12 signals how to understand that a girl has 100% cum and has an orgasm

Tension and relaxation

People react differently to the sudden and strong release of endorphins at the moment of orgasm. The girl feels intense pleasure and reacts to it: moaning, freezing, sometimes laughing or crying.

However, at the level of specific physiological reactions, orgasm is the same for both sexes, so you can watch how her body reacts to understand whether she has experienced an orgasm or is faking it.

In particular, during orgasm, the body becomes very tense. Perhaps she arches, stretches, squeezes her legs tightly, presses you tighter to her, digs her nails into your back.

In any case, you feel muscle tension. At some point it reaches a peak, then the girl relaxes, goes limp, breathes heavily (then more slowly) - moves away, rests.

Breath

Orgasm is an absolutely physiological phenomenon. The sensations from it, if you remove the direct sensory component, are similar to the sensations from good, high-quality physical activity.

Therefore, listen to your partner’s breathing. Before orgasm, it either becomes more frequent, becomes heavy, ragged, or she holds her breath and tries to better concentrate on the sensations in her lower abdomen.

After a muscle cramp (mentioned above), breathing will become deep and heavy, as after a good physical workout - this is how blood circulation is restored after stress on the body.

By the way, advice: if you notice that your partner is holding her breath before orgasm, advise her to stop doing this and start breathing deeply, even if orgasm has almost happened. Breathing allows blood to circulate more intensely throughout the body.

Accordingly, the genitals will receive greater blood flow, and muscle contraction during orgasm will increase. This is also true for the male body.

Heartbeat

During sensual interactions, the couple is close to each other, so it’s easy to feel the partner’s pulse - just press your lips to the neck, carotid artery, touch with your fingers (if the position or type of sex does not allow you to do this with your lips.).

The heartbeat at the climax speeds up, becomes hasty, uneven. Because of this, the girl blushes, sweat appears on her forehead, neck, and chest. This happens because sexual intercourse is quite intense physical activity, even in the laziest and most relaxed position.

And during orgasm, the heartbeat and blood circulation increase even more, so the girl sweats and blushes.

Where does the orgasm go?

Acquired anorgasmia often accompanies those who take antidepressants. Other risk factors include belonging to a cultural or religious group where sex is considered sinful, depression, body image, experience of sexual abuse, and physical trauma (such as spinal cord injury, genital removal surgery, or circumcision).

Anorgasmia can often occur with increased anticipation of orgasm. One of the partners may begin to worry when he sees that the other is waiting for him to finish, or may worry because he has not finished for a long time, and the other partner is already tired.

Women find it difficult to come because they don’t love their own bodies, and also because they expect the man’s satisfaction rather than their own. Men, by the way, also have a hard time cumming because of masculine stereotypes.

Overstimulation during masturbation can also affect your ability to orgasm. It can lead to decreased sensitivity in the penis, vagina and anus. Some people who are used to masturbating quite aggressively may find it difficult to reproduce the same intensity of friction during normal sexual intercourse. Women often get used to masturbating with a vibrator or lying on their stomach, and during sex it is difficult for them to reproduce the usual conditions.

Just don't look away...

You can tell if a girl has “reached the point” by looking at her. No, no heart-shaped pupils and rolled eyes, like in hentai, no adoration - you live in the real world.

“Okay, I understand,” you may say, “then how can you understand that a girl is about to have an orgasm? Where should I look, is her eye color changing?”

Of course not. Here are the signs:

Girls often close their eyes to better focus on sensations. Plus, from the tension that now constrains her body, she can throw back her head, turn her face away, and bury herself in the pillow.
Her gaze becomes unfocused, foggy, she is focused on sensations, as if “not here,” as if she is imagining something in her head.

Read: how to understand that a girl is using you (main signs)

Obstacle course (women)3

It’s time to write treatises about the problems that women experience on the way to orgasm.

We will try to outline the information without using too many books.

Unfortunately, not every woman experiences orgasm during sexual intercourse with a man. But women very easily throw around such a concept as “frigidity”.

