Features of a fashionable image
The most important thing to remember is that at your age you can and should dress in stylish and fashionable things. Stylists recommend choosing different clothing options to change your look more often. You can easily wear skinny jeans, just with a high waist, as well as beautiful, tight skirts.
Forget about baggy and oversized items forever. You shouldn't add extra volume to yourself, which will only make you bigger. Below you can find different things that will beautifully highlight a woman’s curvaceous figure, as well as her advanced age.
Balzac's age in modern times
At the moment, the “dates” of Balzac’s age have been moved forward 20 years. Women have become much smarter and more experienced than before. They stopped getting married at 16 to 18 years old, and are increasingly building a career and taking care of themselves.
Now Balzac's age is 45-55 years, when a woman begins to experience her second youth. And maybe not physically, but definitely spiritually and morally.
Animal print dresses
Fashionable dresses with animal print are perfect for women with a full figure and will highlight their age. Such dress models are found in both lightweight and knitted versions, and also have different lengths.
Top 10 women with the largest breasts in the world.
10. Maria Zarring – the largest breasts in Russia
The Russian model is the owner of the largest bust in Russia.
Her breast size is 12, with a height of 165 cm and a weight of 63 kg. Of course, such chic forms are the object of close attention, and not always healthy. Therefore, Maria has to go in the company of bodyguards. 9. Minka
The next owner of the largest breasts comes from Asia - a South Korean tennis coach. Having moved to the USA, she tried to get permission to teach sports there, however, she was unable to secure a license as a tennis teacher due to the language barrier. And - she went into the adult film industry, where she managed to make a successful career.
8. Sheila Hershey
The Brazilian model, who lives in Houston, underwent more than 18 plastic surgeries on the way to her dream. The last operation led to irreversible consequences: as a result of a staphylococcal infection, she had to not only part with all the implants, but also part of her own breast.
7. Keisha Evans
Like the other girls on this list, Keisha is very popular as an adult film star. She also runs her own website for adults who love big breasts.
6.Sabrina Sabrok
Argentinian Sabrina Sabrok is famous not only as a stripper. She is also a Playboy commercial model, TV show host and rock star. Currently, Sabrina Sabrok's body proportions, with a height of 1.74 m, are: 130 - 55 - 100. However, she is constantly experimenting with the size of her breasts, apparently wanting to break her own record.
5.Susan Sykes
This fetish model with the stage name Busty Hart became famous for breaking beer cans with her bust. For this, Sykes entered the Guinness Book of Records as the woman who destroyed the most beer cans with her breasts in one minute.
4. Bishine
German film actress with +18 content, Bishine is the owner of the largest breasts in Europe. She started breast augmentation with a B cup size. To carry such huge breasts, she even became a fitness enthusiast - regular training of her back muscles makes it easy to cope with such a burden. But there are still a few complaints on her part. These include not having the right size clothes and not being able to sleep on your stomach.
3. Chelsea Charms
The girl underwent twenty-two plastic surgeries to attract the attention of the world community and, first of all, men.
2 Maxie Mounds.
American stripper Maxie Mounds has breasts, each of which weighs about 9 kilograms. In February 2005, in Sarasota, Florida, she received an official certificate stating that her chest circumference is 153.67 cm
1. Annie Hawkins
This 61-year-old American woman is unique in that she has the largest breasts in the world. Her record is recorded in the Guinness Book of Records. Each of Annie's breasts weighs about 22.5 kg.
Wrap dresses
Versatile wrap dresses will perfectly highlight your breasts, and the overall look will be solid and representative. A varied palette will allow you to choose the desired color, as well as print. Stylists recommend choosing such midi-length dresses.
Are ladies afraid of their age?
Unfortunately yes. They are afraid that “there is so little left”> (quote from the film “For Family Reasons”).
Women, like a knight at a crossroads, have three paths:
- Give up on yourself, give up (you can’t argue with age).
- Breathe new life into yourself, believe in your capabilities.
