By a certain age, many women are forced to wonder how to find a husband, and why previous searches were in vain. It has long been noted that some women easily manage to find a man and get married, while others experience obvious difficulties, even if they look more impressive and generally consider themselves more worthy. What is the secret, and how can you still find a husband? To do this, let's look at the most popular questions.
Why can't you find a good husband?
There are several common reasons:
Careerism
Women who are overly passionate about their careers rarely manage to enter into an early marriage, and if they do, it quickly falls apart. A career woman who devotes a huge amount of energy to work has no time for her personal life. The main energy reserves are devoted to work, and she goes on dates (if they happen) extinguished. Also, career women often cannot switch from work moments to “ordinary life,” precisely because of their obsession with their career.
Lack of desire to build a family life
Without a suitable candidate on the horizon, a woman may not think about marriage for a long time. This is common in women's groups. For example, among educators, teachers. The only chance to find a husband is to visit other places more often, but many women ignore this rule. It turns out to be a vicious circle: they go to work, where they cannot meet a life partner, and then return home to take care of household chores, and sometimes host friends for a visit. This happens year after year, and then it becomes difficult to “pull” yourself anywhere.
Excessive activity
They say that if you really want something, it will happen. In the case of finding a husband, the opposite effect often occurs. Men understand that marriage has become a fixed idea for you, and this repels them. Usually another rule helps more in this case: “let go of the situation.” Just live brightly and actively, and your life partner will appear by itself - tested by millions of women.
Obsession
The roots of this reason are in the previous one. A woman wants to get married so much that this pressure literally scares away the opposite sex. The man does not feel exceptional in her eyes, but understands that he is only a means to achieve other people’s plans. A woman may think that she has sufficiently disguised her strong desire for marriage, but the details give her away: forcing events, obsession. Usually a man is alarmed by female activity.
Excessive demands on a potential spouse
One of the most common reasons. This scares off men and prevents the woman herself from choosing a worthy companion, because... in her understanding, they all “fall short.” There is nothing wrong with looking for a generous, handsome, rich, caring, funny and passionate husband. Some men do not strive for such achievements, lacking inspiration in the form of a worthy woman nearby, so it is better to look for a promising husband. You've probably heard stories about how some men are transformed in marriage, having not been particularly in demand before it.
Relationship with a married man
Some women do not marry for a trivial reason: being the mistress of a married man, they hope that the situation will soon change and they will change places with their official wife. This can indeed happen, but more often than not it does not. A man in love with a woman will find it impossible to live with someone else. By agreeing to a humiliating role for herself, a woman not only risks not waiting for her lover’s divorce, but also closes off the possibility of a new romance.
Temperament
Overly sensual women are distinguished by irrepressible energy and devote a lot of effort to seducing a man. These efforts do not hide from his eyes, and often confuse him. The absence of emotions is also harmful - a person who needs to be constantly “slowed down” is also unattractive as a life partner. She may be an excellent housewife and have excellent moral qualities, but a man simply will not understand this.
How to find a loved one and find happiness in love
If you want to find a loved one and find personal happiness in love, then you need to earn it, you need to be prepared for it. Every woman should remember that somewhere her man is waiting for her, with whom she will remain herself and be happy.
In order to find happiness and love, you don't need to waste time waiting. You need to act, and happiness will come to you faster. To begin with, love yourself and the world around you, enjoy the new day, good people, and this will become your path to happiness.
You should be grateful that you have a life that is bright and huge, and that you came into it with great inner potential. You need to realize your potential while experiencing a feeling of love, and for this you need a soul mate!
But to find a loved one, you must first solve the problem of contacting new people. After all, without having any new acquaintances, you limit yourself, including from the possibility of meeting your future chosen one. You must understand that you can use innuendo or hints, but at the same time strictly observe a sense of proportion and use your intuition.
When looking for your ideal partner, you must highlight the signs of your future loved one. You need to immediately weed out all unsuitable people. Formulate your interests and take a closer look at those around you - somewhere among them you should find your loved one.