If a woman experiences sexual desire, gets an orgasm during “solo sex” or cunnilingus, then it is stupid to enroll herself in the ranks of “cold” girls.

Symptoms of female anorgasmia:

Painful sensations during sexual intercourse.
Lack of orgasm.
Lack of sexual desire.

The main enemies of female orgasm:

Lack of confidence in one’s own body – concentration not on sensations, but on one’s own shortcomings (most often far-fetched).
Concentration on the pleasure of the partner - the girl thinks only about the man’s orgasm, forgetting about her own.
Experienced sexual violence.
Negative relationship experiences - betrayal, toxic partner, mistrust and fears towards men.
Unsuccessful first sex.
Complexes that the previous partner carefully instilled.
Strict upbringing. The topic of sex is taboo in the family.
Unhappy marriage of parents. A series of unsuccessful novels by the mother, which the growing daughter witnessed.
Pathological fear of getting pregnant, which prevents you from relaxing during sex.
Diseases of the nervous system.
Problems with the endocrine system (lack of female hormones).
Gynecological problems.

Solution to the problem:

If there are no problems with your physical health, you should take care of your mental health. Psychological trauma, past violence, fear of relationships with men - these problems cannot be solved by talking with a girlfriend or a bottle of wine. It's worth looking for a good psychologist.
Check hormone levels. Especially if you experience mood swings, sudden weight fluctuations and general malaise.
Ask your partner to spend more time on foreplay.
Stop focusing on the “aesthetic” side of the process - often girls worry that in one position or another their breasts or butt don’t look right, but here thick ankles catch your eye. Many people are also embarrassed by their facial expressions during orgasm. The verdict of men is this: if there is a naked girl in front of us, nothing else matters.
Learn to relax. You are unlikely to be able to protect yourself from stressful situations, unless you plan to live as an ascetic high in the mountains. You need to learn to free your body and mind from unnecessary stress. Do yoga and learn meditation. An important point: yoga is primarily about spirituality. If you are squirming on a gymnastics mat for the sake of an appetizing butt and slender legs (with which you are going to amaze your man again), forgetting that you actually came here for harmony and peace... re-read the point above.

Emotional reaction after sex

During orgasm, an increased dose of endorphin, the hormone of happiness and pleasure, is released into the blood, plus physical relief occurs, so after orgasm, people of both sexes experience emotional relaxation.

This means that the girl looks calm, relaxed, satisfied, as if she has completed a difficult process, and now she is calm, good, she feels relief, peace. But keep in mind that the emotional sphere is very individual, therefore:

Firstly, the degree of emotional satisfaction depends on the girl. Someone feels emotions at the level of “wow... good. Well, let’s go watch the series,” some are stronger, some need to lie down and rest.
Secondly, peace and relaxation do not always occur. Sometimes after climax there comes irritation, adrenaline, a desire for activity, and perhaps a snack.

Increased sensitivity

After climax, the body usually reacts: “Stop, that’s enough, we need a break, we need to cool down, don’t touch us for a while.” Therefore, immediately after orgasm, the human body (of any gender), especially the genitals, becomes very sensitive.

You may have felt this yourself: after the act is completed, touching the head of the penis probably causes pain. It also hurts a girl if you touch the clitoris, nipples, and other intimate and sensitive places.

Of course, it’s not worth checking, you don’t want to hurt your loved one. But if you touched the clitoris, even gently, and in response your beloved twitched, moaned painfully, and asked to stop, it means that she just experienced an orgasm and doesn’t want anymore.

Obstacle course (men)2

First, let's figure out what factors prevent a man from having an orgasm.

If we are talking about a one-time failure, then the reason for the lack of orgasm may be too much alcohol. The man decided to relax a little, but he overdid it - it was not his head that relaxed, but another part of his body. Well, as well as the ubiquitous stress and “tired at work,” of course.

If problems with orgasm occur regularly, the reasons can be very serious. The unpleasant term “anorgasmia” is looming on the horizon.

