10 secrets that will help give a man incredible pleasure

Ways to satisfy a man

The phrase that the only way to give a man pleasure is to excel in bed is far from the only true one. Experienced women know that the way to the heart of the chosen one is through the stomach, and you won’t be satisfied with sex alone.

You can give your loved one pleasure by:

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1. Cooking;
2. Maintaining interests;
3. Physical contacts;
4. Massage;
5. Display of dominance;
6. Striptease;
7. Morning games;
8. Following the 3 Secrets of Intimacy .

In addition, you need to take into account that certain rules should be followed in the intimate sphere. Therefore, the last point includes 3 important secrets that can give your partner even more pleasure.

A man needs to be surprised and given a rest

Try to surprise your man. For example, if the faithful came home at 2 a.m. (drinking beer with friends) and is preparing to listen to lectures, and he is greeted by an affectionate, beautiful, caring woman, then he will be surprised. Just don’t go overboard, otherwise coming home late will become the norm, and this will no longer bring pleasure to the woman.

If you go on vacation together, it is very important to give your partner a rest. That is, you shouldn’t pester him with unnecessary questions, complain about a headache, or be capricious. A guy, of course, must take care of his woman, but he also has the right to proper rest. This applies not only to joint tourist trips, but also to going to the movies or attending social events.

In family life

The secret to a happy family life is absolute harmony with your spouse. This also applies to long-term relationships. However, in order for harmony to be present in everything, you need to periodically please your man and give him pleasure in different aspects of life.

You can please your partner by pampering him with delicious dishes, supporting hobbies and increasing the number of physical contacts.

Cooking

Timeless: the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Feeding your loved one delicious food is very important. And he will receive special pleasure not just from his favorite dishes, but also from their variety.

You need to pamper your partner with all sorts of delicacies more often, but in no case should you compete with his mother in the quality of their preparation!

Focus on hobbies

You need to be not only a good wife or girlfriend, but also a friend. A woman who shares or at least supports her lover’s hobbies is the dream of every man.

It doesn't matter if he collects stamps or likes to watch football, any interest must be maintained. However, if your loved one has chosen fishing as a hobby, it is better to leave him alone and let him go on his own or with friends.

Giving a man the opportunity to be alone or with friends is very important.

Don’t forget to learn about your partner’s intimate preferences so that you can implement them later.

Homemade tenderness

It is necessary to increase the number of physical contacts, so-called domestic tenderness. To bring as much pleasure as possible, you should resort to the following tricks:

• A little playful ear biting will drive a man crazy;
• Don’t forget to touch your hair with gentle massaging movements;
• We practice light kisses at the base of the head;
• The Adam's apple is one of the most sensitive points on a man's body. We kiss, grab with our lips, bite and even suck - success is guaranteed!

We repeat these touches the more often, the better. Especially if the man is upset about something.

Share his hobbies with your man

A man gets great pleasure from a woman who shares his hobbies with him. You can watch football with him, cheer for his favorite team, drink beer with him. She would move any mountain for such a woman. If your chosen one is not a sports fan, but an avid fisherman, then you can go fishing with him. Of course, for this you will have to get up early and sit for half a day looking at the floats, but how much fun the man will get! A beloved woman, and also a like-minded person... Isn’t this a dream?

The easiest way to please your loved one is to remain silent in certain situations. When a guy comes home from work, immersed in his problems, there is no need to pester him with questions, and he will be grateful for it.

In the intimate sphere

One of the most pressing topics is giving a man pleasure in bed. When talking about how to make your partner happy and give pleasure, you cannot ignore the topic of sex. Moreover, many women neglect even the basic rules of this area, believing that this is not so important.

However, even little things like massage or behavior in bed have a huge impact on the quality of male pleasure.

Massage

The conversation will not be about a simple massage, but about an intimate one, since this is one of the main ways to give a man pleasure before an act of love. To make the massage truly exciting, high-quality and skillful, a woman will have to make some effort.

Secrets of a perfect intimate massage:

• The massage should begin from the head;
• All movements must be accompanied by kisses;
• Don’t forget about additional devices: oils, creams, lubricants;
• The genitals can and should also be massaged, especially the area around them.

