What positions do women like: a selection of the best positions to satisfy women

What conditions must a partner create to satisfy a woman?

Only by experimenting with positions and types of sex will partners be able to find all the important erogenous points on the body that provide heavenly pleasure and enchanting orgasms. Women’s favorite poses can contribute to this – “Scissors”, “Cowgirl”, “Oasis”, “Cross”, “69” and many others. The article will describe techniques for each position and photo, tips and recommendations from sexologists.

Due to the fact that women experience orgasm much less often, men are increasingly beginning to think about solving this problem. And this is primarily due to the fact that watching a partner orgasm is an intimate, extremely erotic and unifying experience for a man and a woman.

There are 5 golden rules to satisfy a woman:

Harmony in relationships - if quarrels and resentments often arise between partners, no sex will become desirable and enjoyable. Only by establishing a climate in relationships and a spiritual connection can you enjoy intimacy.
A woman loves with her ears - in order to win her over to closeness, liberate her and set her up for quality sex, you need to say kind words and compliments.
Romance - in many ways, sex and orgasm for a woman depend on the situation; candles and twilight, pleasant music, etc. can make you feel more inclined to have sex.
Foreplay - constantly look for erogenous points on a woman’s body during foreplay, spend at least 10-15 minutes caressing and warming up your partner, look for those places and caresses that are most pleasant for her.
Variety – sex should be spontaneous and always different, try different positions and types of sex, make love in the most unexpected places.

The most powerful erogenous points on a woman’s body leading to orgasm are the clitoris, located on the external genitalia, as well as points G, A and P, located inside the vagina. Orgasm is possible through mechanical stimulation such as masturbation, vaginal, oral and anal sex.

Many of us consider it a myth that there are certain specific positions in which a woman can achieve orgasm faster. But experts say that certain positions during sex actually affect how quickly you achieve orgasm. Here are the TOP 10 poses to get the most out of you.

What else do sex positions provide?

Ability to compensate for differences. It's no secret that we are all different and our genitals are also different. This difference can be expressed in shape, size, sensitivity of certain areas of the genitals, etc. Agree, it would not be fair on the part of nature if, in order to obtain sexual pleasure, a person needed a partner with genitals that were exclusively suitable for him. Fortunately this is not the case. Even if partners have a disproportion, it can easily be minimized by using certain sex positions. For example, if a man has a small penis, and his partner has a fairly large vagina, then he needs to select positions in which he can penetrate her as deeply and tightly as possible.
Tone the entire body. In Eastern medicine there is such a thing as reflexology. The essence of which is that all parts of the body and all organs of our body are interconnected and by influencing one organ in a certain way, you can indirectly influence another. Genitals are no exception. Both the male penis and the female vagina on its surface have many representative zones of all vital organs, that is, points that are connected to these organs. Therefore, the more areas of the genitals are stimulated during sex, the wider the tonic effect will be on the entire body of both partners. And different poses ensure the use of the maximum number of zones of male and female genitalia.

Table

“This is my favorite pose. When a woman lies on the table and a man comes in standing. That's rough. At the same time, papers and cutlery are swept off the table, which only sharpens the senses. The woman moves easily along the table. The man enters deeply and controls the process. Clothing, objects in the way and open space all create an impression of obscenity and work on all levels.”

Scissors

“This position allows the woman to control the depth and angle of penetration, as well as the level of clitoral stimulation. The man lies on his back with his knees bent, the woman is on top, placing one leg on his thigh and the other between his legs. Thus, the woman herself can find the right point, control the pace, depth, pressure and resulting friction.”

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The girl lies down completely on the table and stretches her legs towards her partner. He enters her from behind, taking her by the knees. This pose requires some physical preparation, as the woman must strain her back and abdominal muscles. The arms also get a load, so it is recommended to change positions.

If your partner wants to lie on her back, it will be easier for her to maintain balance if she throws her legs over her partner's shoulders. Eye contact is not ensured, but penetration will be deeper. A man will be able to control it in the same way as in the previous position: by taking his legs at hip level.

Get off the ground

“Every time I had sex, I held my partner against the wall, it was unforgettable for both of us. I suspect the secret lies in our gender differences: the strong man and the fragile woman. This pose forces us to embrace tightly, which enhances not only physical contact, but also emotional one. Physically, this is a difficult position and is not suitable for everyone, but I recommend that those who are able to try it!”

A little bit of history

The Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian treatise dedicated to sensuality and variety in sexual life. It consists of seven sections, 65 chapters in total. This book not only describes the best sex positions and sexual positions, but also the relationship between a man and a woman.