- To live “in beautiful ignorance”, as I have lived until now (“Am I already 45? Wow, I didn’t even know...”).
The second path is the most difficult, but this is the one chosen by true Balzac women.
Of course, the appearance of wrinkles, dull hair, and the figure leaves much to be desired.
However, life’s wisdom is already enough to prove to yourself that a woman can remain attractive at any age, and even more so at Balzac’s age.
And when fears and complexes pass, a fire appears in the eyes, which makes the lady younger than her years.
Long Dresses
If you are planning a trip to the theater or restaurant, then easily wear a long evening dress. Such dresses can come with a wrap and have drapery. The tight top of the dress will emphasize and highlight the breasts, and the looser bottom will hide the protruding tummy and full legs.
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Additional measures
Treatment with medications and folk remedies should be supplemented with a proper diet. Reducing the total calorie intake will help relieve discomfort. The menu should include more fiber, fresh vegetables and fruits. Especially useful are cabbage (white cabbage, cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, kohlrabi, broccoli), tomatoes, carrots, apples, red and black berries. Instead of fatty sausages, smoked meats, and fried meats, you should eat lean chicken breasts and sea fish, rich in B vitamins and iodine. It is necessary to avoid salt, coffee and other foods that retain water in the body and cause swelling. This menu is especially important for mastopathy in acute or chronic form.
A very important point is giving up alcohol and smoking. Ethyl alcohol, nicotine, combustion products and tobacco tars increase hormonal imbalance, and attacks of pain become more frequent. Bad habits can cause swelling, increased fragility of blood vessels and other unpleasant consequences that affect the condition of the mammary gland.
Properly selected underwear will help alleviate a woman’s condition. It is especially important for patients with large, heavy breasts. Lace models with hard underwires will not work. The bra should be comfortable and appropriate in size. The ideal model has wide straps, a strong closure and an elastic band under the bust to ensure a good fit. It is important that there are no rough seams that irritate the skin. Such a bra can be purchased at a specialized store or made to order in a corsetry workshop.
Chest pain is unpleasant, but not too dangerous. You can get rid of it using comprehensive measures that combine properly selected medications, traditional recipes and a reasonable diet. Only a doctor should make a diagnosis; this will allow not to miss a serious illness and select a therapeutic regimen suitable for a particular patient.
Pencil skirt
A business look is ideal for women over 50. A pencil skirt is the first thing that helps create it. Classic pencil skirt models have a narrow neck and a tight hem. Thanks to such a skirt, your hips will look a little narrower than they actually are.
Who did Honore de Balzac write about?
In 1834, Honore de Balzac completed work on a novel that few people have read today, but many know about its existence, because after this work the expression “Balzac’s age” came into use and became popular.
The novel is called (if you don’t know, you’ll be surprised)… “A Thirty-Year-Old Woman.” In our minds, Balzac's heroine should be older.
However, although history “does not tolerate the subjunctive mood,” it can adapt to new realities, therefore (may the classic forgive us) today they call a woman of Balzac’s age a lady of forty or fifty years old, and we are almost sure that Balzac would agree with us.
Age is not just numbers in a passport or birth certificate, it is a state of mind, lifestyle, and attitude. Balzac's heroine has accumulated a lot of personal experience by her age.
She was distinguished by independence of judgment, independence, and self-confidence. It, as we would say, took place, but there were still many discoveries ahead, including, of course, love.
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Long skirts
Long skirts will perfectly hide the problematic part of the body. If you wear heels under such a skirt, your height will visually lengthen and your figure will appear slimmer.
Entering Balzac's age, a woman does not age
Now, we hope you understand that Balzac’s age is not the age of the famous French writer, but a rather vague idea in the modern world of a mature, accomplished lady from 35 to... (here everything depends only on herself and her attitude towards herself).
Of course, if a woman constantly complains about life, declaring that youth has long passed and nothing interesting awaits ahead, then soon she is in danger of turning gloomily into a grumbling old woman, not arousing sympathy and living only with her memories.