An interesting option is to use an ice cube in a massage, drawing a line along the man’s spine.

And one more little secret - you need to allow a man to give himself an erotic massage . It excites and warms up just as much when a partner sees how much pleasure a woman gets from his touch.

Morning games

A truly good and cheerful morning should be accompanied by sex. It has been proven that intimacy in the morning prolongs the feeling of falling in love throughout the day. So in this way you can not only please your partner, but also strengthen the relationship.

To give a man maximum pleasure in the morning, you need to:

• Wake him up with gentle touches to the most sensitive points;
• Slowly caressing his body, you should make sure that your loved one is awake;
• While he is in bliss, you need to move on to oral sex.

A combination of intimate massage followed by oral gratification will help give a man the greatest pleasure in the morning.

Many experts in the intimate sphere claim that if you brush your teeth with mint paste, use a refreshing mouthwash, or chew menthol gum before morning fun, you can enhance your partner’s sensations from caresses.

A little domination

A woman, in our usual understanding, is always affectionate and gentle. That is why, in order to give your loved one maximum pleasure, you should sometimes try on a different role. And we must not forget about initiative in the intimate sphere; a man should feel desired.

A little female domination is the key to a successful sex life for partners.

Despite the fact that the vast majority of men prefer the dominant role, if you occasionally take the reins into your own hands, you can give your lover maximum pleasure.

Moreover, in this case we mean an easy game for leadership, which the partner will want to return. It will be enough to gently push the man onto the bed, secure his arms above his head with your palm, straddle him and begin caresses. Then everything will go like clockwork!

The art of undressing

To undress beautifully in front of a man is a real art. It’s not for nothing that classes teaching strip dancing and dance are so common now. Striptease is the best method to warm up your partner through visual pleasure.

The reason for this is simple - a beautiful picture gives unrealistic aesthetic pleasure to a man.

Men love with their eyes - the same axiom as the phrase about the way to the heart through the stomach. Therefore, it is very important to learn not just to undress, but to do it beautifully and excitingly.

Men like sincere praise

Any man remains a little boy at heart; you need to be able to praise him in time. Only if earlier he needed the praise of his mother, now his beloved woman should do it. He needs to be praised even in small things. He drove the nail in well - excellent; he changed his son's diaper correctly - doubly well done. It is imperative that he be praised for his sexual abilities, because it is this area that is taboo for criticism; no man will tolerate this.

Men like not only beautiful women, but also smart ones. To do this, it is not necessary to write a doctoral dissertation or start a correspondence with Zhores Alferov, but if in a conversation your partner quotes from a book or is able to maintain an intellectual conversation, this will be beyond praise. It is especially pleasant if the manifestation of education occurs among a man’s circle of friends. This will give him another reason to be proud of his beloved.

However, in this regard, excessive zeal is contraindicated. If a man thinks that a woman is smarter than him, this is unlikely to give him pleasure: he must be the first in everything.

Secrets of intimacy

Against the background of all of the above, an important role is played by how we approach the act of intimacy, how we prepare for it and under what circumstances it is performed. There are taboo and vice versa priority topics, even coverage is important. Let's figure out under what conditions a man will get more pleasure from sex.

No everyday conversations

For a man, any topics related to everyday life are unacceptable during an intimate act or foreplay. So all such conversations are taboo. In general, it’s better to hold back any dialogue during sex.

The most unmistakable option would be to whisper all sorts of vulgarities into your lover’s ear; men simply lose their heads from this.

Otherwise, if vulgarity is not your thing, you should completely refrain from talking. Quiet screams and moans are encouraged.

Caresses in the light

A man gets the most intense sensations during sexual intercourse in the light. It is very important for a partner to see a woman in all her beauty, assess the situation like a predator, and control the process.

Sex in the light will help enhance pleasure , complementing it not only with sound (moans, screams), but also with visuals. This way the pleasure will be much stronger.

Variety act

The frequency of sex and its variety are the basis of a strong intimate life for a couple. Constantly monotonous and boring sex will not bring a man proper pleasure, only banal release.