- Don't expect a miracle
. Many sit at home or at work and wait for a miracle, for example, that He will come or mistakenly dial a phone number and your voice will conquer him, or the meeting will happen on its own, somehow by chance. This only happens in fairy tales and women's magazines. - Without fanaticism
. I know many women who really want to get married. And the more they want, the less chance they have. They try so hard to please that they scare men away. In addition, in every new acquaintance they see a future husband, which again scares men away. Try to be natural, because sooner or later the mask will have to be removed, and he will see your true essence, so let him immediately get used to you. - Change your usual routine
. Home – work, work – shop – home. So days, weeks, years pass. This way of life becomes familiar and it becomes more and more difficult to change anything every year. Make it a habit to regularly (at least once a month) attend various events (exhibitions, cinemas, concerts). This is a great chance to meet interesting people with similar interests, and it is also your contribution to self-development. - Remove stereotypes
. Each person has his own idea of the ideal or how the first date should go or what is not the right age, etc. Remove all your beliefs and stereotypes. If a person is not what you imagined him to be, still give him a chance and more than one to prove himself. Sometimes it is our bias and the framework into which we have driven ourselves that prevents us from being happy. - Increase your self-esteem
. Many women want to start a family, love and be loved, but in their hearts they consider themselves unworthy of such happiness and subconsciously suppress any attempts at dating. Remember that you are a Woman, love yourself, because if you don’t love yourself, then it’s even more difficult for others to love you. Every person has shortcomings, but it is better to pay attention to the merits of both your own and other people. Don't compare yourself to others because you are unique. - Get rid of unnecessary things
. If it is excess weight, change your diet and lifestyle; if there is a lot of work and there is no time for yourself, redistribute it among colleagues, think, do you live to work or work to live? If complexes interfere with your happiness, read specialized literature or consult a psychologist. If everything in the house reminds you of your ex, get rid of all things and make cosmetic repairs. If you continue to maintain a relationship, allow something new to come into your life. - Change your image
. Sometimes life changes dramatically after a new hairstyle, paradoxically, but true. Don't be afraid to buy new clothes, change your usual style, go somewhere you haven't dared before, for example, horse riding, bowling or an 80s disco. - Be cheerful
. Do you like gloomy and withdrawn men? So men don’t like sad, runaway, nervous women. Smile as often as possible, give a good mood to those around you, and kind and bright people will definitely begin to be attracted to you, among whom your lover may be.
Decide what you consider a good husband
Before you try to find a husband, it is important to decide what he should be like and why you want to get married. When you have a clear image in your head, your search will be easier, and you won’t waste yourself on what you don’t need.
Think about the fact that perhaps you don’t want a serious relationship at all, and just need some light flirting. To do this, just go to a nightclub for an easy acquaintance.
If you think that the most important indicator of a good husband is wealth, then go to those places where wealthy businessmen go: business conferences, golf clubs, summits, and so on.
Once you realize what your man should be like, you will begin to understand where you can meet such a person. Picture it in your imagination. What traits should he have, what should he do, what is taboo for him? It all has to start with an image in your head!
Look good and be confident: tip 2
For someone to love you, you have to love yourself. Imagine the man or woman of your dreams - are you really a worthy companion for such a person?
Of course, spiritual qualities are very important, but the form of this content is no less important. Whatever one may say, it is appearance that we pay attention to first of all. So take care of yourself. If you have long wanted to get in shape, sign up for the gym without delay. Leave in your wardrobe only those things that you like yourself in. Go to a hair salon or spa. Try to look like you have a dream date every day. All these measures will not only help you look better, they will give you confidence in your irresistibility, and this is what makes a person attractive.
Go out in public more often and expand your social circle: tip 3
How to find your love, where is it waiting for you? Anywhere, but not at home on the couch in front of the TV. To meet new people, you need to go to new places. Go to exhibitions, lectures and seminars on any subject that interests you, join a sports section or look for a nice skating rink, go on a trip, even if there is no company. The more you interact with people you don't know well, the better your communication skills become. This is extremely useful, especially if you are not a naturally sociable person and sometimes get lost when talking with strangers.
According to statistics from recent years, approximately 30% of relationships that ended in marriage began as a romance in the virtual space - future spouses found each other on dating sites, social networks, and Internet forums.
Passion is not love: tip 4
Even if you are very tired of loneliness and are determined to start a serious relationship, maintain a certain sobriety of mind. Fans or admirers will certainly appear after following the first three tips, but how to determine whether they are worth your attention? Is it love or not love?
The question is complex, especially since there is no single standard, there is no instrument capable of measuring the “truth” of love. This feeling is often confused with physical attraction, which can literally overwhelm and knock you down. But such hormonal storms do not last long - only a few months. And if you and the object of your passion have nothing to talk about, if his personality does not interest you and you as a person are also uninteresting to him, such a relationship is doomed.
