The main types of male flirting
There are 10 types of flirting among representatives of the stronger sex. Among them there are conscious actions and unconscious manifestations:
- Anxiety. The guy can’t sit quietly, he makes nervous, clumsy movements.
- Raised eyebrows. Listening to his interlocutor, the young man raises his eyebrows. He is focused and enthusiastic.
- Expanded icons. This is a physiological, uncontrollable sign of sympathy. People look at their loved ones with enlarged pupils.
- Head tilt. The man leans slightly towards his companion or turns his ear towards her. So he listens, comprehends every word of his interlocutor.
- Touching, especially awkward, “accidental” ones. If there were several touches, the guy was embarrassed and awkwardly apologized, it means that he likes his companion.
- Hands in the hip area. An unconscious gesture of a male attracting the attention of his beloved to the intimate area. When guys and girls flirt, their hands may be in their pockets or on their belts. With this gesture they show confidence.
- Mirror reflection. If the companion unconsciously repeated the girl’s movements several times, it means he is flirting. A man can imitate the manner of speech, individual gestures, and adopt the favorite words of his interlocutor. People tend to imitate those they admire.
- Eye contact. If the chosen one holds his gaze on his companion longer than is customary during an ordinary polite conversation, then he is interested. Too short glances can signal his embarrassment associated with sympathy.
- Blush. This reaction shows passion. It is worth making sure that the interlocutor blushes only next to a specific lady. He is no less excited when he invites you to meet.
- The smile that appears when a man sees his chosen one.
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How to understand that a man is flirting with you
Eye contact. If you suspect a man of flirting, be sure to pay attention to his eyes, or rather, the way he looks at you. If during the day he closely watches you, without taking his eyes off, visually assessing you from head to toe, this is the first sign that a man is showing interest in you. If you notice his gaze on you, try to respond to him with the same attention - just smile back. Of course, for this you need to have courage, but only if the male sex is attractive to you. If you don’t have courage, then you should work on increasing your self-esteem and gaining self-confidence.
Flirting glance of a man
Smile. One of the most common men's ways of flirting. By and large, a man’s step is easy to calculate and understand whether he is flirting with you or not. If he smiles at you every time he looks at you, accompanied by long eye contact and a smile, then most likely the man is flirting with you and wants you to pay attention to him. As a rule, a smile is the first sign of sympathy, so if you also like a man, try to show him a smile.
Flirting smile
Pay attention to touch. If the opposite sex touches you, this is the first sign that a man is flirting with you. Random touches of the hand during communication and frequent hugs will also indicate that he is definitely not indifferent to you. Touching is the simplest and at the same time popular way for men to flirt with women. But there is a stop signal here too. If he starts touching you, and you don’t know each other well, then you obviously shouldn’t allow this.
Flirting touches
Compliments addressed to you. Carefully watch his speech, what he pronounces and says. If every day you hear compliments addressed to you, this is another hint to your piggy bank that he likes you, and he is definitely trying to flirt with you. Sometimes a man’s compliments may be unsuccessful and will be off topic and somehow sound hesitant from his lips, this is another proof that he likes you as a woman. A man can give any compliments to a woman, for example: about your new hairstyle, new outfit, manicure, or simply that you look great - all this indicates that they are 100% flirting with you.
Complementary flirting
A true gentleman. You can’t help but notice how a man behaves around you. Most males are born into this earth as true gentlemen, and when he begins to like you, all his talents will be open to you. The simplest acts of flirting can be: opening the door for you, helping you do some difficult physical work, etc. Watch how his gentlemanly qualities manifest themselves with other people; if he doesn’t behave like that with him, he is 100% attracted to you and this indicates that the man is flirting with you.
Flirting a gentleman
The difference between flirting and deep feelings
Sometimes flirting people consider a light game to be the beginning of a serious feeling, but it happens that true love seems like flirting. It is important to distinguish between these phenomena in time.
The concept of “flirting” appeared when the English lady Frances Shirley teased a gentleman during a ball. The lady alternately covered herself with her fan and then removed it. She called her coquetry flirting, that is, “waving a fan.” This gesture is repeated by modern girls. They laugh loudly with young people, talk playfully, and smile at them.
Flirting implies lightness and ease. The key point is to flirt with new acquaintances, not with old ones. They flirt easily with fleeting infatuation, without making plans. They don’t think about the temporary interlocutor, and if they think about it, it’s rarely and without melancholy. There is no burning desire to be close, but when you meet, it’s nice to flirt again.