To give your partner more pleasure, you need to:

• Have sexual intercourse more often, showing initiative;
• Diversify the places for having sex, be it a balcony or a shower stall;
• Use intimate toys;
• Practice different poses.

Before you decide to do something, you definitely need to check with your partner whether this is acceptable for him. If the answer is yes, you can safely try new things!

Thus, only the combination of all factors can give a man truly heavenly, unforgettable pleasure. The main thing is not to be afraid of this, to act boldly and decisively!

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Love him8

In fact, a man will be able to experience the highest pleasure in bed only with a woman he loves and loves. Learn to understand him and fully accept him, with all his strengths and weaknesses, weaknesses and quirks, habits and preferences. Respect him and know how to find compromises, even if you are in a horizontal position at this very moment. After all, to love means to give without demanding anything in return. To love is to try to make you happier.

Victoria Fomina

Expert

Doctor sexologist of the highest category, psychiatrist, psychotherapist. I have been working as a sexologist for more than 10 years. I help couples resolve problems in their sex life.

Guys don't have as many erogenous zones as women. But even they are enough to please a man in bed. The first is, naturally, the penis. The head of the penis is incredibly sensitive, and its stimulation will almost 100% lead to orgasm. Next are the lips. Surprisingly, they have a huge number of nerve endings. It’s not for nothing that men get so excited by kisses. Next is the scrotum. Men enjoy gentle stimulation of the testicles, licking and sucking them. Two more zones are the neck and ears. Especially the lobes. Gently biting the earlobes of your beloved man will give him a lot of pleasure.

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Performance technique

There are many fingering techniques. They can be used in a classic form (for women) and in a more non-standard form (for men).

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There is nothing complicated about playing with your hands in intimate areas. After reading simple technical recommendations, you can begin practical exercises and surprise your chosen one with new basics in sex.

To a woman

The most sensitive places are the clitoris and vagina. The fingering technique is mainly aimed at them.

Two fingers

Insert 2 fingers to a depth that is comfortable for your partner. Alternately move your fingers up and down (from their base) and left and right (from the hand). Periodically remove your hand and insert it again.

Helping hand

Fingering is performed with both hands. The fingers of one hand plunge deep into the vagina, and the other actively stimulates the clitoris. Internal penetration can be static, calm (for example, smooth movements back and forth or playing with the walls of the vagina with your fingers) or active.

Watch technology

The fingers are inserted inside, the hand begins to move clockwise. The speed can vary from slow to moderately fast. The deeper the man’s hand is inserted into the vagina, the more vivid emotions the woman will experience.

Alluring movements

Insert your index finger inside the vagina (pad to the front wall, nail to the back). Intensely bend and straighten your finger, as if trying to lure someone. In this case, the fingertip will caress the first third of the vagina, on which there is a large accumulation of nerve endings. Touching them will evoke powerful emotions.

Gradually, you can introduce 1-2 more fingers using a similar technique.

Ripple

Insert your fingers deep inside. Fix their base at the entrance to the vulva, do not move your hand. Only the fingers work. Make intense pulsating movements, up and down, periodically pressing them harder against the upper wall.

Corkscrew

Insert the finger into the vagina using movements reminiscent of a drill (as if screwing it inward, like a corkscrew). Pull it out, insert it again, but with 2 fingers.

As an experiment, you can “screw in” more and more fingers each time, speeding up their insertion.

Spoon

Insert several fingers into the vagina, preferably to the maximum depth. Then pull out your hand completely, while bending your fingers and performing movements as if you were scooping out the contents with a spoon.

When exiting, do not straighten your fingers. The “female entrance” will stretch a little and a feeling of pleasant, mild pain will appear.

Moving Forward

Straight fingers are inserted into the vagina. Their number is at the discretion of lovers. For less harsh caresses – 2 fingers. For extreme erotic play – 3-4.

Insert your fingers deeply forward until they stop. Then pull your hand out completely. Repeat the technique. You can start with slow movements and gradually increase the speed.

Fixation

Insert 2 fingers into the vagina so that the pads touch the front wall. Fix your fingers next to each other, bend them slightly. Without changing the position of the hand and fingers, begin slow movements of the hand from the shoulder back and forth.

