A person who is loved is forgiven a lot. A man in love is able to be patient with those qualities of his chosen one that irritate him in other women. Every man wants a woman next to him who is not only tall, long-legged, sexy and relaxed, but also who does not irritate his nerve endings. Let's try to find out what qualities irritate men in the fair half of humanity - women. And in general: what irritates men most, from first-hand experience.
Talkativeness
If you think that a talkative woman is a godsend for a man, then you are deeply mistaken. It is unlikely that your fan is a spy, and he needs to learn a secret from you. On the one hand, without noticing it, you are showing all your cards to him, and on the other hand, excessive talkativeness tires your other half. Remember that a woman should be a mystery, like an unread book... This is how she “captures” men and this is why she is interesting.
“When you can’t shut them up and they blow your mind. Can't we just be silent for half an hour? Is it really necessary for me to tell about my friends and their friends’ friends? Isn’t it possible to solve the simplest problems yourself, like buying a bag or designing nails, without consulting me? Please don’t call me a hundred times a day “just like that” and be offended that I don’t answer stupid rhetorical SMS.”
Feminine pretense
Alas, the fair sex tends to pretend! Each of us, regardless of whether he is a man or a woman, has his own goal. Achieving it is the dream of every person. But sometimes, women go to any lengths to pretend just to achieve their cherished dreams. then it’s not an acting course – it’s life, and what is the guarantee that your role was a success and you turned out to be an experienced actress. Remember, everything is revealed sooner and later. And everything secret becomes clear.
Provocative phrases
Men are very irritated by stupid female phrases like this: “I would like to talk to you,” “How do you feel about me?”, “Do you love me?”, “Did you have many women before you met me?”, “ When will you introduce me to your parents?”, “Be a man, after all!”, “What are you thinking about?”, “Who do you love more?”, “Do you like me?” Before anything comes out of your pretty mouth, think a hundred times about what you say and what you ask.
“Women love to ask a hundred times: “Am I the best?”, “Do you love me?” They are pleased to hear affirmative answers. "How can?""
“My girlfriend constantly complains about how fat she is, that she has a pimple on her nose, and that her hair is thin. I'm starting to feel like a complete loser for dating such a monster as she thinks she is. I understand, of course, that she needs compliments so that I can calm her down. But she really has a pimple and really folds on her stomach, and I didn’t notice it before!”
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Despite the fact that the relationship between a man and a woman can be quite happy, there is almost always room for irritation and dissatisfaction. This is due to the fact that representatives of different sexes look at the world completely differently and have their own system of values and life guidelines. To resolve conflicts effectively, you need to understand what it is about women’s behavior that men may not like.
Strange nicknames
Many women like to call their companions “bunnies” or “babies,” but men, as a rule, do not really like this. Such nicknames sound rather infantile, and the “bunnies” in relationships often do not want to bear responsibility and be the protector of their chosen one. This is due to the fact that a representative of the stronger sex does not feel respect for his masculinity from a woman.
Desire to constantly post photos
A man will be happy to take a beautiful photo with his beloved as a souvenir, but if she asks him to take pictures at every corner, this can significantly spoil the man’s mood. Besides, how can you communicate with a girl who is constantly either taking pictures or scrolling through the feed of pictures on her phone? The stronger sex is much more interested in discussing some of the latest news heard, your tastes and preferences, than watching how you choose a good angle for the next photo.
Command tone
The stronger sex likes strong and wise ladies, but communicating with “commanders” and “teachers” does not give them any pleasure. This shows that the woman strives to be in charge and make as many decisions as possible in the relationship. In healthy relationships, representatives of the stronger sex like to consult and together choose more optimal ways to do something or cope with a problem. In other words, a man wants his opinion to be respected and valued.
Habit of provoking
Provocations are one of a woman’s favorite psychological tools. Representatives of the fairer sex provoke men because they want to understand where the line begins, upon crossing which a woman begins to irritate and offend her companion. Many ladies are interested in knowing this, but for men such manipulations do not bring anything but negative emotions. Provocations often cause a man to develop hostility towards a woman, as well as a desire to stop all communication with her.
Reaction to gifts
It's no secret that most women expect expensive gifts from men: they want new smartphones, expensive perfumes, gold jewelry and much more. They often expect luxurious gifts from their companions, and then are disappointed in what men give in the end. The emotions of the fairer sex can be easily read on their faces, and a negative reaction to a gift offends and hurts men. To prevent this from happening, women need to understand that a man is not obliged to guess the wishes of his beloved and present her with ultra-expensive things.
Remaking a man “to suit himself”
It is not surprising that the conviction of some representatives of the fair sex that a good man is formed by a woman, as well as phrases in the spirit of “I blinded you from what was” will greatly offend a man. They do not show that the lady respects her companion and loves him for his individuality. On the contrary, the representative of the stronger sex begins to think that his chosen one is not so important to his personality. This attitude can discourage a man from caring for a woman.
"Sour cabbage soup"
Men consider one of the unpleasant features of female behavior to be the mood when the weaker sex is dissatisfied with everything in the world, and especially with the actions of their companion, and strives to show this in their facial expressions, actions and deeds. At the same time, the chosen one can ask for forgiveness a hundred times, try to fix everything, but dissatisfaction can remain on the woman’s face. In such a situation, representatives of the stronger sex are often lost and do not know what to do.
All these aspects of female behavior irritate men, but this means that relationships in which they are present are necessarily doomed to failure. It is likely that, having noticed her dissatisfied face, provocations or commands in time, a woman will be able to stop herself and save the love union.
