throw them away.
Update them as changes occur in you. Review them when you meet someone new. Skim the lists again after three dates, then after three months of dating. How does a man meet your requirements? Is there something missing from the columns of desirable and necessary qualities?
New items have appeared and you want to add them now? So how do they contain real details that previously eluded you? Or is this person too far from the expected image, and you are deceiving yourself?
It's not that he's not into horse riding, but you are. Minor inconsistencies like this will not affect the basis of the relationship. However, if he is a libertine, and you rely on reliability and decency, mental anguish will inevitably await you.
You have to look for the ideal man... in yourself
We read dating advertisements. Ladies are looking for economical, caring, balanced, beautiful people, with a high salary, without a high salary and financial and housing problems. Then the question is: what are we like?
One young lady not long ago became the mistress of her boyfriend’s luxurious mansion, whom she found in the process of painstakingly “sorting through” personnel. The ideal chosen one turned out to be a great neat person: he does not trust strangers to cook food or touch his clothes, he is terribly annoyed by any noise, even loud TV or music, he goes to bed no later than ten in the evening, he is obsessed with separate meals and a healthy lifestyle. So far, the girl, accustomed to a free life, manages to get out of it - she hired a housekeeper, presenting her as her inseparable friend, hardly stuffs terribly healthy soy cutlets into herself and occasionally runs around the corner of the house to smoke a cigarette. But it’s already clear that this is not her soulmate.
The desire for an ideal husband is a disease of youth that you just need to survive
The fact is that only young people dream of a magnificent prince. Girls are ready to discuss this topic for hours and engage in an active search. Experienced ladies treat such things rather coolly and don’t see any point in it at all.
On average, after twenty-seven years, requests decrease sharply.
Often, ideal husbands are not ideals at all.
Parents, growing and raising their daughter, naturally wish her a better groom. At the same time, from childhood it is hammered into her head: Vovochka is a good student, and Serezhenka is so well-mannered... Growing up, we subconsciously look for someone who we won’t be ashamed to bring into the house and show to people. And if the groom in some way does not meet the standards that have stuck in his head, fear arises - how will his loved ones react when they learn that the choice fell on someone who does not have, say, social status, higher education, is ugly, or has already had one marriage behind him? . One of my friends, smart and beautiful, married someone who had everything listed in “one bottle.”
Now she lives in a luxurious apartment with European-quality renovation, which her husband did with his own hands. Her husband works as an electrician at the port, receives a decent salary, and we all adore the cheerful Pashka, who will never refuse a request to screw in an outlet or fix the phone.
Controversial issues
The ideal guy is a romantic
Often parents themselves hint to their children about a certain person who is most suitable for starting a family. At the same time, they list exactly all the described characteristics. But it is worth noting that a hard-working, loyal and well-mannered guy may be completely uninteresting to many girls.
This is because many people don't consider important details when choosing the perfect guy. The future partner may be a hard-working and confident, but completely uninteresting person, because he spends all his time making money and demonstrating wealth. Such a person could provide for himself and his girlfriend, but he is not able to please with an original act and or create in the girl the feeling that she is loved.
The same applies to initiative. There are many girls who take the initiative on their own and offer to take unplanned trips or visit interesting places. If a guy doesn't offer this, it doesn't mean he's not ideal, because ideals can vary greatly.
It is worth mentioning the character. A guy may seem attractive to a girl because of his hot temper, because such people are more sensual. A calm and balanced person may be completely uninteresting to a large number of women. When determining the characteristics of an ideal guy, it is necessary to consider a person in all life situations.
It is worth remembering that it is impossible to determine a person’s character and his characteristics after one or two meetings. But if you treat a guy with attention, you can learn a lot about him.
What should he be like?
Usually a woman subconsciously draws an image for herself based on her parents’ family relationships or by choosing any fictional character that attracts her. Then she will unconsciously choose a husband who will correspond to her ideas. This is not always a good deal.
When drawing up a description of an ideal spouse, you need to take into account three important pillars of family life: behavior, attitude towards a woman, actions towards the fairer half of the sex.