The fingers, fixed in a static position, will slide along the front wall of the vagina when moving the hand, delivering fireworks of pleasure to the girl.

Cowgirl

The girl sits on top of the man, he inserts his fingers inside her. Moves her hips in circles or raises and lowers her pelvis, receiving pleasure from the hand located between her legs.

Finding the G-spot

The G-spot is located 5 centimeters up on the front wall. To find this secret place, the man inserts his middle finger into the vagina and begins intense movements with it, examining the front wall.

If a man is not experienced enough in finding the most erogenous place in a woman, then it is unlikely that he will be able to bring her to orgasm with one finger. By adding an index and ring finger, your chances of success will increase.

Freeze

All that is required of the man is to insert his fingers into the vagina and freeze without performing any movements.

Many girls are very excited when the hand of their beloved man is inside. Fingering using the “Freeze” technique can be supplemented with passionate kisses and light movements of the female hips.

Tickling

This technique requires 2-3 male fingers that slowly enter inside the woman. After this, quickly move your fingers, as if tickling. The faster the speed, the more pleasure the woman will get from erotic tickling.

To a man

Many men are embarrassed to admit that they enjoy anal stimulation. However, only a small part of them are actually categorically opposed to their sacred place being touched. Therefore, girls should be offered anal fingering as a pleasant experiment.

Male fingering also involves playing with the penis with your fingers. If you perform both techniques at the same time, it is unlikely to leave a man indifferent.

finger rain

Warm up your fingers, relax your hands. Lightly tap the pads to touch the penis, creating the feeling of fine rain. You can take short breaks, moving from finger rain to oral sex.

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whisk

Gently grasp the groove in the area of ​​the head of the penis with the fingers of one hand, and playfully tap the head itself with the fingers of the other. In men, this technique causes strong arousal.

Magic circles

Magic circles around the male perineum are a sexual stimulant. With your index finger, touch the center of the perineum, then perform smooth circular movements, applying light pressure. First draw erotic circles clockwise, then counterclockwise.

If you caress your penis while drawing magic circles, the man will receive a powerful orgasm.

Two fists

The technique involves playing with a man's anus and buttocks with both hands. First, the anus is stimulated with the index finger in a circular motion, which turns into a massage of the buttocks with two hands clenched into a fist.

The technique can be supplemented by internal finger insertion. Erotic prostate massage will be not only pleasant, but also useful.

Solo

Masturbation is a great opportunity to explore your body and understand what you like when playing with your hands. There are no special techniques here. The girl caresses the clitoris and inserts her fingers into the vagina, slides them back and forth, and performs circular movements.

It is impossible to find a man who will be indifferent to the fact that a girl is masturbating in front of him. This is very powerful foreplay and makes a man very excited. In addition, by studying how a woman performs a finger on herself, her partner will understand what kind of finger movements are pleasant to her.

Oral sex: how to please a guy

Why men love blowjobs so much is no secret:

• they are visual people - they are excited by the view from above of a sexy woman, open to depraved and forbidden actions;
• During oral sex, sensations are mixed: who is in charge and who is submissive. The man seems to have given the woman the control panel, but by holding her by the hair and shoulders, he can regulate the pace;
• caresses with the tongue are not like either the hands or the vagina - they are more gentle and soft, and the orgasm from these sensations is stronger and brighter;
• Guys have a reverent attitude towards their penis, therefore, when giving a blowjob, the girl also expresses love and admiration;
• During oral sex, a man fully concentrates on pleasure, he does not think about the girl, about her orgasm, about “not cumming.” It dissolves...

Secrets of an unforgettable blowjob:

• want him. Take the penis in your mouth, lick it, enjoy the growing erection. Without desire, don’t start. You shouldn't give a blowjob for show or marital duty;
• take your time, increase the pace gradually and don’t chase orgasm. Enjoy every step.
• push your penis deeper gradually. If you don’t want to do a deep blowjob, lick the head of the penis and the frenulum: these are the most sensitive parts;
• make massage movements with your hands: place them on the scrotum or buttocks;
• do not use teeth and nails. Will come in handy next time!