The manifestations of anorgasmia are very unpleasant - ejaculation occurs, but that same peak of pleasure is not observed. Other manifestations of anorgasmia in men are that orgasm is weak, or the man does not enjoy sex at all.

If we ignore the problems with physiology, then the problem may be psychological. For some reason, a man finds his partner unpleasant, or his relationship with her leaves much to be desired.

Other causes of sexual problems are diseases (genital and endocrine systems), alcohol and drug addiction, severe psychological illnesses (depression and others) or side effects of medications.

If no physiological abnormalities are detected, then you should overcome yourself and consult a psychologist. For some reason, in Russia and the CIS countries the attitude towards psychologists and people who turn to them for help is very specific.

For our compatriots, going to a psychologist means admitting that you are not only abnormal, but also a weakling - you couldn’t “settle” everything yourself, so you ran to the doctor.

It is important to set your priorities correctly - are stereotypes and the opinions of strangers really that important when it comes to the quality of your intimate life?

It would also be a good idea to reduce the amount of alcohol and tobacco products.

The problem will not disappear on its own, it can only bring even more problems into a man’s life - prolonged anorgasmia leads to the development of prostatism. And this means a frequent urge to urinate and noticeable discomfort in the genital area.

So, let’s briefly outline the symptoms of male anorgasmia:

A man experiences pleasant sensations during sex, but orgasm does not bring much pleasure - the sensations become only slightly sharper.
Painful sensations during sexual intercourse.
Orgasm as such does not occur at all.
A man does not have much interest in sex, even if he is sexually active.

Psychological and other problems that prevent orgasm:

Strict upbringing - sex in the family was considered a shameful activity. Condemnation of manifestations of sexual interest in a child.
Psychological trauma received when a child caught his parents making love.
As a child or teenager, the man experienced violence.
Unsuccessful first experience and painful shame about it.
Disappointment (often received after the long-awaited first sex in life).
Abuse of the method of interrupted coitus as contraception.
Lack of concentration on the process - a man’s thoughts are far outside the bedroom.
Lack of feelings for a partner - “robotic” sex without emotions and sensual experiences.

Methods for solving the problem:

Visit to a psychologist.
A healthy lifestyle (at least diligent attempts to lead it).
Resolving conflicts with a partner or breaking up a relationship. It is likely that a man will begin to experience orgasm and intense emotions from sex with another woman.
Visit to the doctor. It is worth checking your hormone levels (excessively high prolactin levels, lack of testosterone) and ruling out the presence of hypoglycemia.

Drowsiness

After finishing, people often feel drowsy. Reason: a sharp increase and then a decrease in physical activity: the heart rate and blood pressure increase sharply, breathing quickens, muscles tense - and then relaxation suddenly comes.

Plus, the release of hormones contributes to falling asleep, so often, after finishing, girls fall asleep for a short time or simply look sleepy, tired, it takes some time to feel cheerful.

Because of this, by the way, somnologists (scientists who study sleep) recommend making love or masturbating (the best first!) to improve sleep quality. Lifehack!

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Signs associated with the genitals

Intimacy is an intense, quite sticky, wet experience, so it’s not a fact that you recognize these signs when you have vaginal sex, because the penis pulsates like the vagina and also secretes lubricant.

But if you perform cunnilingus on a girl, caress her with your fingers (which, by the way, will lead to orgasm with a much higher probability than a simple penetrative act), you will notice signs:

The labia will swell and enlarge. If a girl shaves her bikini area, you will notice how the labia are red and look slightly inflamed due to the flow of blood, like a male erection.
The clitoris will especially swell and enlarge (of course, not as much as the male genital organ). The clitoral hood will retract, a small piece of flesh covering the head of the clitoris.
Caressing a girl’s vagina with your fingers or tongue, at the moment of orgasm you will feel contractions of the walls and pulsation. The bad news: girls know how to force them to contract consciously.

Therefore, watch the nature of the contractions. During orgasm, contractions are fast, rhythmic, in time with the heartbeat, because these contractions occur due to blood flow.