How should I behave?
The feminine essence pays attention to how a man presents himself. Those who are polite, cultured, intelligent, and know the rules of etiquette have a greater chance of success.
A guy can show interest in the inner world of his chosen one, support her and sympathize with her.
A man should be polite, a pleasant conversationalist, well-read and erudite. He does not interrupt, does not insult, does not gossip. Such a character is difficult to find, so the girl will have to put in a lot of effort.
What should I do
When you first meet, it is difficult to draw conclusions about a man, but his actions can say a lot. For example, he interrupts, does not yield, behaves rudely; these are the first signs of a bad attitude towards girls. Attempts to control or invade personal space should be alarming.
The requirement to give all passwords for social networks and mailboxes indicates pathological jealousy
It is not always easy for a girl to see the real essence of her chosen one. If he cares, is interested in how she spent her day, and sees her off, then these are good qualities. Such a guy may be close to the ideal image of a man.
In order to better imagine the image of the chosen one, the girl should write an essay on this topic.
Poll: Russian women described the ideal man 2021
Author Alexander Storm
07.04.2021 15:40
Society
What should an ideal man be like? The answer to this question was voiced during the Zoom conference “Family Psychology”.
During the meeting, the results of an online survey of more than 35 thousand women from 41 regions of Russia were announced.
It turned out that women are most interested in a resident of Moscow or St. Petersburg “with registration”, with an income of 100 thousand rubles per month, aged from 25 to 45 years and height from 175 centimeters.
Respondents added that a man should:
- be able to repair and repair things,
- be courageous and strong,
- Don't be afraid to defend a woman in a fight.
- In addition, the chosen one must be a good lover
- have great dignity
- be true,
- don't go on a binge
- not have a “beer belly” (this item was named by 97% of respondents).
At the same time, a man must have a “non-Russian brand” car, a higher education and “experience in defending the country” - serving in the army.
Of course, he should not work as a courier, taxi driver or janitor - this is what Russian women think. The ideal profession is a deputy, businessman, doctor or rentier.
According to the “News for Every Day” project, Russian women also named the amount that a “normal man” should receive.
Sociologists tried to clarify the needs of Russian women: more than 800 participants from 61 regions of the country named the amount that a “real man” should receive monthly.
- Today in Moscow this is a minimum of 150 thousand rubles and 250 thousand rubles for an official marriage.
- In the provinces this is 70 thousand and 150 thousand minimum, respectively.
“If a man brings less to the house, drive him away, it’s emptiness, not a man,” sounds at the seminars of the “Woman and the World” project. These data were also confirmed by a global survey conducted on social networks and Telegram.
It is worth adding that the NGO “Healthy Family” conducted a study in cities with a population of over a million, finding out which professions are most often prone to divorce.
After analyzing the professions of couples who filed for divorce, they found four professions whose representatives get divorced more often than others. In the first place are taxi drivers, in second place are salespeople in retail establishments, office clerks and private security company employees.
Most divorces occur in families where one of the spouses is a resident of a metropolis, and the other (the second) is a provincial.
The survey results showed that 51% of men and 63% of women experienced financial difficulties due to the pandemic. About a third of respondents say that their financial situation has not worsened. Moreover, there are more men among them than women (30% versus 25%).
So an ideal man with a huge salary is, of course, good, but it has a very mediocre relationship to reality.
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Editor: Elena Timoshkina, Curator: Natalia Krasovskaya
Topics: salary, psychology, family relationships
How to find a worthy man
When a woman has compiled a short list of requirements for a companion, the question arises: where to look for a potential chosen one. Many girls end up not understanding why they get the wrong guys.
You shouldn’t expect instant results, sometimes the search takes years
First of all, you need to decide on the meeting place. If a woman wants to live with a family man, then she should not look for him in nightclubs and specific establishments, for example, where they show striptease
It is better to pay attention to sports sections, tourism, etc.
