Evening of music and dance
Ask your friends to bring a selection of their favorite tracks and host a night of each other's music. Musical preferences will tell you a lot about your friends. Perhaps you will also add to your playlists.
You can arrange a nostalgic disco, remembering school and student parties, hesitant attempts to invite a pretty girl to a slow dance, for example, to the legendary song by Sting “Shape Of My Heart”.
Usually, friends have a lot of events and situations associated with music, which will become not only a topic of conversation, but also a reason to learn some kind of dance together! Elegant and piercing tango, passionate and uncontrollable salsa - the choice is yours. The Internet is full of video lessons that will help you quickly learn the basic elements and get a feel for the character of a particular dance.
Talk
There is a film that you can watch several times with undiminished interest - “What do men talk about?”. Four men, heading towards their goal in a car, take turns talking about their problems. The others listen without interrupting. Thus, one of the basic human needs is realized: to be listened to, understood and not criticized.
The problem can be the same, most often it is relationships with girls and women. But no two people or situations are the same: each time it will be a unique story. The beginning of these stories is similar, but the development has many options.
It's interesting to talk about yourself.
Every person wants to talk about themselves.
This is the most interesting topic of all conversations. But it is useful to listen to the opinions of well-meaning people. They can tell a lot that is only visible from the outside. It is not necessary to follow the advice, but you need to draw conclusions.
Agree with your friends that you will not impose your advice on each other. Other people may not fully know what you need. Many vague sensations are difficult to put into words, and you don’t want to fully reveal yourself to others, and you shouldn’t. Life is yours, and you need to live it, with all the delights and defeats. The bad option is to live it boringly.
It is interesting to listen to the stories of your friends. You will begin to better understand people, understand the motives of their actions. You can consider these conversations a school of eloquence. Practice will help you express your thoughts in understandable language in other situations.
Come up with a poem or story together
You can spend the evening doing group writing. In this matter, you just have to start. The result will be very unpredictable - everyone will pick up each other’s thoughts, add humor and wit with their own line or sentence. A dozen such meetings - you see, and a joint collection of poems and stories has been collected.
If among your friends someone plays the guitar, you can compose songs on pre-selected funny topics. And you don’t have to limit yourself to just one musical instrument.
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Ways to spend time interestingly and usefully:
- Play intellectual or computer games, a console . The second and third leisure options are possible if your girlfriend is a gamer or she likes to spend time like that. But the first option is that intellectual board games can be a win-win way to spend time together. There are a lot of board games that you can buy at an affordable price and play them together or with friends.
- Prepare some delicious dish together . The two of you can find a suitable recipe on the Internet or a cookbook, if you have one in the house. Go to the store together, select and buy the necessary products. Then, start preparing the dish, while dividing the responsibilities. For example, one is cutting apples, the other is kneading dough for a sweet pie. The prepared pie can be eaten together while watching a movie.
- Sing karaoke . If you stay at home on the weekend, and it’s not too late, then you can sing. Even if you don’t have a microphone at hand, if you don’t have a great ear for music, it doesn’t matter. It is enough to have a computer and the Internet, choose songs with words and sing for yourself.
- Having watched many films together in the past, you can play a game of guessing characters, phrases and other things . Ask each other questions, guess, play for wishes if one of you said the wrong answer.
- If regular sex in bed is no longer a novelty, you’re a little tired, then there is an original idea that you can offer your girlfriend . Draw a plan of your apartment, mark the places where you have not had sex yet, but would like to try. Experiment, mark the places with a cross “on the map” where you have already done this. This is suitable for those couples who already live together, live separately from their relatives, have no small children at all, or are absent from home for some time.
- Have a romantic dinner , then go to the bathroom, filling it with water and foam, decorating it with scented candles and more.
- Do something creative together . For example, learn to play the guitar. Find a drawing workshop on the Internet and learn new skills together.
- Turn on the music, close the curtains, turn on the garland or light lamp, dance together - arrange a disco at home.
- Engage in an active lifestyle . Do a set of exercises together in the morning, before work, if possible. Do yoga.
- Look at your childhood photos, or photos together . Select a suitable photo of you together, print it out - decorate your home, or order mugs with inscriptions with it. Print out the photo, create an album together, and add to it periodically.
- Start a conversation about where you would like to take your next vacation together . Chatting about life topics and planning the future will help you distract yourself, dream and pass the time in the evening.