Often, the choice is influenced not by one’s own hormones, but by the opinions of others. Your parents are delighted, your friends also like your chosen one, everyone begins to hint to you that you have finally met a couple, but this person does not evoke any special feelings in you - this is a very common situation. Don't let public opinion influence your choice. It’s easier to endure the reproaches of others that you missed such a promising option than to connect your life with someone you don’t love, just so as not to disappoint your relatives and friends.
Register on a dating site: tip 5
If you don't know where to find love, then a dating site is the most obvious answer to this question. Of course, there are also people on such sites looking for frivolous adventures, but the majority come to these resources with the goal of finding their soulmate.
British sociologist Geoffrey Gavin conducted a study in which he invited a group of randomly selected young men and women aged 19 to 26 to post their profiles on dating sites. It soon became clear that more than 70% of the subjects began relationships with their virtual acquaintances.
How to choose a dating site where you can meet your love
There are a lot of dating sites, but not all of them have a good reputation. Among the large resources, Edarling.ru and Loveplanet.ru are well known; the website Linkyou.ru provides good chances of finding your love, where you can find a person of a certain profession or religion. Those sites where the main functionality is available only to paid users can also be considered reliable - this immediately scares away frivolous people.
How to create a profile correctly
A user's profile on a dating site contains basic information about him and his photographs. Take your profile creation seriously and be honest. Provide only information that is true. What's the point of writing in the "Hobbies" section about your love of literature if all you read are business letters and food labels in the supermarket? Your profile should reflect your personality in order to attract the attention of the right people. Don't be afraid to seem weird or too original.
You should choose your photo especially carefully. Do not overuse filters and graphic editors - remember that this can lead to awkwardness and disappointment in a personal meeting. A clear photo that clearly shows your smiling face is the best option. If your goal is a serious relationship, do not post too explicit photos. Dating site specialists unanimously claim that the greatest interest is generated not by selfies or staged photographs, but by pictures in which a person is busy with some activity.
Natural selection: how to know you've found the right person
Most sites offer you likely candidates based on your profile data, as well as taking into account the wishes you have indicated. Therefore, when filling out your profile, be extremely precise, indicating age, geographic and other boundaries, otherwise you will literally be inundated with letters from people who are clearly not suitable for you.
However, you shouldn’t expect that you will find The One or The One in the first couple of days. Get ready to do the screening. It is quite obvious that people who from the very first lines offer you sex or send you candid photographs are not suitable for you - there are many men on dating sites looking for a girlfriend for the night and girls of a certain profession. But if you want to find love, these people are unlikely to interest you. Also beware of those who are clearly trying to extract as much personal information from you as possible, but do not say anything specific about themselves - this may be a sign of a scammer.
If communication goes smoothly and you are clearly interested in each other, you can make an offline date. Experts strongly recommend holding the first meeting not at home, but in a public place - if things don't go according to plan, you can always leave with your dignity intact.
Give up the search for the prince
Looking for a prince among ordinary men? This idea is doomed to failure. If you want to find a husband who seems to have stepped out of the pages of women's novels or fairy tales, you are doing yourself a disservice. Look at real men, because you are not a princess either.
Think about your life, and think about whether your attitude is preventing you from finding tangible female happiness, or whether you have drowned in fairy-tale dreams.
It seems that your demands on men are so high that they are impossible to achieve. They are the main obstacle to women's happiness. It is the thought that creates the main barriers - it is more convenient for you to think that a man is not suitable for you than to appreciate his merits.
We recommend using positive thinking. Stop thinking that good men have been “dismantled.” Think that there are many worthy candidates around you - you just need to choose. Leave the princes in a fairy tale - take a closer look at the real men around you, give them a chance.
Evaluate yourself realistically and make adequate demands
Before putting forward a number of demands on a potential husband, evaluate yourself realistically. For example, you hope to meet a rich man who loves to travel, is generous, very handsome and well-groomed. However, do you yourself meet all these requirements?
Some women reason like this: “I’m not in ideal shape right now, I don’t have time for hobbies, etc. But if there was a man with whom it’s like behind a wall, then I would take on myself, and I would do this, and I would be able to do this.” That is, an imperfect woman is looking for an ideal man so that she can become ideal with him. This rarely works—almost never.
The perfect groom will probably be looking for a bride to match. You also need to look for a man who matches your current self, but is ready to change, just like you. Don’t want to “take risks”, are you applying for another level? You must fully comply with it.