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26.03.2019 00:53
Women's helplessness
Each of us wants to see a strong man next to us, who can come to the rescue at any moment and solve all problems. But this does not mean that all even very minor problems should be placed on men’s shoulders. Some problems can be solved by yourself. He is not a crutch, and you are not a cripple. Don't make life difficult for a man. Prove to him that you are not a helpless doll, but a modern woman.
“It’s annoying when they say: “You’re a man, you have to, you decide!” But I don’t want to decide anything, I want beer and salted fish!) Well, it’s annoying girls who complain that they are the wrong men these days. It’s as if women today are “those”, because of such chickens they are not at all capable of heroic deeds.”
Female jealousy
Men are polygamous by nature and therefore give women more reasons to be jealous. Jealousy should be pleasant, tickle your nerves a little. But you shouldn’t be jealous of every woman. By doing this you will only prove to him that he is in demand and will worsen your situation. You shouldn’t make scenes and hysterics for him at home. Sooner or later Everything has its end. And if you don’t stop in time, the ending can be disastrous. Jealousy is good to the extent that it warms up the relationship so that love does not become insipid.
“It infuriates me when she sits there all with a sour expression, you ask what happened. She wipes her sniffles, sighs and says in a dying voice: “Nothing.” Well, girls, we are not psychics to guess what happened there and what you are not happy with. At least say why you are offended and suffering, otherwise your tears are of no use.”
Intimate life: what annoys men about women
The sphere of sexual life is the subject of an agreement between two people who express it through mutual feelings for each other. Men are annoyed when she becomes an object of bargaining and manipulation. Begging for intimacy is not only humiliating, but also fraught with consequences. This is a serious threat to marital relationships.
It is unacceptable to discuss the details of sexual life with third parties, ridiculing male incompetence or characteristics of the reproductive organ. As well as critical remarks during intimacy or imitation of orgasm. Anything that destroys trust between partners causes irritation and kills feelings. It is more important to give your man an understanding that a woman expects psychological satisfaction from sex.
Criticism
Stop being stupid and criticizing your friends, classmates, work colleagues, and even more so criticizing your beloved man. You shouldn't pretend to be an ideal woman. By criticizing you can alienate your loved one. Although, according to psychologists, female friendship is a relative concept, you should not try to look like a good girl in men’s eyes. From the outside it looks funny. It’s annoying that girls think that the whole world should be laid at their feet just because they have beautiful tits and butts. This is not a reason to demand from guys that they indulge all their whims. I also can’t stand stupid and illiterate people!
“It’s annoying to see girls who like to make fun of other girls, as if they’ve never seen themselves in the mirror.”
Need support all the time
Some ladies experience serious difficulties associated with a lack of a sense of reliability and security. They want men to support them every minute, hug them, kiss them, tell them that they are special, unique and inimitable. When women use men as emotional support, demanding that they be hugged, stroked, told how special they are, it begins to irritate. Such girls treat men as emotional crutches, expecting moral, psychological and emotional support. Men quickly get bored with this; although they are the stronger sex, they sometimes lack strength. Men do not like women who are absolutely insecure; this may be even worse than self-confident and independent women.
Compulsion
Many of us want to crush a man under us and force him to unquestioningly obey the female will and the female mind. Remember that not all men can be turned into henpecked men. And you shouldn’t force a man to do something he doesn’t want: for example, go with you to your girlfriends, or do another shopping trip. There are many things that simply bore men. A man is also a person and has the right to choose. He also has interests, and they very often differ from yours, just because you are a woman and he is a man.
Mercantile
Remember once and for all - a guy doesn’t owe you anything just because you’re a girl. We live in the modern world, so if you please, work and pay for your trips to beauty salons and clothes yourself. Of course, you don’t need to refuse gifts, but you must understand that you have to pay for pleasure yourself. Believe me, guys are so tired of parasites who want to sit on their man’s neck and dangle their legs, that you will seem to them like an ideal self-sufficient woman. They don't throw these around.
Sloppiness
Any woman should take care of herself. Make a neat hairstyle, keep your hands and especially your nails in good condition. Remember, men in love are not necessarily blind! Before you appear in front of a man, look at yourself in the mirror. Pay attention to your hair and nails. Many men would rather appreciate a very plump woman than a sloppy one.
“Lack of taste in clothes and makeup. Of course, we brazenly look at those dressed like prostitutes, but this is far from admiration. It’s just that since a girl allowed herself to dress like that, it means that everything is not right in her head or she is looking for a fertilizing male. And we are always ready for the latter, as it is not to help the weaker sex. Just don’t count on a long-term relationship.”
“Long, very long nails are annoying. Especially plastic ones... well, extensions.”
Consumer attitude
Men don't like female consumers. To build harmonious relationships, it is necessary not only to receive and demand, but also to be able to give. In this way, a woman shows that she is interested in a man not only in material terms, but primarily as a person and a person.
Interesting to know!
Men tend to eat more when they are in the company of a woman. This happens unconsciously and is most likely an ancient way to impress. Women, as we know, on a date are ready to chew one leaf of lettuce all evening. For about the same purpose. And also from excitement.
Unpunctuality
We want the man to be punctual, but ourselves... Yes, you can stay late... but no more than 10 minutes. It's a small thing, but it can cause a quarrel. “I’m not late, but slightly delayed” - it’s good to say this phrase once... A systematic delay can lead to the fact that instead of you he will glance at a girl passing by... And then what?!
“I can’t stand late people. If she’s late for the first date, goodbye.”
Don't overestimate yourself
Of course, you need to love and accept yourself with your shortcomings and strengths. But this does not negate a sober look at your appearance. Have you gained 20 kilograms? Well, where do you wear a miniskirt?.. Evaluate yourself adequately and choose clothes that suit your body type. Is your guy head over heels in love with you and just doesn’t notice it? Don't worry, his good friends will keep dropping hints until he sees the light.