A girl can rhythmically move her hips to meet your movements, squeeze her hips, trying to increase sensations, stretch, squeeze her legs, press the guy’s head harder against the vagina, if we are talking about cunnilingus.

How can it be achieved?2

In this case, sexologists and sex therapists give such advice and recommendations.

First of all - movement

During the Victorian era, English women practiced this motto in bed - ladies don't move. And Queen Victoria herself was proud that she conceived and gave birth to 9 children and did not experience a single orgasm. But now this has gone into oblivion and a woman should understand that movements on her part are no less important than frictions performed by men.

Use your imagination

As studies show, out of 100 women active in bed, 99 fantasized, imagining someone else in place of their partner. Thus, 35% represented one of the world's celebrities, 20% represented a neighbor or acquaintance, and 45% represented some fictitious lover.

Take a shower

This will help not only to cleanse the body, relax and tune in to the appropriate mood, but also to maintain all hygienic decency. In addition, jets of hot water directed to the lower abdomen and genitals will help “tune in” to the appropriate mood, simulating blood flow to the genitals.

Ellipsis

French sexologists have discovered 3 sensitive points on the body, when stimulated you can achieve orgasm in 7 minutes. So, two points were called K - they are located on both sides of the clitoris, at a distance of 1 cm, and they are easy to find, since they harden when excited.

It is better to massage the points with your right hand - with your middle and index fingers, without touching the clitoris. And after 2-3 minutes, you can move on to stimulating the G-spot without stopping stimulation of the K-spot - it is located between the anus and vagina. This massage can lead to multiple orgasms.

Train your vaginal muscles

Kegel Arnold is an American gynecologist who has developed a series of exercises that strengthen the vaginal muscles, making them elastic and strong. At the very beginning, they were developed for pregnant women - they improved labor, helped to recover faster, and acted as a preventive measure for a number of gynecological diseases. But it also turned out that another side effect, so to speak, is that with appropriate training, the orgasm becomes brighter, and their frequency increases in one session.

Don't think about orgasm

As psychologists say, you shouldn’t constantly think about orgasm, try to do anything and everything in order to achieve it. As they say, let go of the situation, enjoy sex and don’t rush things. According to statistics, many women begin to experience multiple, or even just a single, orgasm 2 years after the start of sexual activity, and some even after childbirth.

Comparison with adult videos (correct)

You read above that it is porn that gives rise to unrealistic ideas about women’s orgasms, because porn conveys the image not of a real woman, but of a nymph from the hottest fantasies, and then guys have to face reality. Oops.

By the way, women also often experience confusion about this: “In porn, women squirm and moan during orgasm, but I don’t want to do that - does that mean I don’t have an orgasm at all? Or is he not strong enough? Or am I doing something wrong? Am I frigid?

However, 18+ videos can show how real women behave. If this is an amateur video.

There are no professional actresses, no directors who force them to behave in a certain way, no need to choose a beautiful angle (the actors have to freeze in the most intricate pose and wait for the cameraman to find the angle).

In amateur porn, real couples have real sex, allowing you to see what it looks like from the outside.

You can also watch masturbation porn. There, if the girls exaggerate their reactions in order to appear more attractive, then not by much, and you will see how a real orgasm occurs. Then you can compare it with the feelings of your chosen one.

BUT! DO NOT get carried away! Porn addiction never sleeps!

Relationship problems and orgasm problems

Sometimes a woman cannot experience orgasm due to problems related to the relationship in general. She doesn't want to be with this person anymore, doesn't trust him, or doesn't feel attracted to him - all of which can cause problems with orgasm. This book will teach you to better understand your body and get the stimulation you need, but it will not solve your relationship problem. If you feel that the relationship has reached a dead end and you are completely confused, consulting a psychologist will help. <…> Communication skills <…> will also be useful and will help you talk with your partner.

When researchers ask female college students why they fake orgasms, what they usually hear is so that no one will think there's something wrong with them. In addition, another common reason is the desire to increase the partner’s self-esteem and the reluctance to hurt his feelings.