The main functions of flirting are communication and pleasure. Having a sexual connotation, flirting is not a prelude to intimacy, and the flirting of lovers is complemented by a strong attraction. Romance games are intriguing. A flirting couple gets their main pleasure from coquetry. Communication between lovers, even at the first stages of acquaintance, resembles a chess game. Both are thinking through their steps, worried about the outcome of the “game”.
How to properly turn off guys
To some extent, a person is socially phobic and, in some cases, he simply needs to delimit his personal space. To do this, you need to have the ability to properly isolate one or another subject from yourself.
How to fuck off a guy on the street
Flirting is great, but very often on the street, going about business or just walking, a girl has to deal with its rough form - “pickup”. If you are not interested in these types of “games”, just remember the following tips.
The easiest way is not to react to such “tackles”, to imagine that you are alone and no one is bothering you. If the object of “admiration” turns out to be too persistent, it would be appropriate to refer to the presence of a boyfriend, or better yet, a husband (some girls, not wanting new acquaintances, wear jewelry on their ring finger, which is very similar to a wedding ring).
Expert opinion Anna Kolyada Psychologist, poet and just a good person
The most fun way to ward off a persistent guy is to skillfully play crazy, or at least “a little crazy.” Then there will be something to remember.
How to turn off a married man
There are situations when you liked a guy and started communicating, but after some time you find out that he is not a bachelor at all! In this case, it is better to immediately dot all the i's.
How to turn off your ex
The funniest people are the “formers”. What girl had to practically run away from the remorse and advances of her former lover? How can you reject him if there are no feelings left, and the “problem,” so to speak, does not disappear? To begin, choose a strategy: hard or soft. Have you chosen? Let's go!
If you decide to be a cute little bitch, then there are a couple of basic phrases in store for you that you can customize for yourself. But don’t forget, dear girls, that you can expect anything from an insulted man! So, is it worth using a delayed action weapon?
For a more lenient “sentence,” you should use the “compliment-thought-compliment” scheme. For example: “You gave me an unforgettable experience, taught me a lot and made me happy, BUT I’m not sure that I can be “the one” for you, I’m sure that you will find happiness with a girl who will understand you better than me.”
Expert opinion Anna Kolyada Psychologist, poet and just a good person
But, in my opinion, the third form is the most interesting! It doesn’t require you to look for words and watch your speech! Just switch for a couple of weeks! Become less interesting! Do something that he would definitely consider idiotic, take a break from makeup and clothes. This will not only help you get rid of your annoying ex, but will also improve your skin and save time!
Ways to recognize that a guy is flirting
Studies have proven that interlocutors of both sexes usually do not notice flirting. Many people don’t know how to “read” him, and they also can’t give romantic signals. You can flirt using words, body language, and actions.
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External signs
To understand that they are probably flirting with you, you should observe a man’s body language. You need to listen to the young man, look closely at his hands, eyes, posture. You need to catch the guy’s eye, turn around sharply and look at him confidently. If a man follows with his eyes, smiles awkwardly, as if he was caught, then he is in love. Looking at his beloved's lips during a dialogue, the young man secretly thinks about kissing or dreams of being closer.
You can tell that a guy is flirting by his uncharacteristic behavior. This is how he attracts the attention of his beloved. It can be impudence, demonstrative mannerism, courtesy or awkwardness.
Through conversation
A man comes up with thousands of reasons to talk with his chosen one. Often asks about the obvious only to once again enjoy an exciting interaction. The guy glows with pleasure and involuntarily smiles for no reason.
When men in love flirt, they get so nervous that they get confused even with simple words, have difficulty composing sentences, and leave out phrases. With other interlocutors they become calm and eloquent.
Admiring men rarely flatter their chosen one. They give veiled compliments. On a date, they may casually point out the wonderful appearance of the interlocutor and quickly change the topic.
Actions and behavior
A gentleman in love tries to interact more often with the object of desire. He suddenly appears nearby. It can regularly be found where your beloved is walking, relaxing or working. A colleague in love stalks a girl in the office, tries to have coffee with her and be close to her.
Mutual acquaintances can guess about feelings before the couple themselves. A timid boyfriend talks a lot about his beloved, asks others what the girl’s name is, and whether she has a partner. Such flirting at a distance signals love more strongly than other signs.
Animals attract partners with unusual sounds and songs. For this purpose, people laugh and speak louder than usual. If a new acquaintance likes every joke of a girl, he actively laughs, which means he is trying to arouse the interest of his beloved.
