How to help a man earn more money?

How to make a man start earning more? Someone prefers to nag a worthless guy. Someone takes everything upon themselves, allowing their loved one to be lazy. It seems that you are going in circles and are doomed to endure this for the rest of your life. Because you know that people don't change. But don't give up. In this article I will tell you why your chosen one is starting to sit on his neck, and how to help him earn more money.

Do you know effective ways? I will be glad if you share them in the comments.

Why is a man not ready to earn money?

To begin with, I will name the reasons why a man begins to “shirk” his responsibilities as a breadwinner. And this is even despite the fact that you sing his praises and compliment him day and night.

Imagine, you just got married, everything is fine with you, you adore your man. But now you live together for a year or two. And he stops trying. Why?

1. He has such a character. Which one? I will explain. This is your mistake. Did you notice even at the stage of acquaintance that he often saves, counts every penny and, in addition, scolds his boss and the government? Congratulations. This will last a long time. And, most likely, nothing will change. In this case, you don’t even understand how to hint that he doesn’t earn enough. Useless. On his part, the conversation is short: “Be patient, that means it’s necessary...”.

2. He is not ready to be the head of the family. When you first met, your lover seemed ideal to you. In your heart you thought: “Once we get married, he will definitely be the breadwinner.” And you easily put up with his “small” shortcomings. But in reality it turned out that the spouse was simply not capable of taking responsibility. Most likely, he had an overbearing mother. And now he wants to see you in this role.

3. You yourself decided to help him financially. And this is the biggest female mistake. You don't think about how to motivate a man to succeed. It’s easier for you to do everything yourself, and also feel sorry for him. Do you understand that by doing so you are only making things worse? Inspiring a loved one is one of the main tasks of a girl - the keeper of the hearth. There's no shame in this. And when you take on male functions, you, without knowing it, seem to be cutting off your partner’s wings.

Below I will talk about the most effective ways to motivate your spouse. In the meantime, I remember a case from practice:

Elena, 35 years old, married, mother of two children. The problem is that my husband has stopped earning a stable income. The woman, out of the kindness of her soul, helped him with all her might. I also got my parents involved. So, an adult man quickly sat on the neck of his wife and her relatives. In the end, Lena got tired of it. Conflicts and resentments began. Classics of the genre.

My advice was this. Not a penny for the house! Yes. This is hard. Yes, you need to eat something and feed the children. I explained that in this case, you can go to your parents, they will always feed her there. And I wasn't kidding. When everything is running, half measures will not do. Only drastic actions are needed.

And the second point. In such situations, I recommend that women tell their husbands about their feelings. Do not get angry or offended under any circumstances. By the way, everything in Elena’s life got better according to plan. She and her husband overcame financial difficulties together and became even closer.

By the way, if you have a similar experience, I would be happy to read about it in the comments.

How to support your husband.

2. Gratitude.

People in general have very big problems thanking others. Your gratitude to your man should be expressed even in the most insignificant details. In fact, don’t be afraid to even exaggerate this gratitude. And in this way you will give him the opportunity to feel like a hero next to you.

By the way, girls, the need to feel like a hero in men is higher than the need for sex. Therefore, draw your own conclusions. Women have succeeded in the art of brain removal and any man can envy them for this. But sometimes saying a simple thank you can be really difficult. It’s like stepping over yourself. Well, some people think that there is nothing to say thank you for, because they should anyway. And if you start praising him, won’t he eventually become insolent? Strange logic of course. How are you going to motivate a man then? A stick along the ridge?

But sometimes we ourselves turn to them for help, they somehow agree, I agree, especially if it concerns some everyday issues. How crooked and askew they do it, but they do it. When we see this, we are horrified: “I’d rather do it myself, just move away, don’t, don’t touch.” What are we doing with this? We once and for all discourage him from any desire and desire to help us in the future.

Of course, you need to thank and praise your husband. Even when he does something completely ordinary, insignificant, small for you. Still, be able to be surprised and admire it like a child. After all, he did something good for you. Even if it’s a little bit and not exactly what you wanted, he puffed and tried. But in this way, from time to time, you create positive reinforcement for his good actions towards you.

And receiving feedback in the form of such super positive energy, he will want it. That's exactly what you want. Not because you asked him, or because he has to, but he himself will want to do more and more for you. This is the second way to motivate a man.

How to motivate a man to earn money

So, if you want to live in abundance and not skimp on yourself, follow a few simple recommendations.