Women fake orgasms, believing that the penis should help them come, and they want to convince their man that his organ is unusually powerful. But that's not true! No penis has such power.

Just ask directly

The simplest, most logical and reliable way to understand whether your partner has come. Because girls really often imitate (a third of women, according to a survey conducted by our authors in Moscow, Russian Federation: out of 558 respondents, 380 answered that they always imitate).

The bad news is that it is almost impossible to recognize an imitation. The signs that are listed here and in other articles on a similar topic can be simulated. Muscle tension, intermittent breathing (which speeds up the heartbeat), moans - and the partner is sure that the girl has come.

Causes:

Fear of offending, desire to support the partner’s self-esteem.

Men are rarely able to adequately respond to the news “sorry, honey, I didn’t like it, I didn’t finish” - much more often girls hear in response accusations of frigidity, anger, men say that the problem is with the woman, and he, the man, did everything right.

Women naturally do not want to face an aggressive reaction. Therefore, it is easier to stimulate than to argue, explain, or deal with an offended man.

The desire to finish the process as quickly as possible.

There is an idea that sex must end in orgasm. This seems logical: otherwise, why bother making love? However, in reality, both men and women are not able to experience an orgasm every time.

Their minds may be filled with sad thoughts. Or too tired to experience strong sensations of release. Or just not in the mood right now.

At the same time, the process of sexual interaction itself may well bring pleasure to the couple: hugs, kisses, pleasant stimulation of erogenous zones - this contributes to the production of oxytocin (the hormone of intimacy, stimulates a feeling of affection, calmness, security) and endorphin, the hormone of joy.

But because of the attitude that “sex must end in orgasm,” intimacy in the format of pleasant sexual interaction without orgasm seems incomplete. And girls/women stimulate.

The second option is sadder: sex is so unpleasant that it is more profitable for a girl to stimulate an orgasm to stop the process than to explain what her partner is doing wrong.

This often happens because a man considers long-term friction with a penis in the vagina to be good sex. Back and forth, back and forth. Reference: most women do not experience orgasm at all from vaginal stimulation without clitoral stimulation.

It’s easier to stimulate than to explain how to truly give pleasure.

It happens that a man does not show sensitivity in bed or is simply not a very skilled lover. In all other respects, the girl is satisfied with the relationship, but in bed it’s a complete 0, explanations do not help, and it becomes easier to stimulate than to try to explain.

That's why women imitate. It's easier to ask directly. But it is important to ask correctly.

How:

Don't ask questions during sex. “Are you done yet?” in the middle of the process, it instantly stops all excitement. Ask later, when the intimacy is over, gently, not directly.
Create a comfortable environment for your partner. Say that you are ready to hear a negative answer, she can be honest, you will not be offended, and you want to give her real pleasure.

Because women are afraid of offending their partner. To the question “darling, did you like it?” The only possible answer for them is: “Of course, the best sex of my life!” She doesn't want to lie to you - she's just afraid of offending you.

Don't be offended. If once, asking “honey, have you finished?” and having received a negative answer, you are offended - you will never hear the truth again. Be prepared to calmly accept any answer, be open to constructive dialogue.

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What you need to know about the female orgasm5

There are many debates on the topic of female pleasure between various specialists, men and women themselves. Interestingly, in ancient times the Chinese believed that during sex, a man gives his energy, and a woman receives it. Therefore, she enjoys the process itself, but rarely reaches the finish line.

After a while, sex became something shameful, and women began to be charged with maintaining chastity until marriage. However, if a girl is completely inexperienced, most likely she will make love only to please a man and will not be able to get real female pleasure because she does not know how to feel her body and does not fully understand it.

It is the male orgasm that plays an important role - when a guy reaches climax, the process stops. At the same time, a woman often needs to make love a little longer to experience pleasure.

It is interesting that the strength of libido may not depend at all on gender. There are men who experience very little desire and women who have great desire.

Don't believe the myths

The female orgasm has been little studied. The topic is stigmatized. Women are embarrassed to talk about how they actually experience it: how often, how intense, how they behave.