Teasing is a child's way of flirting. Boys try to touch girls and pull hair. This is a feature of both child and adult psychology. Flirting men joke and tease the woman they like.
“Drunk” SMS messages arriving at night, albeit clumsily, reveal the guy’s intentions. The text doesn't matter. The content of the messages is neutral: questions about the past day and well-being, life stories. The most important thing is his desire to contact a specific woman.
What will give it away in correspondence?
It can be difficult to understand the feelings of your texting interlocutor.
It is worth paying attention to the following signs:
- Regularity of messages. The guy sends “letters” even when the interlocutor is offline. While online, an online friend actively corresponds and responds quickly. Communication lasts for hours, which fly by unnoticed. If a person spends time texting instead of sleeping, then he is passionate.
- Texts sent out of politeness are short and dry. The interlocutor only answers, does not ask, does not show initiative. An interested friend asks questions and is happy to share the emotions he experienced during the day.
- When communicating, the man gently jokes and makes compliments. He expressively conveys emotions using emoticons.
- Signs of attention on the Internet - activity on the interlocutor’s page. This includes liking, commenting on posts and photos. It’s better to make sure that the guy is interested in this particular page. There are users who are active on all friends' profiles.
How to respond to flirting?
First, decide what you feel for the person. If this is your boss, with whom you have a purely business relationship, the reaction will be the same. If in front of you is a man you like, you will behave differently. Right? Surely, you will take counter steps to make communication easy.
At my events, I often hear the following conversations: “Paul, as soon as we realize that they are flirting with us, it is not clear what to do correctly.” The answer is simple. If you are impressed by the way your chosen one behaves, “mirror” his emotions. You just need to do this very gracefully, including all your charm. I give ready-made techniques at the training “The Art of Female Flirting.” We analyze dozens of exercises to seduce men. I also tell you how to use special techniques to get your loved one to fulfill all your desires.
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In the section “Secrets of dating and first dates” you will find answers to the most pressing questions. I wish you wonderful, unforgettable meetings that will bring love and happiness. Girls, have you encountered male flirting? What is it and how to take it?
How different zodiac signs flirt
Representatives of different signs flirt in different ways: timidly or boldly, softly or more aggressively. To correctly “read” a guy’s playful hints, it’s worth learning about his flirting style:
- Aries is a straightforward and honest person, so he flirts often, but ineptly. Because of this, the interlocutor may be embarrassed, and the guy will seem like a skilled heartthrob. The assertiveness of the sign bears fruit. A man's spontaneity captivates his partner.
- Taurus consciously avoids flirting, although he can react gently to advances. This is a down-to-earth and pragmatic sign that considers playful understatements a waste of energy. He can flirt shyly and reservedly with a pretty interlocutor. If Taurus notices mutual interest, he relaxes and becomes bolder.
- Geminis are one of the most skillful suitors. The representative of the sign is a talented seducer who knows how to flirt in a relaxed, at-ease manner. He is artistic, charming, insightful. A smile, jokes and subtle flattery help him get closer to the acquaintance he likes. Sometimes graceful flirting hides ridicule, manipulation, and attempts to find out information.
- Cancer is not able to flirt in the traditional sense. Trying to attract the attention of the chosen one, the sign shows concern, offers help, and is interested in the woman’s health. He flirts only when he is very interested in a person. He flirts touchingly, but awkwardly. It’s better not to get his hopes up if there are no mutual feelings.
- Leo flirts unconsciously and naturally. She flirts with almost all of her interlocutors, even with her bosses. There is no need to see this light game as a love foreplay. The man enjoys the process and doesn’t think about anything else. Leos love to be aware of their seductiveness and can flirt to assert themselves.
- Virgo flirts in different ways. There are 2 types. One demonstrates inaccessibility and restraint in order to interest his companion. During the conversation, the sign shows fastidiousness. The second type, when flirting, tries to please the interlocutor. Can openly flatter. This kind of subservience often turns off potential partners. All Virgos rarely flirt with the goal of creating an alliance. They seek sexual intimacy.
- Libras know how to use their natural flirting abilities. The representative of the sign puts on a “performance”, revels in artistry, and becomes a tempter. He likes to realize his charm and hone his skills in love games.
- Scorpio has natural attractiveness and knows how to use it. Flirts assertively, with challenge and pleasure. Enjoys involuntary touches, unexpected confessions.