The first five chapters are devoted to love, its place in people's lives. The next 15 chapters teach the first kiss, how to drive you crazy with your lips. Foreplay is described in detail, how to excite a person with your hands and oral caresses. There are even recommendations for threesomes. The other nine chapters teach guys how to properly court a girl, and how to propose marriage gracefully.

The Kama Sutra also helps married couples prevent coldness in their relationships. She tells wives how to behave correctly with their husbands in order to charm him more and more every day. For young girls, the book tells how to attract guys to make them fall in love with you. Step-by-step instructions allow you to achieve 100% results in a short time.

All positions in the book are called art, and this is not surprising. After all, sex is not only about satisfying physical needs and maintaining health, but also about the greatest skill. Initially, the Kama Sutra did not contain illustrations, and the names of sex positions with descriptions were quite modest.

Over time, people made their own amendments and gave more appropriate names to positions in accordance with associations. Pictures were added a little later from Mongolian painting in the 16th-19th centuries.

Many people perceive the chapters from the Kama Sutra with descriptions of poses as the entire book as a whole. However, in addition to sex, she teaches guys how to be a real man, and teaches girls how to be femininity and sensuality.

There are many thoughts described here about relationships between lovers and with other people in general. The book also contains parting words about behavior in society and the rules of decency. Therefore, it is good when the Kama Sutra is a reference book in every home.

And again nudity

“The female clitoris is hidden under the clitoral hood and it is not surprising that it rarely receives sufficient stimulation during intercourse. Your hands will help change the situation. Using your index and middle fingers, make an inverted "V" and press down on your pubic area, placing your fingers on each side of your clitoris. Then pull back the skin slightly with your hand - this will expose the hard-to-reach clitoris and help in achieving orgasm.”

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It may not be strange, but the sexual position under the intriguing name “rodeo” is well known to many couples. True, not all of them imagine its incredibly stimulating effect on the male sex.

In many ways, it is similar to the legendary “cowgirl” position. The only difference between the positions is that the woman is not facing the man, but, on the contrary, with her back. In this case, the man should sit comfortably on his back, with his knees bent. The partner, squatting over him, slowly inserts the penis into herself and sits on it. At the same time, her hands rest on the man’s bent knees, which help her perform forward and backward movements.

To be more precise, the movements are performed using the up-down technique. To do this, the woman rises slightly from the penis and then sits down completely on it again. Official sexology says that many women try to avoid these positions during sex. This can be explained by both physiological and purely psychological reasons.

If everything is more or less clear regarding physiology, then the psychological reasons cause confusion among many. So, it turns out that it is in this position that a woman most openly demonstrates her sexuality to a man, while making an indelible impression on him. Accordingly, if a lady has complexes about her body, it will be very difficult for her to relax during such sexual intercourse.

As for men, by their true nature they are all aesthetes. That is why contemplation of their penis in combination with the rhythmically moving buttocks of their wife is an unusually exciting sexual stimulation for them, one hundred percent guaranteeing a bright, colorful orgasm that will delight them with memories of themselves for a long time. As representatives of the male half of society say, this is an incredible thrill, which only an experienced and experienced partner in love affairs can help you experience.

Eric Segal advises moving to the reverse cowgirl position immediately after completing foreplay. He also talks about the variations available in the position, which can further diversify the pleasure received. In this case, the legs bent at the knees rest on the feet, while the man supports the woman with his hands in the upper thighs and waist. This position in itself brings considerable pleasure to both spouses.

After this, the man helps the woman move, vigorously alternately pushing her up and pulling her down. At the same time, a woman is allowed to decide for herself exactly how to act at one time or another. Some spouses surrender entirely to the will of strong male hands. Others, on the contrary, take a very direct part in the action.

They independently stimulate themselves by making rhythmic movements in a rhythm suitable to their temperament. Leaning forward, she increases the feeling of friction inside herself, leaning back - increases the depth of penetration. Thus, according to sex therapists, not only the man, but also his partner will be brought to orgasm.

Shake yourself up

“If you need a quick but stimulating break from intercourse, this movement is the perfect way to take a time out. To carry it out, the man comes out and leaves the head on the clitoris. Then, holding the base of the penis, quickly oscillate from side to side so that the head hits the clitoris with each movement. With this movement you will stimulate both the clitoris and the head, which will bring pleasure to both partners.”

How to get rid of routine

At the beginning of a relationship, when all thoughts and body are saturated with love, and passion consumes with incredible force, sex in a couple is bright, emotional and regular.

Over time, everyday life negatively affects the intimate sphere:

sexual intercourse becomes less frequent;
sex turns into debt;
the desire to please your partner fades into the background.

Although the spouses know how to give pleasure to each other, this does not increase passion. The correct course of action in such a situation is to revive sex through gradual “reanimation” of sexual life.