Therefore, there are many different myths floating around the topic. It’s worth getting rid of many to make your sex life healthier, more enjoyable, clearer and better:

Apart from the physical signs listed above (muscle tension, flushing, rapid heartbeat, breathing, throbbing in the lower abdomen), there are no general signs of orgasm. It can be different: loud, intense, quiet, with tears, moans, laughter - whatever.
Different women experience orgasms of different intensities: quick, light, intense, after which they need to rest for a long time. This is fine. Depends on the physiology, temperament of a particular woman, how long she has not had intimacy, etc.
Squirting does not mean a more intense orgasm. Squirting does not mean orgasm at all, it occurs due to the stimulation of Sin's glands, which have nothing to do with orgasm. Squirting can accompany orgasm or occur without it, or before orgasm.
Arousal is accompanied by lubrication, it’s true, but there are women who physiologically produce less of it. This does not make her unhealthy, incorrect, or insufficiently excited - it is simply a feature of her physiology.
“The longer the better” is a myth. Prolonged friction with a penis in the vagina can even be painful - the penis literally rubs. Pleasure depends on the partner's skills. Of course, we are not talking about a quick act of 2 minutes, but it is not necessary to spend half an hour crawling back and forth.

The female orgasm is unpredictable and varied

October 22, 2012

The sexual act of a woman is characterized by greater variety than the sexual act of a man. In a certain sense, you can say that a woman is unpredictable. And sometimes it takes significant experience living together with a man for him to begin to understand her and feel how to behave so that everything works out in bed with her.

First, let us dwell on the differences between the first three phases of female sexual intercourse from male ones, associated with the differences in the corresponding genital organs.

In the arousal phase, due to the rush of blood to the genitals, the labia majora straighten, and the labia minora increase in diameter by 2-3 times, changing color from pale pink to dark red. Most women also experience an increase in size and hardening of the clitoris. Literally 10-15 seconds after the onset of sexual arousal, lubricant begins to be released, causing the vagina to become moist, which facilitates penetration of the penis. The vagina, especially its inner two-thirds, lengthens and expands. If at this time the penis is inserted and the first frictions are performed, then the man may get the impression that the penis is “lost” in the vagina, not clinging to anything.

However, this is a deceptive impression from an under-excited woman. If you continue caresses or frictions, then due to the overflow of venous blood into the walls of the outer third of the vagina, the woman forms an orgasmic cuff (akin to the erection of the penis in a man), which tightly covers the man’s penis, and the woman’s sexual intercourse goes into the plateau phase. The diversity of a woman’s sexual intercourse is primarily due to the fact that the presence or absence of an orgasm has absolutely no effect on her ability to become pregnant (but this ability depends on her sexual constitution). Therefore, the obligatory presence of orgasm as one of the main attributes of a woman’s sexual intercourse is not a factor in her sexual life that nature would need to consolidate in the process of long-term evolution.

In this regard, some women (according to various sources, 10-15% and even 22.4%) are frigid and do not experience orgasm under any circumstances. Sexopathology in some cases considers frigidity as a sexual disorder, and in others - as sexual coldness in the absence of any deviations in the mental and physical sphere of a woman. Apparently, the first option should be associated with the fact that in some cases a woman had or has (for example, during erotic dreams) orgasms, and then disappeared and are not achieved during sexual intercourse. In this case, frigidity is the result of either a defect in the woman’s upbringing or the incompetence of her sexual partner.

The second option may be associated with truly innate sexual coldness, i.e. with a woman’s inability to experience orgasm at all (so-called constitutional frigidity). In both cases, frigid women have sex life without internal motivation, mainly out of a sense of marital duty and to avoid conflicts with their husbands. In this case, the woman has to pretend that she is allegedly experiencing an orgasm, which greatly contributes to male self-confidence.