Where to find the man you love
Many women's magazines offer places to meet:
- rich and successful;
- men - intellectuals;
- romantics;
- athletes, etc.
Answering the question: “Where to find the man you love?” It should be noted that you definitely shouldn’t limit yourself in choosing a place. Why narrow the circle of potential places to meet a man when you need to be ready for a fateful meeting 24 hours a day, even at the moment when you just went out to buy bread?
It’s trite, but a man can ask you for directions while you’re walking your dog. The location is not the main thing. What is important is your readiness and openness to communicate, which can be read by your appearance. Go to the movies, a car show, a museum, or an ice skating rink.
Don't sit at home idly, but start searching
The mistake of most women: they wait for love to find them, without doing anything to achieve female happiness. To meet a person suitable for marriage, you need to take action - at least, leave the house.
If you only have enough time to moan about the unhappy fate of women and tell your girlfriends that there are no normal men left and you will remain lonely, then you will not see personal happiness for a long time.
Get down to business right now - you are the master of your destiny! Do what you want, but you don’t have to sit idly by, waiting for miracles. Come up with a clear plan of where you should go to improve your personal life. Come up with a plan and stick to it. Outings 2-3 times a month are not enough. Be more active.
The best ways to find a good husband
The most popular ways to help find a good husband:
Working on your external image
Do you think that your image is not attractive to men? So, change it! Perhaps your hair color doesn’t suit you, you need to lose weight or, conversely, gain weight. Remember when men paid attention to you most often? What did you look like? Try to get closer to this image. First, write down all the missing desired qualities on a piece of paper.
Take care of yourself to look fresh. Take a critical look at your wardrobe. If you work overtime and sleep 5 hours a day, then it will be noticeable - an exhausted appearance, circles under the eyes, red eyes. And there is no time left for quality care - it is unlikely that you will immediately charm a man. You must find a way to always look well-groomed and fresh if you want to meet love.
Working on the “inner content”
Looking great isn't worth anything if you don't have anything to talk about. Details of your friend’s personal life, the health of your relatives and your work responsibilities do not count. Read literature, world news, watch movies and programs about nature, play sports. Develop yourself if you want to impress men.
How and where to find a rich husband
Do you want a rich spouse? Visit places where they appear more often - this is the only obvious solution. Do not think that as soon as you appear in such a place, you will immediately find personal happiness - this is rare. Prepare for the fact that you will have to visit there often in order to form real acquaintances and relationships.
Develop your own plan: where you need to go several times a week to attract attention. Look for wealthy people's hobbies, vacation spots, and so on. To meet a rich man, you need to go to places where wealthy people hang out.
And in the end10
How to find your love? Lately it’s quite simple. There are the most curious situations that lead to a long-married couple laughingly recalling how they once collided in the subway or hit each other’s cars.
To meet a good guy and find true love, you should not give up any communication with people. If a girl responds rudely and tries to scare off a guy with her behavior and does not make contact, then she should not dream of personal happiness. That is why a woman should be friendly, modest and calm.
Message from the Editor
Tender words are the easiest and most accessible thing you can “give” to your soulmate. Don't forget this when you're on edge, nervous, jealous, or worried about your partner. And to minimize the number of quarrels and insults, communicate with each other. Almost any problem can be resolved with a few phrases. There is no point in complicating things and inventing some methods on how to strengthen your relationship with your partner. Try to talk and discuss problems as they arise - this is a method that works in all areas of our lives without exception. Respect your other half and never swear!
How to attract a rich man and how to keep him
Rich men, like poor men, like completely different girls and women. That is, if you are a potential husband’s type, he will pay attention to you. A lot depends on you too: choose a wardrobe, tidy up your hair, teeth, skin - you must be completely confident in yourself when communicating with a wealthy person. Your natural charisma will do the rest for you. The main thing is the meeting. It will be easier later.
Retention is more difficult than arousing interest. Rich men do not tolerate manifestations of commercialism, and if the goal is not a fleeting affair, but a long-term relationship and marriage, do not treat your chosen one as an ATM.
Rich men often have ladies hovering around them, so he always has a choice. Solution: be multifaceted. Look for new interests, hobbies, develop yourself - be interesting.
If your chosen one is rich, then try not to show that this fact forced you to choose some special strategy. Communicate with him as with an ordinary man, do not try to please him in everything.
Is it possible to find a husband on the Internet?