- Sagittarius flirts masterfully. He does this to cheer up his interlocutor. Uses jokes and interesting stories. The second goal of a flirting Sagittarius is to stroke his pride and have fun. Loves to conquer interlocutors who are in love with other people.
- Capricorn is not a masterly suitor. Considers word games to be an unnecessary waste of time. The sign achieves the favor of the chosen one with persistence and even obsession. Capricorns can look for meetings, pursue, including by phone. A guy who flirts is insincere. He uses advances for gain.
- Aquarius is an intellectual who knows how to court exquisitely. He considers flirting to be a mental competition with sensual overtones. Loves worthy rivals. If a pretty interlocutor is not erudite, then Aquarius loses interest in her.
- Pisces are cautious and rational. They start flirting only after they have assessed their chances. The courtship is touching and erotic. The partners are addicted to this game.
Flirting is not synonymous with falling in love. But this sensual game excites and brings pleasure, so people often resort to it to hint about their sympathy.
How to recognize a pick-up artist?
Pickup artist. Nowadays, the use of this word has a fairly broad meaning. But few people understand this meaning. So let's find out!
Misconceptions about pickup artists:
¨ They only want sex. Of course, sex is not the last thing for these guys, but the game is most important to them. Sex is part of the game;
¨ They are of the same type. Forget it once and for all. Just as there are no identical people, there are no identical pick-up artists, so recognizing a pick-up artist is not so easy. Everyone behaves differently with girls in different situations. This is what makes it difficult to distinguish them;
¨ They behave feignedly. Only beginning pick-up artists behave artificially and unnaturally. They are still completely inexperienced and have not developed their own line of behavior with girls, so they are easy to expose.
Goals. The overall goal is self-improvement by communicating with girls. This is their main goal and the main direction of their behavior. But don’t think that pick-up artists don’t learn from every interaction;
You can recognize a pick-up artist by the fact that pick-up artists don’t play computer games, don’t sit on social networks, don’t watch TV - all this takes a lot of time, and they value time, they need a lot of time to achieve the ideal;
Minimal resource costs on their part. They want to seduce a girl, but not spend a lot of money, time, etc.;
Oddly enough, nowadays there are even pickup schools. In these schools they learn the basic rules of pickup or, in other words, persuasion. They are quite diverse, but come down to one thing - satisfaction and self-realization through a girl. By looking at pickup sites, it will be easier for you to recognize a pickup artist.
Some pickup rules:
¨ There are a lot of girls. This already humiliates the female half, because... it sounds like “they are all the same, share with a friend if necessary”;
¨ You can speak only after your eyes meet;
¨ You need to meet girls and women everywhere;
¨ Talk to the girl only about simple, superficial topics;
¨ Your communication is play, flirting, improvisation;
¨ Always use condoms.
There are a lot of pick-up guys, and you need to be careful with them. Why is it important to recognize a pickup artist? Women are not just looking for a guy and a lover, they are looking for a reliable shoulder that they can always rely on. And to do this, you shouldn’t rely on such “pick-up artists” who replenish themselves at your expense.
Many representatives of the fair sex think about how to recognize flirting, what exactly a man is experiencing and whether he is so deeply interested. This is extremely important if a woman intends to develop a serious relationship, and misinterpreted premises will only bring disappointment.
Flirting concept
Courtship, love play, coquetry - all these concepts characterize this word. Everything related to attracting the attention of the opposite sex is called “flirting.”
When a woman starts flirting with a man, she uses any tricks. If a woman starts:
- wink;
- smile sweetly;
- lightly touch a man's hand;
- twirl your hair around your finger;
- communicate flirtatiously;
- change intonation;
- speak phrases that can be understood in two ways;
- play with foreign objects: a pen or fan;
then you can safely conclude that this woman is flirting.
The purpose of such coquetry is different for all representatives of the fair sex - some women just want to sleep with a man, while other ladies dream of a serious relationship.
The outcome of flirting will directly depend on how openly the woman flirts. If a lady exposes her cleavage and licks her lips with her tongue, then it immediately becomes clear that she needs sex. If a woman is just slightly playing with her hair, then we can conclude that her intentions are much more serious than just making love.
That's why it's so important to know how to flirt with men. It's quite easy to learn
Common mistakes
The secrets of how to flirt with a guy correctly are not complete without improvisation. You can ruin a relationship forever in an instant if you overdo it with signs of attention or create a powerful barrier of inaccessibility. Excessive importunity or arrogance are extremes at which recommendations on how to flirt with a man lose all meaning.