If it is important for a woman that her partner earns a lot, then she can try restaurants, expensive fitness clubs, etc. For such places she will have to choose an appropriate image
A good place to meet people is through events, for example, playing quizzes, quizzes, and board games. In such places it is easy to find a sociable person who will be the life of the party.
If a girl constantly comes across the same type of guy, then she needs to analyze her behavior
A person pays attention to another individual and does not think about why he does this. The choice occurs subconsciously, but you can try to figure out why this type is attracted
For example, a girl had an authoritarian father. She will strive to find a tough and domineering person. This model is familiar to her. At the same time, she consciously tries to find a family-oriented and gentle man, but he seems weak and weak-willed to her. Only a psychologist can help you understand such intricacies.
Sometimes the problem lies in the fact that a woman quickly turns the relationship into an intimate one.
Sometimes a girl manages to find a partner the first time, in other cases she has to spend 4-5 years on this. Don't despair and expect quick results. If a tactic does not bring results, it needs to be changed.
It is possible to find the ideal man; for this, a woman will have to work hard. She needs to fit in and be worthy of a companion. Therefore, she should be attentive to her appearance, erudition, and career.
The ideal man through the eyes of a woman
Even in childhood, girls come up with the image of a prince who will win their heart in the future. Later, while discussing classmates with friends, they continue to formulate a list of requirements for a future partner.
Of particular importance is character, hobbies and the desire to pay attention to the needs of a friend. The appearance of a friend, especially in youth, also plays an important role for girls.
Appearance
Tall, strong men are always popular with the opposite sex. It’s not without reason that many schoolchildren try to get into a sports team so that they can easily find a pretty girlfriend. However, not everyone likes athletes who are obsessed with winning in sports.
Of course, such a gentleman will make you feel confident and protected, but he is unlikely to help you with your studies or appreciate your creative endeavors.
With the advent of the Internet era, girls became interested in young people who skillfully developed their skills as users of the World Wide Web. Such abilities often seem unreal, and their owner turns into a modern Superman, albeit without muscles.
However, an ironed shirt and a stylish haircut won't hurt. Women attach great importance to such details, and they do not want to blush for a sloppy gentleman.
Psychological qualities
In Hollywood, the dream factory, they have long figured out which men are most likely to charm women. In any action movie or melodrama there is certainly an unapproachable hero with a prickly character who is completely transformed in the presence of the lady of his heart.
With her he is soft, compliant and kind. The latter qualities, coupled with his reliability and fidelity to the chosen mission, have a reliable effect on women. Unfortunately, such ideal men are extremely rare in life.
Girls willingly forgive their partners for their lack of determination, but they are unlikely to put up with rudeness and lack of respect. The fair sex loves compliments, flowers and memorable souvenirs, but most of all simple attention from a man.
Any help or advice is regarded by them as further evidence of the sincerity of feelings.
Sexual characteristics
Every woman dreams that her lover belongs only to her and does not look after other slender beauties. The latter is a mortal sin in the eyes of the ladies. They know that it is in the nature of men to be interested in attractive people, so overcoming it demonstrates love especially clearly.
Unlike women, the stronger sex is immediately ready for sexual contact if they like the chosen one. She needs intrigue, testing the strength of the relationship and courtship. Serenades are also welcome. All the attributes of romance delight a woman.
When a man is passionate about his girlfriend, he will gladly accept the rules of the game and want to look gallant. That is, he will pamper her with cute gifts, make her laugh and be interested in her opinion on important issues. By doing this, he will win the girl’s trust and her consent to intimate dates.
Of course, in bed he must prove himself to be a passionate but attentive partner.
Who is the ideal man?
Each person has his own ideas about what qualities a companion must have, especially if he is a spouse. For example, this could be a caring father who earns a certain amount of money, or a professional athlete.
The ideal man includes only positive qualities, negative ones are not taken into account. This is the root of the problem, since a woman cannot come to terms with the imperfections of a real person.
Within reasonable limits, drawing up a portrait allows you to understand who exactly the girl wants to see. For example, if she dreams of a strong family, then she should not choose someone who loves easy relationships.