Make sure your man has goals

It is important to understand this at the dating stage. I'll tell you a little secret. For a worthy and decent man, it is humiliating to live at the expense of a woman. When, while dating, you hear from a young man the phrases: “There is no normal job anywhere” or “We’ll get by somehow,” it’s better not to get involved with him.

Most likely, he wants you to volunteer to help him, or worse, to take pity on him. And you know what's the saddest thing? Girls think they can keep guys away by being understanding and compassionate. But in reality they just babysit him like a child.

You don't have to do this! There are more effective ways. Find out about them in the online course “Secrets of Women’s Happiness”, which is held at the Pavel Rakov Training Center.

Stop being strong and independent

If you are used to carrying everything on yourself in life, then it’s time to get rid of this skill. Give your spouse the right to make decisions and be responsible for the family. Nobody says you have to become a helpless princess.

Do only what you like, quit the job you don't like. Finally, start to give in to your husband, let him decide for himself a little. And remember: the more a man invests in you, the more he values you.

Don't put pressure on him

Some girls do not quite understand the difference between the situations “how to motivate your husband to earn more” and “how to make your husband earn more.”

If you force, nag and kick your spouse, show aggression, you will only make things worse. Learn to be grateful to your man, praise him even for small achievements. And if you endlessly demand from him, the beloved will only rebel, or even completely withdraw into himself.

Use temporary difficulties for good

When a man has financial problems, he worries no less than you. Your task is to show him that you are ready to go with him to the end. And if you go through this difficult path, you will love him even more, and he will love you too.

Girls, understand that we do not fall in love through luxury and five-star hotels. We fall in love through overcoming difficulties together. When you support your spouse, you become even closer.

Give him an emotional swing

This method is suitable if you initially went too far with praise and compliments. As a result, the man relaxed, even became arrogant to some extent. You need to be tough here.

First, you tell your lover how smart, brave, and purposeful he is. Then you explain that he's not trying very hard at the moment, and that makes you sad. Then again turn the conversation into a positive direction and immediately remind him of his flaws, but with a vengeance. Check it out in practice: this technique works flawlessly.

Want to learn more about different ways to motivate your loved one? Visit the “Ideal Love Relationships” and “Happily Married” sections more often.

And now I’m very interested to know: what techniques of interaction with a man are close to you? Please list them in the comments.

How to praise your husband.

3. Support.

Develop self-confidence in your man. Praise him even for the most minor successes and advancements. Celebrate his best side. In order for him to want and strive to develop the best traits of his character. And of course, believe in his strength. Tell him every day that a man like him deserves a better position, promotion, higher salary. You can even tell him some feminine nonsense, even though he doesn’t believe in it, it works.

- You know, dear, I went to the astrologer yesterday. She looked at your chart and told me that a great future awaits you. I knew that I chose you not by chance!

Any tricks can be allowed in. The most important thing is that he feels and that you are the person who breathes confidence into him. You believe in him, you don’t doubt him. You tell him about this every day that:

- There’s only one man like you. And I'm with you only because I believe. I saw you and immediately realized that you were not like everyone else.

This is the third way to motivate a man.

Realize yourself

As a rule, the companion of a realized, rich man should be a successful and happy woman. While your husband is fighting for the riches of the world and the next millions, start or continue to do what you like, develop your skills and talents. Next to her rapidly developing husband there should also be a woman who is demanding of herself, who is also looking for her place in the world and doing something she likes. When the difference in professional, intellectual, and cultural development between spouses becomes large, it is difficult to maintain interest in each other and the marriage itself.

7. Work on relationships

A. Ryazantsev confidently argued that money is only a shadow of a relationship in a couple. That is, quarrels and family conflicts can be the cause of financial difficulties and a stumbling block to wealth. The more harmonious, friendly and loving relationships reign in your home, the faster financial issues will improve. Cope with tension and resentment, because they prevent you from focusing on the business part of life. The better the relationship, the more the husband will earn.

8. Look attractive

No matter how strange it may sound, a wife’s appearance affects her husband’s earnings. Maybe it’s not for nothing that beautiful and well-groomed women are so often next to millionaires?

Psychologists from a US university have proven that for most men, a beautiful girl is an incentive to move up the career ladder. When contemplating an attractive woman, a man’s brain areas that are responsible for self-realization (acceptors of the result of actions) are activated. The unconscious mechanism triggers processes that lead to a man’s increase in funds. Actions become more targeted and, as a result, productive. Gradually things are getting better and there is more money. Arrange a feast for your man's eyes and be beautiful!