On the other hand, women have objective indicators by which a man can find out whether they have an orgasm or not. So, immediately after orgasm, some women experience so-called “sexual flushing.” This is a measles-like rash that appears on the chest, appears suddenly, lasts for a few minutes and gradually disappears. This redness does not happen to every woman. But the second sign is common to all women: their orgasm is always followed by an erection of the nipples. Despite the heaving of the hips, the thrusting of the pelvis, the passionate moans - since there is no erection of the nipples, then there is no orgasm.

The second factor influencing the variety of sexual intercourse of women capable of experiencing orgasm is its multivariance. Multivariance is manifested both in the place of orgasm and in its type (or nature of occurrence). Depending on the location, a woman’s orgasm can be: clitoral (40-56%); vaginal or vaginal (33-37%); tsvirkalny or uterine; perineal; mixed (27%). In the latter case, a woman's orgasm can be simultaneous, affecting several of her organs, or sequential, when it first occurs in one place and then continues in another. More than half of women of this type note the appearance of orgasm first in the clitoral area, about a third - in the vaginal area, and the rest - in other places.

In appearance, a female orgasm can be: single, like a male orgasm (10%); wavy (84%); multiple or multiorgasmic (about 5%); protracted (no more than 1%). A single orgasm is pulsating with a single peak, similar to a male one, jerky, but often longer than a male one by 20-30%. The specificity of such an orgasm is the rhythmic contraction of the muscles of the vagina, uterus, pelvic floor, perineum, diaphragm and even the abdomen. Many women describe that their orgasm begins with a short-term feeling of delay in all mental processes, a peculiar feeling of weightlessness, ending with a push in the clitoris area with irradiation into pelvis, and the appearance of a feeling of warmth spreading throughout the whole body.

In this case, there is a feeling as if something is being squeezed out of the body, which has given rise to an incorrect judgment about the existence of female ejaculation. Then comes an involuntary rhythmic contraction of the muscles of the vagina, pelvis, etc., felt throughout the body and reminiscent of a pulse, which is why it is called “pelvic beat.” It is accompanied by a feeling of non-existence, stunning ecstasy, unusual voluptuousness. In this case, the respiratory rate reaches 40 per minute, blood pressure sometimes rises to 200 mm Hg. Art. and higher, and the pulse is up to 140-170 beats per minute.

The number of beats varies for different women: from 3-4 to 12-15. Then comes the phase of calming, but unlike male sexual intercourse, the woman does not experience depression, but a simple calming of the body occurs with a return flow of blood from the genitals and the disappearance of the orgasmic cuff, lightening of the reddened areas of the skin, a decrease in pulse and blood pressure. In this case, the woman’s arousal gradually subsides to a normal state, which sometimes takes up to 10-20 minutes.

It should be noted that some women experiencing uterine orgasm actually experience the release of some amount of fluid. In this case, first the so-called Christeler's plug, which is a clot of mucus, is pushed out of the cervix, and then the secretions of the cervix and Bartholin's glands are thrown out. Usually all this fluid is not much, but some women in one sexual act gain, as one tabloid newspaper puts it, the amount of “a small cup of coffee.” Therefore, such women always have problems with the cleanliness of bed linen if no measures are taken in advance (do not place napkins as thick as a towel).

There is another source of fluid for women - the bladder. In a very small number of women, it is possible that a combination of muscle tension during orgasm leads to squeezing out the contents of the bladder, which can also be perceived as female ejaculation. There is only one way out - to empty the bladder immediately before sexual intercourse. With a wave-like orgasm, from 5 to 15 waves of tension in the muscles of the genital organs occur with the simultaneous appearance of orgasmic sensations. Each wave can last from a few to several tens of seconds. In this case, the strength of sensations, as a rule, increases from wave to wave.

Sometimes there is only one wave of orgasm.

Then they talk about a dome-shaped orgasm. Moreover, at different times, depending on the time of previous abstinence, mood, well-being, etc. the same woman can experience both a dome-shaped and a wave-shaped orgasm. But in all these cases, to fully satisfy a woman, intense frictions are required during orgasm (which can be done both by the man and, naturally, by the woman or by them together). This is its difference from a single orgasm and a man’s orgasm, where such frictions are not required.