Various men register on the dating site - and worthy ones too. Many of them do not have time for their personal lives. They are passionate about work, rarely go to crowded places, and have no personal life. A dating site is a common thing for them. They don’t “throw themselves” at everyone, so your profile should show that you are “the one.” How to attract a decent man on the Internet?
Submission of the questionnaire
Think about what kind of woman a worthy and successful man is looking for. What image will catch his attention when he scrolls through the photos on the site. Do you match this image? Can a man, looking at your profile on the Internet, decide - this woman is worthy, she suits me?
Get closer to this ideal woman. Develop yourself, choose the appropriate wardrobe and hobbies.
Decide on a photo
Your choice: high-quality professional photographs, without an abundance of retouching. Your image: positive, feminine.
What pictures should I show? Giving an idea of hobbies and life. Example: you are in the mountains, with a dog, by a lake, in a beautiful city, on a picnic, at a concert. Optimal number of photos: 4-5. Have a baby? Please indicate this in the special column. Photos of the child are not needed in the application form. Initially, a man is looking for a life partner.
Forget about candid beach photos. This will attract the attention of an unnecessary contingent, and may scare away a worthy candidate. A photo of you in a tight-fitting and not vulgar dress can demonstrate a good figure.
Personal information
Good external data is not enough to keep a man’s attention on your profile. Save him and yourself time by providing important information. A man should read the information about you and form a first impression. What to describe: important feminine qualities, hobbies, wishes for your future partner, priorities, values. Don't focus on your career or business achievements.
Requirement for a man
Main mistakes: the owner of the questionnaire skips this point or presents an endless list of requirements.
Write briefly, specifically, what qualities you want to see in a potential chosen one.
Initiative
The time for exclusively male initiative has passed. The Internet makes it possible to independently find a person who meets the required parameters. Decent men physically don’t have time to look through all the profiles - yours may not get around to it.
Do you see that the man meets all the criteria? Don't be shy, write to him - you have nothing to lose. Mandatory condition: call him by name, ask about a topic related to his hobby. Forget about the banal: “How are you?” But don’t overdo it with the message: a long introductory word will be unnecessary.
Conducting correspondence
Be yourself. More precisely: demonstrate your best character traits. Write positively, forget about your ex. Compliment the man. You started communicating with him - it means you liked something, mark it. Feel free to highlight its positive aspects.
An important rule: don’t get stuck in constant correspondence. This is a mistake and a trap. The drawn image will crumble upon meeting. There is no need for lengthy correspondence. The illusion of a romance often develops into a waste of time. One or two days of correspondence is enough. Is the man silent about the meeting? A warning sign. Nominate it yourself. Are there excuses and requests for further correspondence? We recommend saving time and switching.
Meeting
Meetings are held individually. Options: active date on horseback, conversation in a cafe, amusement park. It is recommended to choose calm options for the first date in order to be able to communicate without haste, without being distracted by extraneous phenomena. Tell us about your hobbies, ask about the man’s hobbies. Try to talk a little less than you listen. Taboos: unsolicited advice, bragging, long conversations about work.
How to find a husband if you are far from 18
There are no problems finding a husband either at 18 or at 40, if you look in the “right” places. More mature women should pay attention to their place of work. Is the team mixed? Surely, there is a person in it who suits you. Do you think that there are no normal men among the dozens around you? The problem is excessive demands. Take a closer look at the company's unmarried employees, clients and partners. Fateful meetings can happen on a business trip, at a seminar, or training. Women 30 years and older are more likely to find a husband at work.
Second place: social network. Dating sites, interest groups. Limiting yourself to the Internet is a mistake. You need to go to different places: pubs, cinemas, cafes, exhibitions, concerts, football matches, the gym.
Visit public places - increase your chances of meeting a potential husband. Study your everyday environment. A new “wonderful neighbor” could be your destiny. Consider the options, think about it, get involved in an active search.
A fateful meeting is possible at a gas station or in a parking lot. Options: supermarket, shopping center, auto show and so on. An important condition: take the initiative. If you see an interesting free man, start a dialogue. Ask for advice, help, give a compliment, smile. He will do the rest himself if he is interested. It’s dangerous to overdo it: obsession will work against you.
Hiking, weekend trips
You can meet your love anywhere, even in a clinic or while traveling in a crowded minibus. But such an acquaintance will not be romantic. A truly unforgettable meeting can take place outdoors, where the sky is bluer, the stars are brighter, and the grass is many times greener. Here it is - a great opportunity to find a romantic guy.