9. Feed your husband well

Let your diet contain plenty of dairy products: milk, cheese, cottage cheese, yogurt, as well as vegetables and fruits. These products will provide your husband with vital energy for self-realization and success in business.

10. Be generous

This law of life is confirmed daily: the more we give and do not regret, the faster it returns. It could be money, attention, help, good deeds, knowledge, time, care, food, things. Everything other people might need. Be generous and your family will become richer.

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I want to say right away that under no circumstances should you force your husband. This will not lead to the result you would like to achieve. It would be right to inspire your husband. It is necessary to make him want to earn more. How to do it?

1) Express your desires to your spouse (for example, to go on vacation to the Bahamas, buy a new car, a beautiful fur coat, etc.). But express this as wishes, not demands: “I would like to go with you to the Bahamas, imagine how wonderful the two of us will relax there, I love spending time with you.” And the man understands that he is part of your dream and its main implementer. Men, as a rule, are ready to be content with little (although there are exceptions here), so they earn money to satisfy your desires. Men are not so interested in doing something for themselves, they do not enjoy it. A man's true natural program is to make a woman happy. A magic phrase that every woman should periodically say: “Darling, how did you manage to make me so happy?” And at the same time, be sure to answer this question for yourself, thereby you will strengthen your relationship and increase its value for yourself;

2) Have patience;

3) Honestly answer yourself how much you believe in your man, in his abilities, in his ability to earn big money, reach a new level of income;

4) Assess it and your readiness for big money. Talk to him about it: “Darling, I bought a lottery ticket and if we won 1 (10, 100) million rubles... Let’s dream about what we would spend it on.” And from his answers you will immediately understand whether he is ready for big money, whether he is ready to spend it on you, how he sees your future, you will understand his plans for life. Pay special attention to the restrictions that you and your spouse have regarding money (money is evil, money is earned only through hard work, everyone who has a lot of money earned it through dishonest labor, etc.) As soon as you identify such a limitation is already the key to success; you have brought it to the surface and realized it. Just understand that this is just your limitation, and it does not have a positive effect on your life at all and it’s time to part with it. Also, pay attention to the “money ceiling” in your family. For example, at some point your income increased, but at the same time your expenses also increased, and in fact, you constantly spend approximately the same amount on yourself, regardless of the growth of your income. It is also very important that you and your husband see not only ways to spend money, but also opportunities to increase and save them.

So, we realized that the best way to “get your husband off the couch” is to inspire him. And in order for you to best demonstrate your qualities as an Inspirer, do the following exercise:

First, pay attention to how you show yourself in your family and in society. What qualities do you have more?

1) You are soft, calm, harmonious, creative, gentle, you like to communicate with your friends about your own things, about feminine things, you like to cook, create comfort in your home, you like to wear skirts or...

2) You are active, take initiative, like to wear trousers more than skirts, and it is possible that you don’t even have dresses in your wardrobe, you easily achieve your goals, moving “through thorns to the stars”, i.e. Are you more of those women about whom they say: “She will stop a galloping horse and enter a burning hut”?

If you classify yourself as one of the first type of women, then most likely you have no questions about a man’s inspiration, but a woman of the second type should observe herself a little and adjust something in her behavior. If you belong to the second type of woman, then most likely the man next to you is soft, creative, caring, but not a “fighter”. This happens because in nature everything strives for balance, and if you are quite active, then a man is more passive in life and vice versa. So, the exercise: Periodically, before each task, throughout the day, ask yourself the question: “How can I get pleasure from this task?” For example, “how can I enjoy cooking for my family” (I will happily and enjoy preparing a delicious dinner for my loved ones, approach this issue very creatively, use new ways of cooking and enjoy this process and I see how my loved ones rejoice and thank me for such delicious food) or “how can I get pleasure from ironing shirts for my husband” (when I iron a shirt for my beloved husband, I imagine that I am smoothing out all the obstacles in his path, all situations in his life and I see that everything is going well for my husband), etc. Try to start perceiving your work as a creative activity, find where you can be creative, look at your work and think about how I can feel pleasure from my work. Thus, using your imaginative thinking, receiving pleasure and enjoyment from any process in life, you gradually become a Fairy - the Inspirer of your husband and the whole family.