Initiative

Initiative is the prerogative of men. Women often think so. The tenets of “Domostroy” deeply penetrated their views, in which only the husband decides how much care, affection and attention should be given to his wife. But men like it when a woman takes the initiative.

To bring passion back into a relationship, you need to mutually show your interest in affection. You can do this using:

massage;
beautiful linen;
dance;
compliments;
hints;
views.

Only the correct supply of love sparks and mutual desire can rekindle the flame of passion in a new way.

Diversity

Human imagination is limitless. It is important to know how to use it. The marital bed is the place where you need to use it to the fullest. To add variety to your sex life, listen to the following tips:

Add a portion of new caresses and poses to intimacy. Look at how they have sex in porn films. You might be able to learn something interesting.
Visit a sex shop. Buy an erotic costume for sexual pleasures in an adult store. Your spouse will help you make the right choice.
Change the timing of sexual activity. The more unexpected the time, the more interesting it is. Arrange to meet your loved one at lunchtime.
Try role-playing games. For a while, you can stop being a “right girl” or a “right boy.”

Don't be afraid to talk to your partner about your desires. Maybe he had wanted to try something for a long time, but didn’t dare admit it. Once you learn how to guess your loved one’s dreams, you will want to have sex more often.

Situation

If sex games have never gone beyond the bedroom, then it's time to expand the boundaries. Sex in the washing machine, in the bathroom, in the kitchen, in the hallway, on the sofa, windowsill, back seat of a car or in nature will bring a fresh wind and spice to the relationship. A proper variety of intimate atmosphere wouldn’t hurt either:

do not turn off the lights or, conversely, avoid bright light;
add candles;
turn on the music;
use aromatic oils;
walk over your partner’s body with a piece of ice;
lick the cream off the girl's breasts.

Any innovation will bear fruit.

Happy scissors

“It’s not just your hands that can warm up sensitive spots. There are special movements for this, and the following technique is simply great for this purpose. During intercourse, raise your legs and have your boyfriend hold your ankles in his hands. Let him change the position of your legs: spreads, moves, spreads 80 degrees - the options are endless. Because the leg tendons extend into the pelvic cavity, moving them will change the sensation slightly for both of you. Think about this position to diversify the process.”

And most importantly, don’t be afraid to experiment and use your imagination!

Kama Sutra for Zodiac Signs2

Each person is individual in sexual relationships. But depending on the Zodiac and the elements, you can find out in advance what your partner is like in bed. All you need to do is find out his date of birth. Read more about zodiac signs in sex by following the link.

Aries is a fiery nature, capable of igniting the imagination and exciting the chosen one with just one movement. In sex, he gives himself completely without reserve and likes to keep the situation under control.

Taurus is a gentle creature, a lover of affection. Prefers to give the reins of power in sex to a partner. He is prone to self-sacrifice. Loves long foreplay, enjoying kisses and touches.

Geminis love sex and passion very much. They are always the first to initiate in bed. This Zodiac does not like monotony, so he can have sexual intercourse anywhere he wants.

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Cowgirl

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How to do it

The partner lies on his back, the woman sits on top and wraps her legs around him. During sex, it's better to rock back and forth instead of trying to jump. You can also try slowly making a figure eight with your pelvis.

Why does it work

When a woman is on top, she has complete control over the pace, angle and depth of penetration.
There are many variations of this position, making it versatile.
The man's stimulation in this position is not very strong, so he can hold out longer and give his partner time to reach orgasm.

Variations

Try the Reverse Cowgirl position, which requires your partner to sit with her back to the man's face. This way, he will get a great view, and she will get new opportunities for stimulation.
A man can put a pillow under his back and sit up a little. As a result, the position of the penis will change and it will be possible to stimulate other areas of the vagina.
To enhance G-spot stimulation, it is better for a woman to lean back. In this position it is also convenient to caress the clitoris.

How to sit in a pose

Described in the Kama Sutra, the lotus position for sex allows both partners to maintain mobility. This means that taking over the initiative is available at any time, thanks to which you can diversify your sensations.

In order to begin sexual intercourse, a man needs to sit on the bed and cross his legs, taking the lotus position as close as possible to the one familiar from yoga. The woman sits on her partner’s hips, placing her legs behind his back.

Classic lotus pose

After the penis has entered the vagina, there are several options for the development of events:

the partner moves her pelvis back and forth, at the same time either pressing closer to the man, or slightly arching her back and moving a little away from him;
the man helps his beloved with his hands placed on the buttocks and with slight movements of his hips;
the girl holds herself on her partner with her hands, and he takes the initiative, working with his pelvis and hips.

The only thing that makes this position uncomfortable at first is the low stability of the partners who do not support each other. But if your couple has a love for eye contact and a constant exchange of affection, you won’t be able to find anything better.