Don't impose
If a guy doesn’t call or make an appointment, you shouldn’t hang up the phone or write an SMS with an innocent “How are you?” is replaced after the 20th or 30th message by the phrase: “I don’t want to hear or see you anymore,” “I should have predicted that you would use me and then forget.” After about the 2nd or 3rd message, the man stops reading all the others, and by the evening he deletes them. He will no longer want to communicate with the annoying lady.
The way to attract a guy is that the girl responds to his SMS when he has a desire to communicate with her. If a lady’s thoughts are focused only on her chosen one, then it turns out that nothing else worries her. The guy respects a girl who is a self-sufficient person, does not put a man on a pedestal, and has some interests in life other than love pleasures.
Stay unavailable
While a man does not have access to a woman’s body, he recognizes her only as a person. Platonic feeling is the stage beyond which relationships become strong and lasting. If a guy is not interested in the inner world of his chosen one, there are no common hobbies or interests, then conversations reach a dead end. The man has an insidious idea to use the lady’s body and disappear. A girl will understand after a while how to learn to flirt with a guy so that the relationship becomes strong. In the meantime, she allows him to kiss her, but immediately slips away when he hints at sexual contact. After 1-2 months, the man will realize how important the girl is to him, or he will get tired of pursuing her, and the relationship will come to the expected result.
Don't follow him
The life of a woman who spies on her partner is worse than Sherlock Holmes, is full of torment. In a marriage, a jealous wife does not think about how to flirt with her husband
She has no time for this, because it is important to find out where he is now and with whom. If a relationship is just beginning for young people, some girls are tempted to quietly follow in the heels of their chosen one to find out if there is an insidious rival
Knowing how to flirt properly by correspondence with a man, a girl can make stupid mistakes, directing her attention to an imaginary homewrecker. For example, he writes to him: “I feel that you have someone else,” and then looks for confirmation of his words
He examines the pockets of his loved one’s clothes, looks at contacts and SMS messages on his phone. Life becomes like a nightmare. As a result, what the woman was so afraid of happens - he gets another one. The man was tired of proving the opposite and decided to rebuild his life. It's hard to blame him for anything.
Special cases of flirting
Girls have to flirt their whole lives. A simple approach to life attracts men. The ability to manipulate guys is useful in different areas. The approach to each man should be unique.
With a classmate
Since childhood, there is a desire to know how to communicate with a cute guy at school. In the classroom, there will be no problems winning the boy’s heart. It's enough to show that you like him
A number of methods will help you get your classmate’s attention:
- Ask for help with homework.
- Sometimes it pays to show weakness. Let him want to be a defender and wear other people’s things.
- On Valentine's Day, you can give a Valentine's card to someone you like.
Boys are stupid and don't always understand hints. Sometimes it's worth talking about feelings directly. No one can resist a girl who knows how to take the initiative.
With the boss
Flirting with your boss is not a good idea. Relationships in the office team are frowned upon. Nobody likes someone who seduces their boss.
Gossip will begin in the team. If you have a conflict of interest with your boss, you could lose your job.
Psychologists believe that falling in love with a boss indicates a lack of fatherly love. Such impulses should be suppressed if you want a normal career.
With a colleague
There is nothing immoral about flirting with co-workers. Research has shown that flirting in the office is an unspoken part of corporate ethics.
It is not necessary to build a relationship with a colleague. You can have a nice conversation with him to get some kind of reward. Men are straightforward and do not like to remain in debt. This must always be remembered.
With a stranger
A guy he likes can be captivated by his gaze. He will force you to take the first step. If the “object” does not make contact, it is worth starting a conversation. A girl should be able to interest a stranger with her words.
You can't beat around the bush. Many guys love being straightforward. All you have to do is say: “Hello. I like you. Let's chat?" At first, your loved one will be confused, but will quickly come to his senses and invite you on a date.
You should be relaxed with strangers. Guys like wild ladies.
With an older man
Guys get simpler with age. They have experience behind them. They imagine what they want from the future. They like simple conversations without hints.
Surprises and romantic conversations will help you win the heart of an older man. Married ladies should remember this.
With age, guys become vulnerable. They want romance, so the best way to add a spark to the relationship is to have a lamp evening. The man may seem aloof, but the conversation will melt his cold heart.
With a married man
Flirting with a married man is playing with fire. Women are jealous, so you will have to pay for your courage. It’s better not to risk your health and bright future.
People in relationships are vulnerable. It’s easy to take away a married guy, but you should remember the moral aspects and not encroach on good comrades.