On a hike, a person becomes real. It is fenced off from the bustle of the city. If the hike lasts several days, then it will show what a person really is like, how he behaves in difficult and unusual situations.
In a close camping atmosphere, acquaintances happen naturally. People don’t just go on hikes; people there are united by a common idea.
If you are not able or in the mood to go hiking, then you can use a weekend tour to get acquainted. Weekend trips are gaining popularity, so you can meet a potential beau there. How to behave with the man you like?
- Ask questions, be curious. That is, behave like an ordinary tourist.
- Ask a guy to take a photo of you, don’t refuse to help yourself.
- Pay attention to the guy's clothes and appearance. Perhaps some detail will serve as a reason to start a conversation. For example, the logo of his favorite band on his cap.
- Show your erudition. A few days before your trip, read about the place you are going to. Start the conversation something like this: “Did you know that this cafe serves the most delicious blueberry pies?”
- Stock up on a small gift. This could be a sweet or a souvenir. With its help, you can cheer up a man and start communication.
How to look for a husband if you have a child
Statistics say: a 30-year-old woman with a child is more attractive to a man than a single woman.
Life proves statistics regularly, but single mothers are still not confident in themselves. Some men feed into the stereotype, hoping to get a quickie from a woman who has lost confidence in herself. Other women are also belittled by such men. If you take seriously the statement of a separate contingent, you will undermine your self-esteem, lose good relationships by agreeing to unworthy ones.
How to find a husband for a single mother? First, find time for yourself - improve your appearance, develop your personal qualities. This is possible with a small child, but it is necessary. You are not only a mother, but also a woman - treat yourself to effective cosmetic procedures, a good book, a concert.
Be in public regularly. Visit cafes, cinemas, shopping centers, crowded places - this increases the chance of meeting a potential husband.
Important: do not consider your baby a burden! Be proud of your child! He is your wonderful continuation. There is no need to bashfully mention it or hide it behind your back. You shouldn’t impose it, but talk about it calmly and with love - a man should see that you are a good woman and mother.
Having a baby and a strong desire for a complete family is not a reason to grab just anyone. Be picky. You are responsible not only for yourself, but also for the fate of the child. Everyone has heard stories about terrible stepfathers who broke a child's psyche. No stamp in a passport or “a man nearby” is worth such sacrifices - your child should not be a victim of the wrong choice.
Take your search for a husband seriously. Forget about short-term relationships, hasty lunchtime dates - do not devalue the importance of the beginning of a relationship and yourself in the eyes of a potential partner.
Decent single men have a positive attitude towards women with children. She was able to succeed as a mother, she had a negative relationship experience, she knows perfectly well what she wants. She has an established life, she is “at home”, she does not waste time on endless meetings with her friends, she is serious about building new relationships. Respect your personal life and the man who is not to blame for your troubles. There is a time for everything - remember this.
How to find a husband for a woman with a child
A woman with a child should approach the choice of a companion with special responsibility, since she already has experience of unsuccessful relationships, and in the process of building new ones, she not only acquires a beloved man for herself, but also a person who will later replace the child’s father. Many people believe that men avoid such women, so they advise hiding this fact when meeting them. The strategy of behavior is fundamentally wrong, since with each new meeting it will be more and more difficult to talk about the baby, and your behavior will be strange for an unsuspecting man. You will have to lie more and more about the need to be absent often, about why you break off dates and do not invite him to spend the night with you. All the same, this fact will become known and then it risks turning into a scandal based on your lies.
Take your time, even if loneliness lasts several years. It takes time for your inner readiness for relationships and time for them to appear. Start gradually freeing up your evenings to pursue your hobbies, make masks, read, meet friends. Your task is to spend evenings with pleasure or for your development.
Children usually force a woman to concentrate on everyday life and their lives, and men are interested in those who are interested in something else and look happy. Get in shape, attend various events, but don’t focus entirely on finding a husband, forgetting about your children’s needs for maternal participation. You can do some things together, but sometimes he will be left to his own devices. If the baby gets used to this, then when your attention is occupied by a man, he will not throw tantrums and feel abandoned.
Organize parties at home and invite guests - this way you and your child will get used to other people on your territory. Go out for walks, smile at people, don’t be afraid to communicate. And the child himself can help, and not hinder, meeting your future husband. Children are open and spontaneous, so do not rush to pull your child back if he pesters a man with questions or games; perhaps he has a better sense of who is right for you.