And yet, admire your husband, do not praise him, but admire him. Because when we praise, we give an assessment, and the one who is higher evaluates, but we want to communicate with our husband on equal terms, so say not “What a great guy you are!”, but “I’m so happy that I have such a wonderful husband” or not “you cook kebabs so well,” it’s better to say “I really like looking at you when you grill kebabs.”

I wish you, dear women, to be an admiring Fairy-Inspirer for your men and I wish that you always have a reason to admire your beloved man.

Elena Belova-Leontyeva

From the editor: Do you still have questions that you don’t dare ask in public? You can contact Elena and Dmitry directly. Click on their name and write them a message.

How to get your husband to work and earn money

For men, it is difficult to believe in motivation, because everyone believes that they are able to achieve everything on their own. Whether we like it or not, we have to admit that without women, many would not have succeeded. Motivation helps not only in earning money, but also in achieving other goals.

Basic rules for motivating a man to earn and bring home money:

Never humiliate your loved one. Men need approval for even the most insignificant actions; praise him more often, talk about your love, and emphasize his virtues.
If you give ultimatums and call a man names, be prepared for the fact that he will never budge. Many men cannot withstand too persistent pressure and look for a less demanding woman. Also, your negative attitude will push him away.
Some ladies are overly protective of their men, which is reminiscent of maternal care. You don’t want to strain yourself with such women, because they themselves cope well with men’s responsibilities.

In families where love and mutual respect reign, a man feels the need to make his woman happy.

As a representative of the strong half of humanity, I will tell you about the features that motivate men to earn money . You need to understand that men have their own internal motivation.

And therefore it is necessary to take into account the following points:

Don't confuse motivation with inspiration. The first motivates action, while the second is an external factor.
A wise woman can become an inspiration for a man, motivating him to take action.
Motivation works when your desires and the man’s aspirations coincide.
Don't rely on hints. Women who resort to such tricks know that hints do not work; men simply do not understand them.

How to get a man to go to work - tips for the better

No need to force

Yes, yes, you heard right. To send your loved one to work, you should under no circumstances insist on getting a job or bring the “matter” to a showdown or scandal.

Any pressure related to work and money will cause an associative series of negativity. It is important not to put “terrifying anchors” in a man’s head. In other words, your partner should not flinch at the word “work”, expecting a complete scolding and a lot of complaints from you.

This does not mean at all that you need to “keep silent” and tolerate parasitism on the part of your spouse. You need to understand that this is only the foundation on which it is possible to build a strong desire to work and earn money on the part of your partner.

Remove the iron lady

As a rule, women's insistent advice to “get a job” is accompanied by self-empowerment. “Only I carry the whole family on myself!” “We live on my salary!” “If it weren’t for me, we would be hungry!”

Rule 2 Recognize his right to experience

I predict your indignation. You were waiting for me to offer the magic words, but I’m just offering to turn the command into a request. Nothing could be simpler! Every woman can say: “Darling, dear, please stop lying on the couch and start earning money.” What simple words, but how difficult it is to pronounce them. And I immediately want to object: why, exactly, should we say this? Don’t they themselves know that they need to earn money? They don’t know that the house is running out of milk and bread, and they have to pay rent, and the child’s boots are completely worn out? So much is needed, but he, you know, sits on the sofa and reigns lying on his side! At such moments, it seems to the woman that he is just an endless lazy and irresponsible type, that he does everything to spite her.

Is this the same person you recently loved? Too many grievances have accumulated! We are so indignant that we are unable to reason sensibly, and we deprive a man of the rights to all human weaknesses.

But let's put aside passionate emotions and think sensibly. It is important for us to understand the psychological state of a man. What happened to him? Why did he lie down on the sofa?

Let's consider the situation from a global perspective: let's say he lost his well-paid job. Or there are difficulties in his company, and he is about to be sent to all four directions.

Losing a job is the biggest stress for a person. And men experience this event more strongly than women, this is confirmed by various studies and surveys. But, unfortunately, their experiences are unknown to us. It doesn’t occur to us that he’s worried while watching the next episode of “Cops.” It seems to us that he is just being rude.

Although we know very well what experiences are, after all, we ourselves, how often we get upset! Our emotional experiences take up so much time and effort that we are worse tired of them than of business. However, we deny emotional experiences to men because we fall into the network of a common stereotype: men are insensitive creatures. This is clearly a fallacy.

Men are the same emotional creatures as women, but they try to hide their emotions by hook or by crook.