- A quest will help you have fun . You can buy a gift for a girl and hide it. Then, write the tips and place them around the apartment.
- Devote time to yourself and caring for your bodies and appearance . Make each other clay masks and massages.
- Even doing housework together while listening to music will become some kind of entertainment for you . If it comes to the next spring cleaning, do it together on a day off.
Game night
Prepare some light snacks and play all evening. In “Mafia”, “Twister”, “Crocodile”, “Who Am I?”, Darts - it all depends on your capabilities and imagination. For example, the games “Manager” or “Monopoly” develop economic thinking, and “Twister” will bring you closer together and make you laugh. A large selection of boards with descriptions is available, for example, on the website oz.by.
Or you can play ordinary card games - “Fool”, “Thousand”, “Poker” - and remember the tricks with them that we knew how to do in childhood. And learn new ones.
What to do with a girl in the evening
You can do whatever you want in the evening. The main thing is not to engage in very active activities. Cook dinner together and play games. They can be simple or complex - based on logic. But, if one of you is tired, then you should choose calm, but at the same time interesting games, for example, sea battle, words or cities, guessing something. You can even sit down and start doing a crossword puzzle together after dinner.
The most standard way to spend an evening is watching a comedy film together. It is better to avoid watching melodramas, dramas and horrors before bed.
Interesting ways to spend time with a girl at home
Home games for two
Home games for couples
Cook something from molecular gastronomy
You can, of course, not bother too much and bring ready-made simple dishes - and everyone can taste them together (even rate each other and choose a winner at the end of the evening). Well, if you want to make a completely unusual gastronomic discovery, we recommend trying to cook something from molecular gastronomy. Citrus spaghetti, watermelon caviar, coffee meat, liver candy - turn an evening with friends into a real culinary laboratory and break the mold about food. 12 dishes that you can make at home can be found here.
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Computer games
If you and your friends live far from each other and don’t have the opportunity to see each other, but don’t mind spending the evening on the computer, then various online games will help you. In the game “Keep talking and nobody explodes” you have to try on the role of a sapper and defuse a bomb. But the problem is that you don't have instructions. And your friend has it. And only he can tell you how to do it correctly. This game will help you develop your speaking skills and understand how well you understand each other.
In the game "Orcs must die" you and a friend have to stop the attack of a horde of orcs. In the game you will need to build clever traps and lure enemies there, preventing them from breaking through your fortifications. And only your competent interaction can stop the monstrous hordes of green-skinned invaders.
There are also a huge number of other online games, such as the popular “Dota 2“ and “League of Legends“, where you, as part of five people, have to destroy the base of the opposing team. Boredom at the computer can be easily solved with friends.
Discussion Club
Make a list of movies, books or events that you all know in advance with your friends and discuss them. Or you can make a film club evening: watch a film and talk about it, as they say, without delay.
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Depending on your interests, you can discuss political and economic processes, new fashion items, sensational articles on the Internet, and so on. The main thing is that during heated intellectual debates your friendship does not cool down.
Board games
If your group has not played much board games before and is new to them, then you can start with something simple. Let's say from the UNO game. It is one of the most popular board games all over the world. The rules are quite simple and understandable for all ages. This is also convenient for those who do not want to understand them for a long time, but rather start playing. The price of the UNO game is minimal and is sold in almost all board game stores.
If you or your friends are already familiar with the universe of board games and want to spend a couple of evenings with passion and interest, then you should try Citadels and Colonizers. In "Citadels" you will need to try on one of the roles of the ancient city - King, Bishop or Kondratier. To win, you will need to build neighborhoods in your city and collect the most points.
“Colonizers” appeared in Germany in 1995, and since then the game has won not only many prestigious awards around the world, but also the hearts of fans. As settlers you will have to colonize the island of Catan. To earn victory points, you will build roads, settlements and cities. And competent planning of your actions, choosing a winning strategy and skillful trading of resources with your opponents will help you achieve success.
A good board game will allow you to spend more than one interesting evening with friends. In various game moments and solving different problems, you will be able to show yourself and get to know your friends better.
Plan together
Take a pack of paper, markers, make your life plans or a wish card - for a month, a year, or maybe several years. Friends are people who often inspire and support us in our endeavors and can sometimes give good advice. And the goals of another person, especially a friend, can become motivation for fulfilling your own plans. You can also write down a plan for your future interesting meetings.
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