And in the expression “a woman of Balzac’s age,” the main word is “woman.” That is, before us is not an old woman, which means she is still a beautiful creature, because ugly women do not exist! The beauty of the age described lies in the amazing harmony of spiritual and physical condition, in wisdom and self-sufficiency. Such a lady no longer needs to prove anything to the world - she lives and enjoys life and the fact that she is able to rejoice. And in this wonderfully outlined circle of existence there is always room for something new, because a wise woman loves novelty and willingly experiments.
Business style
For working hours, you can choose pencil skirts, straight classic trousers with arrows, as well as cropped models. Be sure to wear shoes with your suit, even low heels. At your disposal are jackets and jackets that have buttons or go without them.
The series “Balzac’s Age, or All Men Are Theirs...”
- The series was released in Russia in 2004 and has 34 episodes, divided into 4 seasons. He talks about beautiful women who are already well over thirty, but they do not lose heart. After all, age is far from a sentence.
- Women are always fully prepared and are not ready to let go of the man they like, even if nothing good comes of it. In the series you can see beautiful acting by actors who truly convey all the heaviness, sadness, and joys of Balzac's age.
- Indeed, according to statistics, it is at this age that women begin to experience a crisis in their personal lives. But the heroines of the series are not going to put up with stereotypes and stubbornly seek their simple, feminine happiness.
Cardigans
You can create a fashionable look by wearing a long cardigan and tight leggings. And don’t let too-tight pants bother you, because a long cardigan will cover your legs, and the look will turn out to be very stylish and fashionable.
If a woman is “Balzac’s” age, how old is that?
Our contemporaries no longer have the need, like their peers in the 19th century, to spend their beauty and youth only on family and children. They are no longer locked in the narrow world of their home and the interests of their (often unloved) husband - the whole palette of life is open to them. This led to an amazing metamorphosis: outwardly, our forty-year-old ladies will give a head start to the early fading and aging young ladies of the century before last.
Nowadays, beautiful women of Balzac's age are not irony, but truth. There are so many of them - self-confident, brave, independent, well-groomed and very attractive. You can call them “mature”, but you can’t call them old!
Jeans
Overweight women over 50 years old are recommended to wear jeans. Choose high-waisted models, they will help hide your protruding tummy. Shortened models with low heels or platforms will look very nice.
A number of simple recommendations
Happiness rarely comes on its own. Women from forty to fifty cannot relax and wait.
If this helps anyone, here are a number of rules (based on everyday experience and recommendations of experts) that should be followed in order to feel young:
- love yourself (even if you compare with others, highlight your strengths and advantages - you definitely have them);
- lead a healthy lifestyle (eating healthy, quitting smoking and alcohol is the key to your beauty);
- dress with taste;
- do not allow carelessness in makeup and hairstyle;
- accomplish what you have been dreaming about in recent years (say “yes” to the man who has been asking for your hand for a long time and unsuccessfully, start a new business, learn Spanish or learn to play the guitar);
- go in for sports, remember old experiences - go to the pool, to the skating rink, buy a bicycle (nowadays many cities have paths for cyclists);
- develop yourself to be more interesting to yourself and those around you - read (not only correspondence on the Internet, but also real, high-quality literature), be interested in news, find a hobby (there are so many interesting ideas in this direction now).
It used to be that women experienced a midlife crisis at age 30. Now this date has shifted a little, and for many people the crisis occurs closer to 40.
This crisis can be briefly described as follows: a woman says goodbye to her main resource: the youth of her face and the youth of her body.
This sounds so scary that most women of a similar age, I am sure, experience protest when reading these words.
The types of protests are as follows:
1. “I am the same as before, and youth is with me until old age.”
2. “Patriarchy turns women into meat, and beauty has no meaning for the individual”
The first is a denial of the problem, the second is a substitution of the thesis. Both are refusals of awareness.
Awareness of the crisis is quite painful, but it is in the awareness of the crisis that the way out begins.