Multi-orgasmic women are able to experience several orgasms during one sexual act, just like multi-orgasmic men. Like men, during orgasm they experience rhythmic contraction of the muscles of the genital organs, perineum, pelvis and even abdomen. But the arousal curve at the end of sexual intercourse ends not in depression, but in calming, which usually takes some time.

To fully satisfy a multi-orgasmic woman, intercourse must continue until she has experienced a full series of orgasms. This can be 8-12, and sometimes up to 20 orgasms in up to 20 minutes. Such women are called superpotent, and they are found very rarely and only among people with a strong sexual constitution. A prolonged orgasm can be considered as a long dome-shaped orgasm, stretching for 1-3 or even 4 hours. All this time frictions must be carried out. Obviously, not every man can satisfy a woman with such an orgasm. As a very rare variant of the norm for a woman with a strong sexual constitution and a very sensitive nervous system, one can distinguish a continuous orgasm with rhythmic contraction of the muscles of the genital organs, which occurs immediately after the start of friction of the penis in the vagina and continues until its end, i.e. until the end of the man's sexual intercourse.

With such an orgasm, sexual intercourse should not be prolonged, otherwise it will cause a woman great muscle strain and fatigue instead of satisfaction. In addition, it should be taken into account that if, when inserting the penis into the vagina, touching the woman’s genitals, or even just at the thought of sexual intercourse, she begins to experience convulsive contraction (spasm) of the muscles of the genital organs, then this is no longer an orgasm, but vaginismus - a type of sexual disorder for which you need to see a doctor. Interesting variations are observed with mixed orgasm. Most often this is a clitoral-vaginal or vaginal-clitoral orgasm, at the beginning of which shocks and sensations begin first in the clitoral area and then move to the vagina or vice versa. But there are some other varieties.

For example, an orgasm can begin in the clitoral area, like a man's, with several quick and rhythmic contractions of the abdominal muscles, and then turn into a dome-shaped or even wave-shaped vaginal orgasm that lasts several minutes.

Women with this type of orgasm have a more sensitive clitoris and a vagina that is not at all sensitive before orgasm. Therefore, they need a long foreplay with caressing the clitoris without insertion of the penis until orgasm (immission at this time is simply unpleasant for them). The absence of immission for a man in this case is also very useful, since it helps to save his strength to carry out intense frictions during a woman’s prolonged orgasm.

Of course, the above examples of the forms of sexual intercourse of a woman and the varieties of her orgasm by no means exhaust the variety of sexual manifestations of these unpredictable creatures.
And if a man has a certain and sometimes long-term sexual experience with one or even several women, then when he meets a new partner, this experience will most likely only harm the achievement of harmony in their intimate relationships. Because every woman is a complete mystery not only for the man who is interested in her, but, what is most offensive, for herself. And they both have to solve this riddle again. Knowledge of issues of sexual constitution can be very useful to them here. prosecutor Filchakov wood boilers price Filchakovovariocentesis laptop for designer 2021

Look at yourself, take a closer look

Men and women belong to the 1st species - humans, and orgasm is tied to physiology. Therefore, remember yourself at the moment of orgasm and look for the same signs in a woman (no, not identical, but similar in sensations).

Tension in the body, confused, rapid breathing, rapid heartbeat, unfocused gaze, desire to quickly get a release, pulsation in the lower abdomen, sensitivity of the genitals after.

You can continue endlessly, as described separately above...
All this is typical for both men and women. The signs can be different... Learn to identify them from your young lady. This is the only way to 100% understand that she experienced an orgasm (came!).

Which girls are capable of erupting jets from the vagina?

There are different points of view on who is destined to experience such pleasure and who is not destined to. Sometimes these opinions are contradictory.

Some adhere to the view that only a select part of the female population of the planet with a special structure of the genital organs can achieve a jet orgasm, others believe that it is the result of long and hard training. There are also those who do not believe in the existence of such a unique phenomenon.

In fact, every woman can achieve bliss in sex through the above orgasm; each woman has all the makings for this. Because it is part of feminine nature.