Doggy style

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How to do it

The partners are on their knees, and the man penetrates the woman from behind. Either only the partner or both can move in this position.

Why does it work

For women who can achieve vaginal orgasm, the intensity and direct stimulation of the G-spot is a plus.
For women who need clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm, this position is comfortable for them to caress themselves with their hand or use a sex toy.

Variations

The partner can lower herself onto her elbows to change the angle of penetration.
The partner can stand next to the bed - in this case, the depth and intensity of penetration will be even greater.
To make the position more intimate, partners just need to lie down.

Jackhammer

And finally, a pose that probably strikes fear into all surgeons. A man in this position plays a more than dominant role. However, he needs to be careful not to hurt his partner's neck.

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An option for a less traumatic position for a woman is a reverse jackhammer. The partner, however, should remain careful here: such positions can be dangerous for men.

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Coital alignment technique

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How to do it

It starts with the missionary position, then the man rises slightly higher than the traditional position and, instead of making penetrative movements, concentrates on sliding movements.

Why does it work

In this position, the partner's pubic bone rubs against the clitoris, which provides the very stimulation that many women need for orgasm. At the same time, the pose remains quite relaxed and intimate.

Variations

For stronger clitoral stimulation, you need to literally open your labia so that the clitoris is in contact with your partner’s body.
If a woman places a pillow under her hips, the angle of penetration will change.
It would be useful to use lubricant: it will enhance sliding.

How to have sex to conceive a baby

To conceive a child, it is not enough to eliminate the use of contraceptives. This process requires proper preparation. Before planning a pregnancy you must:

take a course of vitamins;
undergo a medical examination (take tests, and, if necessary, be treated for sexually transmitted infections);
stop taking medications that are used regularly;
establish the correct sleep and wakefulness schedule;
adjust your diet (exclude fast food, alcohol, large amounts of sweets);
quit smoking.

Not only women, but also men need to be attentive to their health. An unhealthy lifestyle affects the quality of a man’s semen and the ability to fertilize an egg.

Adjustments should also be made to the intimate plan:

You need to have sex more regularly, and foreplay should last longer. This will increase the amount of lubrication, which will have a beneficial effect on the movement of sperm.
Sex should always end missionary style. For the best effect at the end of the act, a woman needs to make a “birch tree” or “candle”. Correct execution will prevent sperm from leaking out of the womb.

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If pregnancy does not occur for several years, you should consult a doctor. He will conduct additional examinations and prescribe medications to stimulate ovulation.

Proper sex is not a myth, but a reality. Everyone is capable of pleasing their other half. It is important not to give up if you fail. Frank heart-to-heart conversations, experiments and love will definitely help you achieve a cosmic orgasm.

Reverse cowgirl + scissoring

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How to do it

This is not the easiest position to take. The woman should sit with her back to the man’s face and wrap her legs around one of his legs, bent at the knee.

Why does it work

As in the Cowgirl position, here the partner controls the pace, as well as the strength of the clitoral stimulation.
Plus, it's not the most common position, so the novelty of it can be exciting.

Variations

It all depends on the woman. She can change the position of her legs: spread them wider or move them, and also lean back and lean forward.

It is important not only to know, but also to understand the pose

Quite often, couples experiment a lot with different positions, but as such, no significant changes in sensations occur. Why? Because each of them needs to be understood, to understand what it gives to a man and what it gives to a woman. In addition to visual perception, you need to clearly understand what and how is stimulated in a particular position, with which areas of the vagina the penis interacts and with which part of it. This small touch is like a small key to a big door, behind which lies the main wealth - her and your orgasms. One guy can puff on his lady like a wild rabbit for half an hour, but she will never come to orgasm, and another, knowing her structure and understanding the nuances, can slightly change the angle of entry of the penis and thereby engage a powerful erogenous site in her vagina, which will allow you to bring the girl to orgasm much faster. This is just a small example of how important understanding each sex position can be.

Finally, I would like to say that knowledge and understanding of sexual positions is not the peak, but only a step, albeit a very important one, that brings you closer to the truly high art of sex.

Bridge

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How to do it

Start in the missionary position. Then the partner should kneel, and the partner should raise her pelvis.

Why does it work

This position allows for deep penetration and G-spot stimulation.
Also, in this position it is convenient for a partner to caress the clitoris.

Make a plan B for the climax

Often couples change several positions during one intercourse. But it is not so easy to get out of the lotus position, especially in its classical version, without getting tangled in the limbs. Therefore, it is better to discuss in advance, or even try, how you will do it.

For example, a fairly logical option is for the partner to lean back, drop her legs and only then stand on them. But if a partner has problems with stretching, he may be in pain, which calls into question the continuation of sex. So a little forethought wouldn't hurt.