It would probably be easier for us women if men admitted their experiences. But they will never admit it! They also need to maintain the stereotype about nerves of iron. Well, it seems that this is part of the concept of masculinity. They keep a straight face so that no one will reproach them for swearing like women. And therefore the woman does not hear: yes, dear, I suffer and suffer a lot. And he hears something like: “Don’t bother me, I’m watching the news, I should be aware of stock quotes!”

I wonder where he gets stock quotes for a football match? Or is the Dow Jones Industrial Average rising rapidly as Spartak loses?

But this is exactly how men hide their mental anguish. And I suggest not destroying these masks. Let them pretend to be stone statues, but we have now learned that men are not made of stone, and it will be easier for us to endure their invisible suffering to the world and move on.

The main thing is love, the rest can be learned

- The numbers correspond to a certain level of energy of a man, what flows of money and power he is able to hold. The more energy a person has, the greater his level of influence, the more money he has and the higher his level of power.

Money is directed, structured sexual and vital energy. But female energy exists in its pure form. There is a lot of it, but it is chaotic. A woman is a source of energy that lifts a man to reveal his potential.

A woman gives a man her energy, and he turns it into money, giving it structure through his center of will. The more energy a woman has, the more opportunities she can give a man. Sometimes a woman has a huge resource of energy, given to her by nature or developed, but if a man has a weak center of will, he will not be able to turn this energy into money. And vice versa - a man can have a very strong volitional center, but if a woman has wasted her energy or gone into the masculine, then the man has nothing to transform into cash flow.

“So,” Lenka shook her head, listening to my explanations, “should I get married or not?”

“Choose love, everything else can be created,” I answered.

- You won’t be satisfied with promises! I need a detailed action plan. I finally found the man of my dreams, and he is as poor as a paper rat.

“Well, he’s not that poor,” Zhenya said indignantly. - By the way, the five of us live on sixty thousand.

“The three of us are worth a hundred,” Nastya sighed, “but the trouble is that I earn it, and I’m incredibly tired of it.”

“So you think,” Lenka summed up my theoretical calculations, “that with the right woman, any man can become successful and rich.”

- Yes, if there is love, passion, faith in a man, support, inspiration, etc. Then money is a matter of time, desire, knowledge and practice.

- Are you saying that you know how to make your husband a millionaire and you can teach us this? — Zhenya looked at me questioningly. - After all, you’ve already done yours!

“Yes,” I nodded. “Although I just helped him become what he wanted and was able to become!” A woman helps a man to unlock his potential, strengthens and fills him. A Forbes magazine study was recently published,” I continued. “They interviewed ten billionaires and several dozen more multimillionaires to find out what they had in common. It turned out that there were only three points.

First. They are not afraid of defeats, learning valuable lessons from them. One of the billionaires made a billion during the IT boom. When his project failed, he lost everything, but did not lose heart. Now he has half a billion again. This is about the question of masculine qualities and a strong strong-willed center,” I added.

- Second. They are always looking for new, innovative sources of income, using their talents and strengths. The owner of a chain of gas stations who thought of selling snacks at them was considered an eccentric. And now he is a multi-billionaire. This speaks of his sexual and creative potential,” I voiced my vision.

“And most importantly,” I paused, looking around at my girlfriends, “a successful marriage!” A wife should support her husband and believe in him. This is the main thing, according to all the richest people in the world! — I finished pathetically and continued without pathos: “Which is quite understandable.”

“Okay, I’m ready to try to invest my energy in Ruslan,” Lenka suggested. - Where do we get it from?

Rule 1 Give up team behavior

Most often, when trying to get a man off the couch and send him to earn money, women use the command-directive method. Wives and girlfriends order their lovers: “You don’t earn enough! Earn more!” Or: “Get a job! There’s no point in sitting in front of the TV!”

But to their great amazement, men are in no hurry to respond to this call. They do not rush off, do not sharpen their knives to go after prey.

And women are angry! It seems to them that men do not hear them, and they strengthen their commands. They repeat this several times a day, repeating tirelessly: go earn money, earn more, you have a very small salary. It saws and saws and saws like your sawmill.

Probably, women owe these transformations into an itchy saw to one very common stereotype: they say that men are like children, so you need to treat your husband like a child. But the child should be guided, because he himself does not know what to do. After all, he is still too small! He needs to be told: “Go wash your hands, sit at the table, do your homework...”