Flirting is part of a relationship. Love begins with him. He is able to revive relationships, melt away former passion. We must not forget about such an ancient art!
He started asking deeper questions
Showing attention to your interlocutor is one of the rules of etiquette, but in simple communication it does not go beyond ordinary politeness. “How are you?”, “How are you feeling?”, “How are you feeling?” – questions that people ask during a meeting without expecting a detailed answer.
Another thing is sincere sympathy, far from friendly feelings. During flirting, a guy tries to get to know you better, so he begins to take an active interest in your problems, hobbies and everything that concerns you. Simply put, I noticed that the guy is really interested in how you are doing, and at every meeting, he is probably not indifferent to you.
Male perspective: 11 signs of flirting, or Spice up your life!
The union of a stupid man and a stupid woman gives birth to a heroine mother.
The union of a stupid woman and a smart man gives birth to a single mother.
The union of a smart man and a smart woman gives rise to easy flirting.
Faina Georgievna Ranevskaya
I am a married man. Moreover, this happened to me quite a long time ago. Therefore, in matters of flirting, I lost all ease. But sometimes it’s interesting what individual hints mean. That is, whether they mean anything or not at all.
There are many women at work. And just imagine, I can’t figure out what to do with them ! Sometimes some well-wisher in a skirt will tell me in confidence that someone is not breathing very smoothly in my direction. I’ll listen, and then I’ll say: “Pfft! No, no! It can’t be!”
Although women, they are known to be naturally observant and record such things as non-verbal invitations to sex quickly, clearly and accurately.
And the thing, by the way, is serious. If you inadvertently think that they are interested in you and welcome, but in reality everything was not so, you risk at least your reputation. And in some temperamental cases – and health.
Well, here we go. In order not to feel like a stupid sheep, I decided to study the question. It turns out that Google knows everything on this topic. In the spirit of mutual assistance (I, a married man, don’t need it myself!) I present below the most obvious signs of flirting on both opposing sides.
So, how to confirm your suspicions that a man or woman is flirting.
An interested person will look at you. This is understandable. You have to take a good look at the object of possible adoration! If they look at you, their gaze lingers, and this happens repeatedly, then everything is very good. For the sake of formality, I would really check if everything is in order in appearance: if the hair is sticking out, if there is a huge pimple on the face, for example. After all, if your beard is smeared in borscht, they will also look.
Raised eyebrows, they say, hint at remarkable interest in you. Or the fact that she tied a tight ponytail this morning. Or about surprise: “What is this guy doing here?” But most likely this is flirting.
A sure sign is also biting and licking lips. In the modern world you rarely see a foreign language. If it was shown to you, you can hope for a lot. Just in case, you can ask again if she has recently eaten halva or ice cream.
Dilated pupils and batting eyelashes up to vertical take-off are purely feminine. It's almost impossible to go wrong here.
Widened nostrils. It’s also such an ancient instinct to give a potential prince/peasant a good sniff.
Why is it important to know how to flirt?
Knowing how to flirt is not a shameful skill at all. This is one of the components of female success. At a minimum, owners of this skill do not have to spend time alone, or while away it exclusively with friends. Flirting in itself does not oblige you to anything, but the ability to communicate correctly with men will increase their number in your environment. And you will definitely have plenty to choose from!
If you already have a boyfriend or husband, the flirting skill will still not be superfluous. After all, flirting with your husband can revive the relationship and endear him to you even more. This helps resolve conflicts that inevitably arise in close relationships, even if there is true love in the couple. Women can also use flirting to get what they want from the men around them; this can be useful even outside of love relationships. A girl who knows how to flirt will always find a protector and intercessor.
And above all, the ability to flirt perfectly reveals femininity. You will be able to feel sexy and desirable, feel confident, and increase your self-esteem. You will learn to radiate love and femininity; not only men, but also women will be drawn to you.
The desire to be loved and to seduce is the natural nature of a woman. This is inherent in each of us from the very beginning. Over centuries of pressure, patriarchal society has forced girls to suppress such instincts. However, everything suppressed remains inside us and does not go anywhere. On the contrary, unfulfilled desires and patterns of behavior can press from within, creating stress and discomfort. Flirting is necessary. You need to learn this and do it correctly, for the benefit of yourself and those around you.
Interested in everything you say
When a person expresses great interest in everything you say, no matter how trivial, he is clearly flirting. In this case, the guy will ask a lot of questions to keep the conversation going. He will hang on your every word and laugh even at your weakest jokes.