Any crisis is based on the fact that a certain cycle is over, the tools are outdated, and a transition to another level is necessary.
In psychology, a crisis is considered, although difficult, but a happy moment, since it is it that triggers dynamic changes, including the most favorable and constructive ones. People are often afraid of crises because they harbor infantile expectations that something can be fixed forever, without developing it in any way, but without losing it either. Fortunately, the dynamics of life do not allow for stagnation. A person is forced to change and become better all the time so as not to degrade.
Moving from one level to the next without getting stuck in a crisis is called initiation.
I have already written that men undergo initiation (from a boy to an adult man) at the age of about 20 (in ancient times it happened at 14), and women remain girls for a long time and are forced to turn into women after 30, now sometimes - after 35.
Male initiation is full of dangers, difficulties, fears, the desire to escape into a parallel world (drugs and games), hatred of oneself and of a society that makes too severe demands, but in many ways this initiation is easier than female initiation. For example, in the fact that little men see positive images before their eyes - adult men with great opportunities and respected status, from whom they can take an example, and strive for this example, forming their ego-ideal.
Not so with women. They often have no idea about any initiation (that is, about gaining new power and higher status). An age crisis simply looks like premature old age. On the one hand, women understand that at 35 years old they still have at least the same amount of time, or even one and a half times as much, but on the other hand, their resource (beauty and youth) is simply taken away from them without giving anything in return.
Please note that expecting something to be given in return is a refusal to initiate. If a boy expects that status in society will simply be given to him in exchange for childhood, he will forever remain infantile, will decay every year, instead of gaining strength. Initiation means taking it yourself, putting in a lot of work and effort, overcoming suffering and learning new ways of living. Initiation without one's own initiative and proactivity is generally impossible.
That is why blaming parents, the state, patriarchy is not only useless, but also harmful. While attention should be directed to one’s own proactivity, one’s own initiative, through the internal locus of control, a person wastes time searching for those who owe him money. Fortunately, no debtors, even if they suddenly wanted to pay off their debts, are able to help initiate. No external resources, given just like that, help to develop internal ones; on the contrary, being available, they postpone the time of development.
Therefore, a woman’s desire to successfully undergo initiation and become happier should begin with refusing to blame those who once did not give her something in terms of external resources. He didn’t leave a separate home, didn’t deposit money into an account, didn’t leave an inheritance or good genetics. If this were all, initiation would not be any easier, and perhaps even more difficult.
The main female difficulty that I started talking about, and which men are deprived of, is the lack of an image of an adult, strong, happy woman with whom girls would like to follow an example. But this is also not a reason to look resentfully towards men who have examples. Without an example, acting is, on the one hand, more difficult, and on the other hand, easier.
Imagine a boy who lived as an infant until he was 20 years old, and now he needs to quickly grow up and become a “real man.” It is clear that most never mature enough or drag out the process for a long time, but let’s consider the task itself. The boy sees successful men: some, even many, have so much money that he will never earn in his life, such a status that he will never achieve, and this is very demotivating. It is very difficult from a moral and energetic point of view to invest a lot of effort just to rise a little above the social plinth, but to remain very far from the level that is considered successful for a man.
Women don't have such a high bar. More precisely, they have none or have many different, ambiguous ones. This is also demotivating, but in a different way. And leaves room for choice. And most importantly, it takes away the fear that “nothing will work out.” It’s not clear what should happen, isn’t it?
The “Female Triad” art competition, the results of which are published here, showed that the most difficult image for most artists was the image of Diana (the archetype of a middle-aged woman). Selena (the girl) was portrayed quite easily, and, by the way, quite similar to each other, that is, the image is quite recognizable, typical - a light, gentle, naive and beautiful nymph. There were also no particular difficulties with Hecate (a middle-aged lady). But with Diana, as many have noticed, there is some dissonance. She is almost no different from Selena, she is still a girl.