So women give orders to their husbands: buy a newspaper, advertise, don’t lie on the couch, bring your salary. But if a seven-year-old child obediently goes to do his homework, then a thirty-five-year-old man is in no hurry to follow the commander’s instructions. You have long been convinced of this, my dears, but for some reason you still hope that the commands will work. Alas and ah!

It is useless to give a man direct commands to send him to work. They will pretend that they are not heard.

The most interesting thing is that when I ask women: “Do you like it when they tell you that? For example, your mother gives you commands and demands you do this and that, how do you react? Will you obey or try to avoid lectures?” – I get a clear answer: no one likes teams.

The command-and-order method works well in the army, but the way of life is completely different there. There are male laws, everyone there has long agreed that some orders are issued, while others unconditionally carry them out. But a family cannot adopt the rigid structure of the army, so we will not transfer the army rules into our lives. Therefore, in order to achieve our goal, we will change tactics, namely...

Let's turn the command into a polite and respectful request.

How to influence

Remember that you cannot forcibly change a man. You can create certain conditions under which your beloved will want to change himself. Only then will you achieve results. You must inspire your man so that he himself wants to change for the sake of you, for the sake of your relationship.

You can encourage your husband to start earning more. In this situation, you need to help him understand that your family needs more funds. The birth of a child, buying an apartment, increasing needs, and so on.

Under no circumstances should you say that you will leave him if he does not start bringing more money home. This is the most terrible and inappropriate decision a woman can come to.

One of my friends received a similar ultimatum from his wife. Without thinking twice, he filed for divorce, explaining that, apparently, financial well-being is much more important to his missus than love. Now this man earns much more than before. And this happened thanks to another woman who found a way more effective than an ultimatum.

You can motivate your husband in different ways: a clean and comfortable home, a beautiful and always good-looking wife, a pleasant atmosphere in the apartment, lovemaking in bed, and so on. If you want a man to bring home a lot of money, then you must provide for all other areas of your life.

You can provide a great platform for your beloved. There should be no scandals or hysterics on your part at home. You don't have to constantly nag your man. Don't pester him about all sorts of little things that usually irritate men.

If your spouse doesn’t want to earn any money, then I highly recommend that you read the article “What to do if your husband doesn’t want to work.”

With the right woman, any man can become successful and rich.

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- He proposed to me! - Lenka looked around us. We fell silent in shock.

Once a month we gathered for “girls’ get-togethers” and discussed everything and nothing. During the fifteen years of our friendship, many things happened that required immediate discussion. By the age of 35, any woman has accumulated a lot of exciting events. Our five seemed to combine all the options for women's destinies.

I got married at 23 and stayed there for 12 years, during which time I moved from a room in a communal apartment to a luxurious country mansion. I enjoyed the status of a millionaire’s wife, studied my favorite psychology, taught trainings and various classes, and at the same time tried to be a good mother for my two sons.

Nastya had also been married for a long time, but it so happened that she occupied increasingly senior positions in the company, while her husband remained a promising designer. Therefore, Nastya mainly earned money.

Alina divorced three years ago and enjoyed a wonderful period between her husbands, choosing the man of her destiny from numerous candidates as carefully as she chose accessories, outfits and makeup for others while working as a stylist.

Cozy Zhenya with a magnificent bust of size four was also married for the second time. You could say that she went from one husband to another with two children, and in just six months, so we didn’t even have time to tell her how difficult it is to be a single mother. Now Zhenya was breastfeeding the third, temporarily turning into a housewife. Her husband was immensely happy, although his money was barely enough for such a large family. Therefore, Zhenya demonstrated the wonders of saving and was eager to go to work.

But Lenka, a chic brunette and femme fatale, changed fans like gloves as quickly as she recruited new employees in a huge corporation, where she was the HR director. We did not have time to keep track of her numerous novels, especially considering that sometimes she had four admirers at the same time. All these novels were dizzying, beautiful, but very short. So we held our breath and waited for the sequel.

Lena looked around us, fully enjoying the shocked silence.

— The horror is that he earns only 30,000 rubles a month. I’ve never had such a poor man,” she sighed.

“A second-level man,” I commented.

- What are you talking about? — the girlfriends became interested. My passion for psychology and my studies have so far remained outside their area of interest. All my attempts to show them energy practices and inspire them to take action have so far been in vain. They even perceived my husband’s successes as a series of successes, without in any way connecting them with me. “You’re just lucky,” they shrugged when I tried to explain that everything we have was created by me as a wife. Therefore, I was very happy to have the opportunity to share my knowledge with my friends.