The same thing happens in life. The crisis of age is experienced precisely as “From Selene to Hecate,” bypassing Diana. And most of the worries are connected precisely with the fact that it is very early to become Hecate at 35-40 years old, especially at 30. But it is too late to be Selena and, realizing this, many women feel resentment and anger. They feel that they are being denied the right to be considered normal Selenes, that they are being pushed into the Hecate phase, which is still premature for them.
The transition from Diana to Hecate is a separate story. Usually for a woman who has not undergone Diana’s initiation, this transition looks like this. She has been fighting for 20 years to remain Selena: both in appearance, in behavior, and in her outlook on the world, and then she gets tired of fighting and accepts Hecate, sometimes even earlier than she should. At some point, she is already glad that she has finally come to terms with Hecate. She is tolerant of Hecate because she is very tired of fighting with her. But as soon as she falls in love or gets into a situation of bright spontaneity, she again turns into Selena. That is, she never has a real Hecate, it’s just a decent dress, but not a new identity.
The secret is that Hecate is never initiated by a woman who has not gone through the Diana phase. She will remain, in essence, the same Selene, but will hide behind Hecate’s masks (crooked). That is, she will pretend that she is strong, wise, calm and confident, but in reality she will still expect that someone will love Selena in her.
Notice what characterizes the transition from the Selene phase to the Diana phase, and from the Diana phase to the Hecate phase: the emergence of a new spontaneity. Spontaneity is a flow of energy that a person feels in a state of complete relaxation, euphoria, something that is associated with the experience of happiness and pleasure.
Very often spontaneity is associated with the inner child, and this child is encouraged to be preserved forever. Exupery also wrote with sadness that people who have forgotten how to play and be children are deprived of both creative energy and the joy of life and turn into dead people. This actually happens to people who have not undergone initiation and have not truly matured. Their spontaneity remains childish, but they suppress and hide it in order to look like adults. But they just look boring. Therefore, for such people it can even be useful to discover the child within themselves and free it at least a little. This even helps to treat diseases sometimes, which often arise precisely from a conflict with spontaneity.
However, if a person's spontaneity remains childish forever, true maturation does not occur. The spontaneity of initiation must change.
And most commenters immediately recognized what these symbols were. If a person's spontaneity always remains a kitten, he never grows up. Spontaneity must retain liveliness, spontaneity, and the beauty of chaos, but at the same time gain POWER with age. A kitten is no worse than a lynx, but a lynx is stronger, and a panther is even stronger. As long as the spontaneity of either a man or a woman remains a gentle cat, they remain children, and any important and harsh masks of them are just masks; deep down in their souls they dream of returning to childhood or early youth. The adult role weighs heavily on them. Neither the lynx nor the panther is burdened by their strength, they are absolutely spontaneous, but in the most relaxed state their strength does not disappear.
It’s interesting that none of the artists depicted the fundamental difference between Selena and Diana, although I wrote about it. Remember, I mentioned in what case Diana’s body remains beautiful and is not only not inferior to Selena’s body, but in some ways surpasses it? In the event that a woman develops muscles. It is a strong body with developed muscles that allows Diana to be beautiful, otherwise she will be a swollen or faded Selena. Just as a thin young man is handsome in his own way, but not more beautiful than a muscular man, so a thin girl is no more beautiful than a woman who has developed muscles. Without muscles, the body of an adult woman is doomed to wither, but the muscles do not allow the skin to wither and straighten it in the same way as subcutaneous adipose tissue used to.
An adult cannot have chubby baby cheeks, but he has the opportunity to get a different facial beauty: bright and clear features, but only if he does not have a lot of excess fat and fluid in the body, and muscles get rid of this. Are bright and clear features any worse than children’s faces, most of which look alike?
Look at the photographs of women who are seriously involved in fitness (but without fanaticism and chemicals). And at 30, and at 40, and even at 50, their body remains very beautiful (their face too, if they don’t dry out too much). Diana cannot be less beautiful than Selena, by definition, because Diana is the prime of life. But if Diana doesn't build muscles, she will look like a flaccid and drooping Selena.
The credit of youth is that same reserve of childishness that many women have enough of until they are 25-30, and then they try to maintain it with injections, makeup, starvation diets, trying to look like nymphets. However, they only look like nymphets in poor quality photos, but in real life they look more like unhappy aunts. “The unfortunate aunt” is the lot of a woman and a person in general, who, instead of developing something new, strives to preserve what is outdated and no one needs.
The same goes for behavior. To be touching, to be naive, to be obedient, and sometimes harmlessly impudent is good when you are a small creature. An adult will be captivated by touchingness, enchanted by naivety, appreciate obedience, touched by harmless insolence, and will take care and control. This will help to survive, to receive from an adult everything that he himself acquired, as his child. Yes, and his tenderness and love. But is this behavior something that needs to be cultivated? And even cultivate it all your life, until old age?
The main fear of the transition from Selena to Diana is that the woman is afraid of losing custody after becoming strong. She refuses to develop strength because she cannot yet imagine the pleasure from it, but she is afraid of losing what she has. It's like stepping out of the closet into an unfamiliar world. What if it’s cold and raining there, but the closet is dry and warm, although cramped. Ibsen has a famous play on this topic, A Doll's House.
However, the law of initiation is harsh. If a person does not undergo initiation, he plunges into crisis. Women are afraid to become stronger, they try to remain dolls, but children's dresses become tight and look more and more ridiculous. And now the men they clung to themselves push them away, exchanging them for younger ones. Because of this, women begin to feel that men are traitors and enemies. But everything is somewhat different.
As long as a woman remains a girl, age will indeed only make her worse. A man who is used to living with a girl, but suddenly discovers that his girl no longer looks like a girl at all, and girlish manners look stupid on her, may begin to dream of changing her to a real girl. If the girl gradually matured, and not just grew old like a flower, the man’s views and tastes would also gradually change. An adult woman is so much more interesting for an adult man that not a single girl could compete with her. But a young girl can not only compete with an old girl, but also easily get around her. Simply because she is a real girl, and not a crooked copy.
Let's stop for now and talk about what Selena's initiation into Diana consists of, and what a woman needs to do in order to gradually grow up and acquire beautiful strength, without losing spontaneity, sexuality, or the love of men (and women), but on the contrary, increasing both.
The smiles of others
Anton and Lyudmila do not live together. Anton never moved out from his parents, and Lyudmila is the owner of a spacious three-room apartment, where she lives alone. The couple spends weekends, holidays and vacations together. They often go on trips. Lyudmila bears all expenses herself.
“We don’t want everyday life to be present in our relationship. Every meeting should be a holiday,” explains Lyudmila. However, the couple, who formed three years ago, have to pay a high price for their happiness. Lyudmila’s relationship with her 23-year-old daughter Olga has deteriorated. Olga's fiancé is the same age as Anton. A young woman accuses her mother of “going crazy and disgracing their whole family by getting involved with a young gigolo.”
Lyudmila’s subordinates do not miss the opportunity to wash the bones of the loving director. Her personal life also caused mixed reactions at the company’s central office. Anton’s parents are also categorically against their son’s relationship with Lyudmila and believe that the mature woman “ruined the guy’s life by tying him to herself and not giving him the opportunity to create a normal family and become a father.”
Live for today
What is the fundamental difference between young men and older gentlemen? “With a young guy, an experienced woman can become a little more reckless, live for today, without thinking about troubles and problems,” says Lyudmila.
In her opinion, such relationships are no longer possible with men of the same age or older gentlemen: “After forty years, most men become too suspicious, suspicious and cautious. They think through every step, every action, every word... Some of them definitely want to get married so that someone will cook for them and clean their house, others, on the contrary, protect their freedom in every possible way and are afraid of any rapprochement with a woman. And young guys listen to the voice of the heart, not the mind, which is why they are the best lovers for experienced women.”
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